{"id":26159,"date":"2020-09-18T07:11:16","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T07:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26159"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:57:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:57:43","slug":"ela-ama-muito-porque-sabe-como-e-ser-amada-tao-pouco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-ama-muito-porque-sabe-como-e-ser-amada-tao-pouco\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela ama muito porque sabe como \u00e9 ser t\u00e3o pouco amada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 verdade. Ela ainda acredita no amor, apesar de tudo o que lhe aconteceu.<\/p>\n<p>Ela foi quebrada t\u00e3o severamente que mal conseguiu se recompor. Foi privada de amor durante tanto tempo que se sentiu entorpecida durante muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, the easiest path for her would be to give up on love entirely. But she doesn\u2019t know how to do that. She can\u2019t do that. She loves hard, and she is brave enough to give love a try no matter what the risks.<\/p>\n<p>She believes that love is worth the risk. She believes that it\u2019s still out there. She just needs to find someone who will love as hard as she does.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ela ama sem se conter, porque tudo o que conseguiu foram vislumbres de amor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>She loves loudly and fiercely. She doesn\u2019t know how to hide her emotions, and there is no point in doing that anyway. She will openly show she cares.<\/p>\n<p>She will text back as soon as she sees the message because she doesn\u2019t want to play games or ignore another person. She knows how awful it feels when you are waiting for a reply that always comes too late.<\/p>\n<p>She will find time even during her busiest week for someone who is important. She knows all too well how it feels to get only crumbs of somebody&#8217;s attention. She knows how awful it is to think that they are there just when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116895\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher calma ao ar livre com os olhos fechados\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to cause that pain to another person. Her past hasn\u2019t left her bitter and with a desire for revenge. It taught her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-licoes-que-aprendi-depois-de-ter-o-coracao-partido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">li\u00e7\u00f5es inestim\u00e1veis<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that making someone new pay for somebody else\u2019s sins wouldn\u2019t change anything. Instead, she has made it her life\u2019s mission to make sure that she never causes somebody the pain she has endured.<\/p>\n<p><b>Faz mais esfor\u00e7os do que devia porque nenhum foi feito para ela. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Um pouco de esfor\u00e7o, um passo na sua dire\u00e7\u00e3o, algu\u00e9m que desse pelo menos metade do que ela est\u00e1 a dar era tudo o que ela precisava e nunca teve.<\/p>\n<p>She is all in or not there at all. She always gives more, some would say even too much, but she doesn\u2019t know how to give half of herself to someone she feels deeply for.<\/p>\n<p>Ela \u00e9 t\u00e3o atenciosa e gosta de fazer com que as pessoas se sintam especiais, especialmente algu\u00e9m por quem est\u00e1 apaixonada. Ela encontra sempre uma nova forma de o fazer saber que est\u00e1 a pensar nele e que sente a sua falta sempre que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 por perto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ela ouve porque n\u00e3o havia ningu\u00e9m para a ouvir quando ela mais precisava. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ela ouvia e apoiava sempre, mas ainda mais agora que sabe como \u00e9 dif\u00edcil estar com algu\u00e9m e sentir-se sozinha. Ela nunca teve o sistema de apoio de que precisava.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116896\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com roupa informal descansa no exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She never had somebody to help her carry the burdens. She always had to do it alone. She always carried everybody else\u2019s, too. The weight of the world was on her shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that she can\u2019t always help. She knows that she can\u2019t solve everybody&#8217;s problems, but she also knows how important it is to listen. She knows that just being there is enough.<\/p>\n<p><b>She had nothing that&#8217;s why she\u2019s ready to give everything to the right person. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>She loves hard because she knows how it feels to be loved so little. She doesn\u2019t want that for anybody. She doesn\u2019t want it for herself either.<\/p>\n<p>Essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o horr\u00edvel ainda a persegue. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ha-uma-grande-diferenca-entre-lutar-pelo-amor-e-implorar-por-ele\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Love shouldn\u2019t be begged for<\/a>. Love shouldn\u2019t be chased. Love shouldn\u2019t restrain and cage anybody. She knows that now.<\/p>\n<p>Ela aprendeu as suas li\u00e7\u00f5es e far\u00e1 o seu melhor para n\u00e3o repetir os mesmos erros. Ela \u00e9 capaz de detetar todas as bandeiras vermelhas a quil\u00f3metros de dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n<p>She will do her best to choose better next time love knocks on her door. She will make sure that love is real or she won\u2019t open at all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116893\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ela ama muito porque sabe como \u00e9 ser t\u00e3o pouco amada\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s true. She still believes in love in spite of everything that has happened to her. She was broken so severely that she barely managed to put herself back together. She was love-deprived so long that it left her feeling numb for a long while. And yes, the easiest path for her would be to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26159\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}