{"id":26301,"date":"2018-10-19T08:07:27","date_gmt":"2018-10-19T08:07:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26301"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:48:31","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:48:31","slug":"3-maneiras-de-esquecer-alguem-que-nunca-soube-amar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-maneiras-de-esquecer-alguem-que-nunca-soube-amar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"3 maneiras de esquecer algu\u00e9m que nunca soube como te amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amar algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o nos ama de volta pode ter consequ\u00eancias graves para a nossa psique e para a forma como nos vemos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Pode facilmente passar de uma pessoa feliz e contente para uma pessoa deprimida e destro\u00e7ada. \u00c9 por isso que tem de sair desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o o mais depressa poss\u00edvel e come\u00e7ar a fazer tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para ultrapassar o amor n\u00e3o correspondido que est\u00e1 a consumir a sua vida.<\/p>\n

Getting over any relationship is difficult, and it takes time. But having to get over someone who never knew how to love you back can be just as painful, if not more. It\u2019s important to tell yourself that you are not defined by this, and that whoever is supposed to be in your life and love you, will find their way to you. Everything else is a waste of time.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais disser isso a si pr\u00f3prio, mais f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1 aceit\u00e1-lo e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Seguem-se algumas dicas \u00fateis que podem ser \u00fateis neste processo.<\/p>\n

1. As painful as it is, accept that he doesn\u2019t love you the way you want him to<\/h2>\n

Acreditar nele quando ele mostra o pouco que se importa<\/a>. Se h\u00e1 dias em que pensa que ele a ama, mas tamb\u00e9m h\u00e1 dias em que ele a ignora completamente e h\u00e1 dias em que ele n\u00e3o a contacta, \u00e9 evidente que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 amor.<\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t love that he\u2019s trying to sell you. If he only thinks of you when it\u2019s conveniente para ele<\/a> or when he feels lonely, it\u2019s not love. It\u2019s convenience.<\/p>\n

Da pr\u00f3xima vez que quiser telefonar-lhe ou v\u00ea-lo, lembre-se do pouco que ele pensa de si e que a \u00fanica vez que o v\u00ea \u00e9 quando ele o decide.<\/p>\n

Move on from this. Tell yourself you deserve more, and don\u2019t pick up the phone when you see his number. Slowly, it will start getting easier.<\/p>\n

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2. Encontre algo melhor e mais excitante para fazer que a distraia dele<\/h2>\n

The less you see him, the less you\u2019ll feel the need to! This should be your main concern. If you are able, go somewhere far away, if you can, of course. Choose a place that will remind you of him the least, and preoccupy yourself with hobbies and activities that will make it almost impossible to think of him.<\/p>\n

It might sound obvious, but the less time you spend with him and the less time you spend thinking of him, the sooner you will get over him. It will become so much easier with time that you won\u2019t believe how amazing you can actually feel without him.<\/p>\n

Bons amigos e um passatempo que o apaixone podem ser a cura para a sua amor n\u00e3o correspondido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. Coloca-te a ti pr\u00f3prio no topo da tua lista de prioridades por uma vez<\/h2>\n

Quando algo assim come\u00e7a a consumir-nos e a consumir todos os nossos pensamentos, normalmente esquecemo-nos de que precisamos de cuidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

What might help you is to talk to those you\u2019re closest to in life. Vent to them. It\u2019s easier to share your hardships with someone who loves you. They will make sure you know you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, n\u00e3o \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa a ter de passar por isto. E digo-o no bom sentido. Isso significa que muitas pessoas antes de si conseguiram ultrapassar esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o e muitas continuar\u00e3o a faz\u00ea-lo depois de si. E adivinha, tu tamb\u00e9m o far\u00e1s!<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que tem de perceber que tem de dar prioridade a si pr\u00f3prio acima de qualquer outra pessoa. Quando estiver feliz consigo mesmo e for capaz de estar sozinho e N\u00c3O se sentir sozinho, \u00e9 quando estiver totalmente curado.<\/p>\n

Quando se aperceber da import\u00e2ncia de si e dos seus sentimentos, n\u00e3o se contentar\u00e1 com nada menos do que isso.<\/p>\n

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Loving somebody who doesn\u2019t love you back can have serious consequences on your psyche and the way you see yourself. You can easily change from a happy and content person to a depressed and broken one. This is why you need to snap out of it, as fast as you can, and start doing everything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":26304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/florescer-fotografia-1054131-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26301\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}