{"id":26291,"date":"2020-07-19T07:54:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T07:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26291"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:24:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:24:12","slug":"voltar-ao-que-te-estragou-nao-te-vai-curar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/voltar-ao-que-te-estragou-nao-te-vai-curar\/","title":{"rendered":"Voltar ao que te estragou n\u00e3o te vai consertar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por favor, tem algum respeito por ti. N\u00e3o voltes para a pessoa que fugiu do teu amor.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don\u2019t go back to the one who broke all of his promises.<\/p>\n

Mereces algu\u00e9m que nunca pensaria sequer em deixar-te sozinha e confusa. Mereces um amor em que te sintas segura.<\/p>\n

Amor que pode proteger-te do desgosto e da dor.<\/p>\n

Tu mereces algu\u00e9m que nunca te far\u00e1 chorar. Algu\u00e9m que nunca suportaria ver-te derramar l\u00e1grimas por algo que ele te fez.<\/p>\n

I get it. It\u2019s easy to take him back when he\u2019s telling you everything you want to hear. When he\u2019s promising you that this time, it WILL be different.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This time, he has changed. And it\u2019s easy to believe what you want him to tell you. It\u2019s way too easy loving someone you shouldn\u2019t love anymore.<\/p>\n

But hear me out. When he\u2019s on his knees begging you to take him back, and saying that things are really going to be different this time, he will be telling you that because he knows that\u2019s what you need to hear from him.<\/p>\n

He knows that you need reassurance if you\u2019re going to go back into the hole that he had dug for you, so please, don\u2019t believe him.<\/p>\n

Ele j\u00e1 mostrou as suas verdadeiras cores a primeira vez que ele te deixou<\/a>. Ele j\u00e1 te mostrou o pouco que gosta de ti quando te deixou t\u00e3o facilmente, sem voltar atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be crazy to think he actually changed.<\/p>\n

I know that you desperately want to feel loved, just like the rest of us. I know that you want to feel adored and be without a care in the world when you\u2019re with him.<\/p>\n

Mas a pessoa que o deixou uma vez, f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 de novo. A pessoa que te deixou nunca vai ser a pessoa que te vai consertar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, don\u2019t go running back<\/a> the minute he realizes what he has lost and wants you back. Don\u2019t be the one to fill the emptiness he now feels.<\/p>\n

Ele sabe que o amas. Ele sabe que est\u00e1s pacientemente \u00e0 espera da sua chamada e que voltar\u00e1s no momento em que ele te quiser de volta.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction. Don\u2019t do this to yourself. He broke you once, and he will do it again.<\/p>\n

The only reason he wants you to come back is because he can\u2019t be alone. Don\u2019t run back to him simply because it is convenient for him.<\/p>\n

He will find a reason to break you again. And then, it\u2019s going to be twice as hard to heal from it.<\/p>\n

Ama-te primeiro. Coloca-te em primeiro lugar por uma vez. Corra na outra dire\u00e7\u00e3o se ele bater \u00e0 sua porta.<\/p>\n

Tal como ele fez quando precisaste que ele ficasse. Lembra-te sempre disso.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s apaixonada. Isso \u00e9 completamente natural, eu compreendo.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t you want someone who will appreciate you, value you and ultimately adore you, the way you feel for him now?<\/p>\n

O tipo de amor que ele est\u00e1 disposto a oferecer n\u00e3o \u00e9 o tipo de amor que mereces<\/a>. Se voltares para ele, nunca deixar\u00e1s de te interrogar. Saber\u00e1s sempre o que ele \u00e9 capaz de fazer.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, foi a sua pr\u00f3pria experi\u00eancia. S\u00f3 isso nunca lhe dar\u00e1 paz de esp\u00edrito. \u00c9 isso que queres para ti?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it. Protect you heart and say, \u2018No.\u2019 Remember that he broke you once already and still has the guts to appear at your door again.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t go back to false hope again. Don\u2019t go back to fake promises, lies and tears.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go back to his games and tricks. You deserve so much more than him.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s scary to hear this now because you feel like you are at a crossroads. I know you are afraid of being alone if you don\u2019t take him back.<\/p>\n

You might even believe him when he tells you he\u2019s a changed man and that leaving you the first time was the biggest mistake of his life.<\/p>\n

Mas, por favor, sejam corajosos e tenham em conta os vossos pr\u00f3prios sentimentos e felicidade.<\/p>\n

After some time, you will realize that saying, \u2018No\u2019 to him was the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

\"Voltar<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Please, have some respect for yourself. Don\u2019t go back to the person who ran away from your love. Don\u2019t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don\u2019t go back to the one who broke all of his promises….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":107611,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26291\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}