{"id":26210,"date":"2018-10-18T09:25:14","date_gmt":"2018-10-18T09:25:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26210"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:59:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:59:18","slug":"se-me-queres-ter-tens-toda-a-minha-pessoa-e-nao-apenas-as-partes-boas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-me-queres-ter-tens-toda-a-minha-pessoa-e-nao-apenas-as-partes-boas\/","title":{"rendered":"Se me queres, ficas com toda a minha pessoa - e n\u00e3o apenas com as partes boas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Love is a mysterious thing. At one moment, it consumes every fiber of your being, and it\u2019s like nothing in the world exists but the other person. All you want is to just drown yourself in the ocean of his love.<\/span><\/p>\n

At other times, it\u2019s harder. You feel like you are so <\/span>dif\u00edcil de amar<\/span><\/a>, but you don\u2019t know why. You feel something is not right with you, but you can\u2019t quite put a finger on what it is.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like a stranger in your own body, and you just want to scream from the top of your lungs, but you don\u2019t. You don\u2019t want to risk losing him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those are the moments that are the crossroads of your relationship. Those are the moments that will decide whether you two have what it takes to weather the storms that are nearing your relationship. NOW is when you give it your all and don\u2019t give up on each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 alturas em que ser\u00e1<\/span> dif\u00edcil<\/span><\/a> para ser amado. Haver\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m alturas em que ele ser\u00e1 o mesmo. Esses s\u00e3o os momentos que definem a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. O que \u00e9 que vai fazer quando deixar de ser f\u00e1cil? O que \u00e9 que ele vai fazer?<\/span><\/p>\n

O que vai acontecer quando o sol deixar de brilhar na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e houver nuvens negras no horizonte? Quando as coisas que antes eram t\u00e3o f\u00e1ceis se tornarem as coisas que tornam t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil ficar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Lately, I\u2019ve been feeling like I am a hard person to love. I\u2019ve been thinking about what it is that happens in a person that complicates something that should be so easy. Why is it so simple and natural to love me when I am at my best, when it\u2019s all sunshine and rainbows?<\/span><\/p>\n

And why is it so hard to accept that along with my good side, the one you love so much, comes a dark one? A side that is not as pleasant, but it\u2019s there. And if you ignore it, or ignore me when it consumes me, isn\u2019t it like ignoring a part of me? A part of something that makes me who I am?<\/p>\n

And I\u2019ve realized that it\u2019s not fair. It\u2019s not fair to ask me to be the smiley, happy girlfriend when I\u2019m around you and not allow me to be a mess when I feel like one. Aren\u2019t you the one who is supposed to be there for me in the good times and bad?<\/span><\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you the person I should feel most comfortable around?<\/span><\/p>\n

It sucks that it\u2019s not the case. It sucks that I have to be ashamed and hide a side of me that isn\u2019t what you want. \u00a0It sucks that I always find excuses for you and your shitty treatment of me. That\u2019s probably why I\u2019m writing this in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n

Writing to help myself realize that it\u2019s okay to let my dark cloud hang above me when it comes. Because I know it will go away. I just need to endure it for a little while, and then I\u2019ll be better. But not good enough for you, I guess.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s okay though. I have learned to live with myself and accept that it\u2019s not always going to be smooth sailing. It\u2019s not always going to be easy the way you would like it to be. I\u2019m not always going to be easy to be around, but that\u2019s all right.<\/span><\/p>\n

Agora sei como abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo, o que deve facilitar-me a procura de algu\u00e9m que tamb\u00e9m o saiba.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quero dizer-vos uma \u00faltima coisa.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not even mad at you anymore. I\u2019m just disappointed that you were unable to accept all of me, baggage and all, the way I did you. I never asked you to change. I never asked you to not be sad around me. And I never felt the need to.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what love is. And I will settle for nothing less.<\/span><\/p>\n

Podes mandar o teu rabo ego\u00edsta para bem longe de mim. Finalmente aprendi a abra\u00e7ar-me por inteiro. As partes boas e as partes m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

And guess what? I\u2019m happier than I\u2019ve ever been.<\/span><\/p>\n

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