{"id":26059,"date":"2018-10-17T08:06:59","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T08:06:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26059"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:00:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:00:57","slug":"tu-esgotaste-me-emocionalmente-mas-eu-aprendi-a-recompor-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tu-esgotaste-me-emocionalmente-mas-eu-aprendi-a-recompor-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu esgotaste-me emocionalmente, mas eu aprendi a recompor-me"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sempre fui aquela rapariga que tinha as coisas sempre organizadas.<\/p>\n

Pouca coisa me afectava e eu sabia sempre o que fazer, independentemente do que a vida me atirava.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 provavelmente por isso que muitos dos meus amigos se dirigiam sempre a mim quando enfrentavam dificuldades ou estavam simplesmente infelizes por qualquer raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I was so used to being everybody\u2019s rock, including YOURS, that I forgot how to be my own.<\/p>\n

At first, I didn\u2019t mind it that much. I guess that\u2019s what happens when you get used to a certain way of life.<\/p>\n

I loved that I was the one everybody turned to, and that I could help someone I love in any way. That\u2019s what you do for people you love, right?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re there for them.<\/p>\n

Mas s\u00f3 quando Te conheci \u00e9 que me apercebi do peso que isso tinha em mim e de como me comecei a sentir lentamente sobrecarregada.<\/p>\n

It was like my world was slowly starting to crumble under my feet, and I didn\u2019t know how to stop it.<\/p>\n

Entraste na minha vida como um furac\u00e3o e lentamente come\u00e7aste a transformar-me naquilo que precisavas que eu fosse.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t realize this at first because you knew just how to do it, without me noticing. You were so smooth with your words and charmed the hell out of me, so much so that I felt like I was under your spell at times.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s what every master manipulator does. I only wish I had been able to see through your disguise back then.<\/p>\n

Pensei que estava apaixonada.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, fez-me sentir como se estivesse no topo do mundo!<\/p>\n

Falaste do nosso futuro juntos, e eu estava nas nuvens. Nem num milh\u00e3o de anos pensei que era apenas o teu jogo doentio e ego\u00edsta, um meio para atingir um fim.<\/p>\n

Mas, pelo menos, aprendi muito com isso.<\/p>\n

Quando tiveste a certeza de que me apaixonei por ti total e completamente, come\u00e7aste lentamente a tirar-me peda\u00e7os da minha felicidade, a esvaziar-me de tudo o que eu sabia e de tudo o que eu era.<\/p>\n

Deixei-te porque eras tudo o que eu queria e acreditei em ti.<\/p>\n

Acreditava que nunca farias nada para me magoar ou mudar. Tinha tanta certeza de que me amavas tanto quanto eu te amava, que te dei a minha alma e n\u00e3o pedi nada em troca.<\/p>\n

Stupid, I know. But back then, I didn\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n

De uma rapariga segura de si que controlava a sua vida e as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, passei a ser uma mera sombra do que era. Sentia que precisava de pedir a tua permiss\u00e3o para praticamente tudo.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know how, but You managed to make me sentir-me t\u00e3o pequeno e inseguro<\/a> that my friends didn\u2019t recognize me anymore.<\/p>\n

I was not the girl they all knew, and I should\u2019ve listened. But your power over me was so strong, how could I?<\/p>\n

I never thought I would be THAT girl. The girl who would let a scheming conniver enter her life and change her so profoundly that she couldn\u2019t look at herself in the mirror anymore. The girl who was now ashamed of what had become of her. The girl who gave her all and got nothing in return but shame and regret.<\/p>\n

Dir-me-iam que o amor exige sacrif\u00edcios. Sim, mas n\u00e3o se eu fosse a \u00daNICA a fazer o sacrif\u00edcio!<\/p>\n

You would also tell me that it\u2019s normal for a person to change (\u2018adapt\u2019 was your exact word) when in a serious relationship. Sure, but I was the only one left completely changed!<\/p>\n

Once I realized that I was no longer the person I was before you came into my life, I decided that I\u2019d had ENOUGH of You. I had taken it for too long, and it was time I took back control of my life.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente me apercebi que me tinha perdido em ti, e N\u00c3O no bom sentido, olhei-me bem no espelho e disse a mim pr\u00f3pria que merecia mais.<\/p>\n

Isto N\u00c3O era o que eu queria, e qualquer que fosse o amor que eu pudesse ter sentido por ti, n\u00e3o valia a luta constante e a mis\u00e9ria que eu sentia todos os dias.<\/p>\n

Eu estava farta de me p\u00f4r em segundo lugar e de me deixar para tr\u00e1s na minha pr\u00f3pria vida!<\/p>\n

I mattered. My emotions mattered. My sanity MATTERED. You \u2013 not so much. Not anymore! And once I realized that, everything else was so easy.<\/p>\n

I will never allow myself to experience such profound emptiness and loss of identity for a guy who is not worth another thought. So this is my goodbye. I am back to my old self, and You can\u2019t do anything about it anymore.<\/p>\n

I have found and regained my peace of mind again, and I\u2019m never giving it back.<\/p>\n

\"Tu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I was always that girl who had her shit together at all times. Not much could affect me, and I always knew what to do, no matter what life threw at me. That is probably why many of my friends would always turn to me when they were facing any difficulties or were just unhappy…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26061,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lydz-leow-1075298-unsplash-1.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26059"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26059\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26061"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}