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<\/p>\nConheces a hist\u00f3ria de Narciso?<\/b> A hist\u00f3ria \u00e9 assim: Havia um ca\u00e7ador grego conhecido pela sua beleza.<\/p>\n
Era filho de um deus do rio e de uma ninfa, extremamente orgulhoso de si pr\u00f3prio, mas desdenhava aqueles que o amavam.<\/p>\n
Um dia, os deuses repararam na sua arrog\u00e2ncia e atra\u00edram-no para a piscina, onde ele viu o seu reflexo na \u00e1gua e se apaixonou instantaneamente.<\/p>\n
Incapaz de deixar a beleza do seu reflexo, Narciso perdeu a vontade de viver. Ficou a olhar para o seu reflexo at\u00e9 morrer.<\/p>\n
What about the Narcissus you\u2019re dating?<\/b> You are expecting to be the one to change him, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n
You think you\u2019ll be the one that\u2019s different and that you will be worth changing for.<\/p>\n
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You might not be aware, but the term \u2018narcissism\u2019 is the concept of excessive selfishness and it\u2019s mainly linked to vanity and self-admiration.<\/b><\/p>\n
This may not ring any bells, but I\u2019m sure there are things in this article that\u2019ll be more than familiar to you.<\/p>\n
Every single girl in this world likes to see herself as \u2018the special one\u2019, the one that\u2019s worth changing for.<\/b><\/p>\n
And the truth is we are special, and there are guys out there who\u2019ll do their best to be better men for us. I hate to break it to you, but that guy is not your narcissist.<\/b><\/p>\n
He\u2019s not going to change nor for you nor for any other girl in this world and there is not much you can do about it.<\/b><\/p>\n
I hate to be the one to tell people to walk away, but is all of what you\u2019re going through worth your time?<\/p>\n
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You are more than aware how he behaves towards you and that you\u2019ll never be on the throne, at least not permanently, because that seat has been taken a long time ago.<\/p>\n
You struggle to have your views and feelings heard and of course, it\u2019s \u2018your fault\u2019 that he forgets something\u2014you didn\u2019t bother to remind him<\/b> !<\/p>\n
He\u2019s the one to overstep and use others without consideration or any sensitivity. It just doesn\u2019t touch him in any way. It\u2019s all he needs to do for his vanity and he\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s as if he likes to do things to impress others. He does it by making himself look good externally.<\/b><\/p>\n
This is also known as a \u2018trophy\u2019 complex.<\/b> Ele tem a necessidade de se exibir fisicamente, romanticamente, sexualmente, financeiramente e sabe Deus de que outra forma.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s his way to tell others: \u201d I\u2019m better than you\u201d because, in his mind, the world revolves around him.<\/p>\n
Relacionadas: O guia definitivo para ignorar um narcisista (Spotting and The Aftermath)<\/a><\/p>\n See, he has this gift\u2014you know this best\u2014to be very charismatic and persuasive when he\u2019s interested in somebody. <\/b><\/p>\n He can make you feel really special and wanted. He can be the funniest and the kindest person in order to win you over. The downside of this is the fact that it isn\u2019t permanent.<\/p>\n Quando ele perde o interesse em si (sobretudo porque conseguiu o que queria\/precisava ou porque encontrou algo mais interessante), pode deix\u00e1-la sem pensar duas vezes.<\/p>\n Because he\u2019s only interested in a person for his own gratification.<\/b><\/p>\n Outro grande dom dele s\u00e3o as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas.<\/b> Let\u2019s not talk about his need to disdain everything, the topic here is your feelings.<\/p>\n Muitas vezes faz-nos sentir inseguros e desequilibrados.<\/b><\/p>\n Relacionadas: Sinais de obsess\u00e3o: 10 sinais de que ele \u00e9 perigosamente obsessivo, n\u00e3o apaixonado<\/a><\/p>\n <\/b> Maybe you don\u2019t notice he\u2019s doing it on purpose or you\u2019re doing your best to meet his expectations, but there isn\u2019t a final line\u2014you\u2019ll keep running the never-ending marathon because the finish line is always moving.<\/p>\n Nunca conseguir\u00e1 atingir as suas expectativas e sabe porqu\u00ea? Porque it\u2019s not you, it\u2019 him.<\/b><\/p>\n He\u2019s making you feel like that because he needs you to feel insecure so he can feel superior.<\/b> It\u2019s what gives him strength in the morning. He feeds on it.<\/p>\n You may mistake him for a alpha man when he\u2019s, in fact, just making decisions for others to suit his own needs.<\/p>\n Ele pode us\u00e1-la para satisfazer as suas necessidades irracionais ou para encobrir as suas inadequa\u00e7\u00f5es e falhas.<\/p>\n And now comes the refusal part. It\u2019s the part where you deny anything that\u2019s been said because this way it\u2019s much easier.<\/b><\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach.jpg\")
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