{"id":2610,"date":"2017-07-17T13:44:47","date_gmt":"2017-07-17T13:44:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2610"},"modified":"2022-02-14T23:50:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T23:50:54","slug":"saber-tempo-dar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/saber-tempo-dar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se sabe que est\u00e1 na altura de desistir dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca fui um desistente. Sou teimosa, persistente e luto at\u00e9 que o \u00faltimo \u00e1tomo da minha for\u00e7a se desvane\u00e7a. Mas mesmo assim, eu sabia que tinha de desistir dele.<\/p>\n

It took me so long to realize that sometimes it is better to give up. And this is a story about people who eventually gave up on each other. This is a story about me, you, and all the other girls who need to get their shit together and give up on someone who isn\u2019t willing to fight for them.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s so difficult to accept the fact that he\u2019s just part of your history now. Looking back at all the wonderful memories feels like someone is ripping your heart off. I know that everything we had built together collapsed. It hurts.<\/p>\n

Eu sou a rainha neste reino de vazio. Reina o meu reinado, rodeado pelas ru\u00ednas da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada que foram deixadas para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 uma coisa que preciso que saibas. Eu n\u00e3o sou fraca porque decidi desistir de algu\u00e9m que claramente doesn\u2019t see me beside him anymore<\/a>. I am not weak because I decided I\u2019ve had enough of him belittling me. I am not weak because I finally put myself first.<\/p>\n

Ser capaz de desistir de algu\u00e9m que desistiu de si \u00e9 a parte mais importante do feio processo de cura ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n

Deix\u00e1-lo ir sabe t\u00e3o bem. I can\u2019t say I\u2019m happy<\/a>, not yet. But honestly, I\u2019m satisfied. I made myself proud after so many disappointments in life. I know it takes time, but I also know I will turn out to be the strongest version of myself.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s stop fighting for guys who don\u2019t see how special and beautiful we are. Please, let\u2019s stop wasting our youth and our lives on those who aren\u2019t worth it. It\u2019s not silly to ask for a guy who will think you\u2019re the greatest thing that ever happened to him. I\u2019m not silly and neither are you. We deserve someone who cares that much.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a quitter because, from now on, I refuse to lie to myself and say I can change him. I\u2019m still a full-time fighter. I\u2019ve just decided to fight for other things in life. I\u2019m not happy, not yet. But, I want to fight for my happiness.<\/p>\n

I feel your pain. I know he left you as a broken piece of glass shattered on the floor. I\u2019ve been there. I am here to tell you that you should never feel ashamed or guilty because you gave up on someone who didn\u2019t think you\u2019re freaking amazing.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to be frustrated, sad, angry, or anxious. It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re weak. Nobody said it would be easy.<\/p>\n

Um dia, encontraremos essa pessoa que ser\u00e1 tudo o que sempre precis\u00e1mos.<\/a> I\u2019m not a quitter, but I\u2019d rather wait for someone who is really worth fighting for. And when I meet him, I want to be able to reflect the very best version of myself.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be a lonely queen in this kingdom of emptiness, but my king will have to fight very difficult battles if he wants to sit next to me. I promise, it will be worth it.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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