{"id":26229,"date":"2020-10-18T09:37:47","date_gmt":"2020-10-18T09:37:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26229"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:59:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:59:40","slug":"uma-vez-que-me-custou-a-minha-paz-de-espirito-teve-de-se-ir-embora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-vez-que-me-custou-a-minha-paz-de-espirito-teve-de-se-ir-embora\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma vez que me custaste a minha paz de esp\u00edrito - tinhas de ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

There is a lot I am prepared to take for love. If it\u2019s the real deal, there is not much I wouldn\u2019t do, and nowhere I wouldn\u2019t go. But there is one thing I would never sacrifice for ANYONE, and that is my inner peace.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been in enough relationships to know that if there is one thing you should never tolerate, no matter how much in love you are, that is somebody disturbing your inner paz <\/a> . That is the one thing I\u2019m not giving to anyone. And you shouldn\u2019t either.<\/p>\n

It is totally normal to expect certain trials and tribulations in a relationship. It is also normal to feel an array of emotions, some that you don\u2019t even understand yourself, but it\u2019s never okay to not have your peace of mind due to your significant other.<\/p>\n

How do you know when you\u2019ve had enough? How do you know when to call it quits? That is a difficult question. Everyone has their boiling point. But in my opinion, if it even comes to that, I have no more patience for you.<\/p>\n

A paz interior \u00e9 algo que \u00e9 incrivelmente dif\u00edcil de alcan\u00e7ar. \u00c9 dif\u00edcil at\u00e9 de explicar. Temos de treinar a nossa mente para n\u00e3o nos deixarmos perturbar por algo que normalmente nos incomodaria. \u00c9 preciso dizer a si pr\u00f3prio que nada vale a pena perder a sanidade mental.<\/p>\n

So, what do you do when a guy comes in like a storm, crashing your sunny day and making you question everything you\u2019ve been telling yourself thus far?<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to just throw everything in the water, and let yourself be consumed by an individual that you feel like you\u2019re falling hard for, more and more with every waking hour. It\u2019s easy to let yourself enjoy it when it\u2019s good, and just accept that he comes with some downsides as well. In other words \u2013 make excuses for him. You know better than that.<\/p>\n

Mas se essas desvantagens forem o facto de ele lhe custar a paz, n\u00e3o deve pensar nisso nem por um segundo. Quanto tempo demorou a ficar bem outra vez? Quanto tempo demorou a recuperar finalmente as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e a sua identidade depois da sua \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Durante quanto tempo foi uma confus\u00e3o? Quanto de si sacrificou?<\/p>\n

Depois de pensar muito sobre isto, pergunte a si pr\u00f3pria uma coisa. Vale mesmo a pena passar por tudo isto outra vez? Ser\u00e1 que ele \u00e9 realmente o homem que vale a pena louco <\/a> for at times? More often than not, the answer is going to be \u2018NO\u2019, so listen to yourself. Learn to spare your mind. You owe yourself that much.<\/p>\n

Seja gentil consigo pr\u00f3prio. Por vezes, temos de ser os nossos melhores amigos.<\/p>\n

Let me be your voice of reason. I\u2019ve had a few guys in my life who made me feel like I was depressed at times. Like I could just scream and throw something sharp at them. Like I couldn\u2019t have one sane thought in my mind, and I thought I would completely lose it. I was frightened of myself at times. That\u2019s how far I let it go.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

But the thing is, it wasn\u2019t me. It was them. Now I know it, and nobody can tell me otherwise.<\/p>\n

Tudo depende das pessoas que nos rodeiam. As pessoas que n\u00e3o se preocupam com o seu bem-estar NUNCA se v\u00e3o importar com o que lhe custam na vida. Lembra-te disso.<\/p>\n

Nunca se importar\u00e3o com o facto de estarmos lentamente a rebentar pelas costuras, sem sabermos quando \u00e9 que nos vamos partir completamente. Essas s\u00e3o as pessoas que deves evitar a todo o custo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to think that there must be something wrong with you. But ask yourself this. Do you feel this way at all times or does it only occur when you are around HIM? And that should answer your question.<\/p>\n

You are okay. You are fine. We all lose it sometimes. It\u2019s normal to feel like you\u2019re not in control sometimes. But if that feeling is only evident in the presence of that certain someone, than you know what to do.<\/p>\n

Nobody is worth your peace of mind. And when you feel like he\u2019s costing you that \u2013 he\u2019s got to go.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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