{"id":26279,"date":"2020-03-19T07:54:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T07:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26279"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:35:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:35:11","slug":"ser-feliz-sem-ele-e-a-melhor-vinganca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-feliz-sem-ele-e-a-melhor-vinganca\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser feliz sem ele \u00e9 a melhor vingan\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"

A necessidade de vingan\u00e7a <\/a> in itself is never a good idea. Instead of moving on, you\u2019re not giving yourself a chance to heal and are instead, focused on proving something to the other person.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the point of that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s understandable to feel a certain way after a messy breakup and to feel the need to show the other person that you don\u2019t need them anyway.<\/p>\n

But instead of proving it to them, you need to make sure that you get it,too. You\u2019re the one you\u2019re left with, remember that.<\/p>\n

Ser feliz \u00e9 o objetivo, certo? Bem, em vez de tentar fazer com que outra pessoa acredite nisso, concentre-se em garantir que est\u00e1 a caminho da felicidade a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

For starters, let go of everything that you have boiling inside you. It\u2019s unhealthy, and it\u2019s only preventing you from getting over him.<\/p>\n

The minute you decide that you no longer need to prove anything to anyone is when you can proudly tell yourself that you\u2019ve made it. You\u2019re on your way.<\/p>\n

What drives people crazy is seeing that you are doing well without them. It makes them realize they no longer have any control over you, and that\u2019s what your goal should be.<\/p>\n

Em vez de se preocupar com ele e com a forma de o fazer sentir ci\u00fames e isso, concentre-se noutras coisas da vida. Quer dizer, j\u00e1 tinhas coisas que te faziam feliz antes de saberes que ele existia, certo?<\/p>\n

Bem, finalmente tem tempo para se dedicar a essas coisas, por isso n\u00e3o perca tempo e volte \u00e0 vida que tinha e que adorava antes de ele aparecer.<\/p>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

Always know that happiness is a choice. Shitty things will always happen, and things won\u2019t always be dreamy.<\/p>\n

Mas quando decidir que n\u00e3o vai temer coisas que n\u00e3o pode controlar, vai perceber que pode realmente manter a sua sanidade e preservar a sua felicidade.<\/p>\n

Life is way too short to spend time worrying about people who don\u2019t give a crap about you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to make his life hell. Don\u2019t try to make him jealous by parading someone new around him, just for the sake of it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth it. It\u2019s also not fair to that person.<\/p>\n

Estaria apenas a utiliz\u00e1-los para magoar outra pessoa, mas mais pessoas acabariam por ser magoadas do que apenas o seu ex. Pense nisso por um segundo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use other people and play with their emotions. That way, you\u2019re no better than your ex. Don\u2019t degrade yourself to his level.<\/p>\n

Ultrapasse-o e mostre-lhe que pode realmente viver sem ele.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t get angry or upset. You can still let yourself feel whatever emo\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> that takes over you. It is all part of the process of letting go. Don\u2019t deny yourself that.<\/p>\n

You can still get sad at times. It\u2019s perfectly normal, as long as you know that it doesn\u2019t define you. A single emotion doesn\u2019t define your life. It will all go away eventually.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisa de se permitir processar tudo isto da forma correcta.<\/p>\n

Remember those times when you felt like you couldn\u2019t get out of bed?<\/p>\n

Lembra-se da altura em que pensou que nunca iria esquecer o homem que, na altura, pensava ser o amor da sua vida?<\/p>\n

Well, look at you now! You\u2019re over it and probably laughing how funny it all seems now.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how you\u2019ll be feeling about your current situation.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need to put anyone down. You just focus on getting back to your happy place, the one you know exists.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 faltam mais alguns passos para l\u00e1 chegar.<\/p>\n

Todos os outros s\u00e3o irrelevantes.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa com que se deve preocupar \u00e9 em voltar ao bom caminho e rodear-se de pessoas que o ajudem a sentir-se bem consigo pr\u00f3prio durante esse processo.<\/p>\n

Ver-te feliz \u00e9 a \u00fanica vingan\u00e7a que o deixar\u00e1 louco.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Ser<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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