{"id":2597,"date":"2020-05-06T11:28:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T11:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2597"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:22:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:22:46","slug":"carta-homem-vitima-de-abuso-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-homem-vitima-de-abuso-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que abusou de mim emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gostavas de me fazer chorar esta noite \u00e0 frente dos outros outra vez. Gostarias de cortar as minhas veias com as tuas palavras como se estivesses a usar a l\u00e2mina mais afiada.<\/p>\n

Gostarias de me deixar triste, mesmo que eu esteja feliz. Gostavas de me tornar feia, mesmo que eu seja a mulher mais bonita da sala. Querida, tudo isto \u00e9 bem conhecido por mim.<\/p>\n

That’s what my life was during the last year spent with you. What are you going to do to me that you haven’t done before?<\/p>\n

Tu s\u00f3 fazias todos aqueles duelos sem honra e honestidade. Deixavas-me louco, apesar de eu ser normal.<\/p>\n

You would make me insecure even if I was so sure about things in my life. Now, I decided it’s done. And I have a message for you: \u201cYou can cuddle with me, you can rape me, you can kill me\u2014it’s all the same to me.<\/p>\n

There is no mercy for you anymore. God is leading my hand and tonight, your victim is holding the sword of her abuser.\u201d<\/p>\n

I don’t want to think about you anymore. I don’t want to make my life miserable because you are there.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I am just sad because I couldn’t discover all those latent sinais de abuso emocional<\/a> no tempo.<\/p>\n

You know what you did to me and you didn’t feel any remorse about that. For everything that happened to you it was \u201cmy fault\u201d. Of course, abusers talk like this.<\/p>\n

Do you remember all those times when you were silent? Now I know it was your way to punish me. You didn’t respect me and you didn’t care about how I felt.<\/p>\n

Tinha medo de falar \u00e0 tua frente porque tudo o que dizia estava errado. Tu fazias-me sentir assim.<\/p>\n

So, it was better to keep my mouth shut. Until you approach me first. To tell me another lie again. That I am everything valuable you have. That I am your lucky charm. I can’t believe I was buying that shit.<\/p>\n

I still remember all those ugly jokes about me. You didn’t think twice and you told them to your friends.<\/p>\n

Estavam a gozar comigo enquanto eu estava sentada sozinha e me perguntava o que se passava comigo.<\/p>\n

Agora sei que estava tudo bem comigo. O meu maior erro<\/a> was to give my heart to an asshole who didn’t know to cherish me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You never gave me a gift for my birthday. You weren’t there when I delivered our first baby. You didn’t respect my wishes because eras um psicopata.<\/a><\/p>\n

Quando travo agora e olho para tr\u00e1s, Admiro o qu\u00e3o forte eu era.<\/a> Mas, sabes, at\u00e9 as mulheres mais fortes acabam por se cansar. Da falta de amor. Da falta de respeito. Falta de bondade e honestidade.<\/p>\n

Eu tamb\u00e9m. Tinha raz\u00f5es para viver, por isso escolhi uma vida sem ti. E essa foi a melhor decis\u00e3o da minha vida.<\/p>\n

Agora h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m especial na minha vida. Ele ensinou-me a amar de novo. Mostrou-me como deve ser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 palavras suficientes para lhe agradecer por o ter feito. E a si?<\/p>\n

I hope you will find someone who will do to you all the things you have done to me. That’s the only way you can learn a lesson.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que aprendi a minha e nunca me contentarei com menos na minha vida.<\/a><\/p>\n

Obrigada por me mostrarem que o mundo \u00e9 suficientemente belo, mesmo que n\u00e3o fa\u00e7am parte dele!<\/p>\n

O teu ex-amante<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You would like to make me cry tonight in front of the others again. You would like to cut my veins with your words like you are using the sharpest blade. You would like to make me sad even if I am happy. You would like to make me ugly even if I am the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":92035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2597","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Emotionally-Abused-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2597","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2597"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2597\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2597"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2597"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2597"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}