{"id":26056,"date":"2019-10-17T08:03:49","date_gmt":"2019-10-17T08:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26056"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:50:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:50:27","slug":"penso-demasiado-porque-me-envias-sinais-contraditorios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/penso-demasiado-porque-me-envias-sinais-contraditorios\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu penso demais porque voc\u00ea me envia sinais contradit\u00f3rios"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yes, I analyze everything regarding you and our \u2018relationship\u2019. <\/span>Disseco cada movimento que fazes, em busca de significados ocultos. Questiono e verifico literalmente cada palavra que sai da tua boca antes de acreditar em ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sou capaz de inventar uma centena de cen\u00e1rios diferentes do que aconteceu antes de chegar ao fundo das coisas.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that I don\u2019t believe any word you say. That I constantly doubt your intentions and that I assume you are always lying, even when you are probably not.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, a verdade \u00e9 que sou um <\/b>pensador excessivo<\/b><\/a>. E isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo de que me orgulhe. <\/b><\/p>\n

De facto, por vezes, chego mesmo a pensar que a minha an\u00e1lise me vai deixar completamente louca.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that for a long time, I\u2019ve used overthinking as a form of a defense mechanism. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca soube qual era a minha posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti, nem o que esperar a seguir, e pensei que seria capaz de prever o teu pr\u00f3ximo passo e poupar-me a muitas dores de cabe\u00e7a, se conseguisse descobrir a tua personalidade misteriosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after all these years, I finally understand that you were never complex or mysterious\u2014you were just an asshole. And I was crazy for letting you mistreat me and for allowing you to change me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante muito tempo, culpei-me pela minha forma de estar. Sentia-me culpada por ser uma pessoa que pensa demais, assumindo que o meu excesso de an\u00e1lise s\u00f3 prejudicava a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas depois, finalmente, percebi que o meu excesso de pensamento nunca foi culpa minha. Isto pode ser a \u00faltima coisa que queres ouvir, mas a verdade \u00e9 que eu sou um pensador excessivo porque tu me tornaste num.<\/b><\/p>\n

You know very well that I wasn\u2019t like this when we first met. You know I was a spontaneous, open-hearted girl who believed in people.<\/span> <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas depois come\u00e7aste a brincar com a minha mente e com o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o,<\/b> you started confusing me to the point where I didn\u2019t have the slightest clue of what was going on between us. <\/b><\/p>\n

Depois come\u00e7aste a enviar-me <\/b>sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/b><\/a> which I didn\u2019t have any way of interpreting.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>\n

E foi a\u00ed que comecei a ter noites sem dormir, a tentar perceber quais eram as tuas verdadeiras inten\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

Alguma vez te preocupaste comigo? Ou apenas gostaste de me ter por perto? O que significava quando passavas uma semana inteira a ignorar-me completamente e depois voltavas a rastejar para mim, prometendo-me o teu amor eterno logo na semana seguinte? <\/span><\/p>\n

All of these questions were going through my mind and I wasn\u2019t getting the answers I needed to get from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi ent\u00e3o que comecei a tentar ler os teus textos nas entrelinhas para poder, pelo menos, adivinhar as tuas verdadeiras inten\u00e7\u00f5es. Foi quando comecei a escutar atentamente o tom da tua voz para poder ouvir at\u00e9 as coisas que n\u00e3o me estavas a dizer.<\/b><\/p>\n

Foi nessa altura que fiquei obcecado com as suas contas nas redes sociais, tentando encontrar pistas de outras raparigas na sua vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

When I started questioning why you didn\u2019t reply to my texts, when I started doubting why you were too busy to see me and when I lost all of my trust in you.<\/span><\/p>\n

A partir desse momento, dediquei todos os meus esfor\u00e7os a tentar adivinhar os seus pensamentos e os seus pr\u00f3ximos passos. <\/b><\/p>\n

Esforcei-me ao m\u00e1ximo para decifrar a forma como me olhavas, mandavas mensagens e telefonavas. Esforcei-me ao m\u00e1ximo para tentar decifrar-te sem sucesso.<\/b><\/p>\n

E tudo isto fez de mim um pensador excessivo. Na verdade, tu fizeste de mim um pensador excessivo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because if you had been honest about your intentions from the start, I wouldn\u2019t have been forced to analyze your every signal. I would never have been torn apart between being convinced that you loved me and thinking you couldn\u2019t care less about me in the very next moment. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you had been clear about your feelings, I wouldn\u2019t have had to search for non-existent clues of your love for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se tivesses estado pronto para <\/span>put a label on our \u2018relationship<\/span><\/a>\u2019, I wouldn\u2019t have spent endless nights trying to decode you. If you had been consistent, I wouldn\u2019t have had to question every little detail of your personality, trying to find a reason for your behavior.  <\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been this unpredictable and if I had known what to expect from you, I wouldn\u2019t have had to wonder if you ever cared about me at all. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been disappearing from my life and coming back the way you wanted, I wouldn\u2019t have had to try to decipher every single move you made.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t played mind games with me, I wouldn\u2019t have wasted years of my life trying to figure you out. <\/b><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t sent me all those mixed signals, I would have known exactly where I stood and I wouldn\u2019t have had the need to overthink. <\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yes, I analyze everything regarding you and our \u2018relationship\u2019. I dissect every move you make, in the search of hidden meanings. I question and check literally every word that comes out of your mouth before I believe you. I am able to come up with a hundred different case scenarios of what happened before I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/velizar-ivanov-1103339-unsplash-4.jpg",800,589,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26056"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26056\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}