{"id":26325,"date":"2020-07-19T08:55:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T08:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26325"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:38","slug":"estou-farto-de-ser-sempre-o-unico-que-se-preocupa-mais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-farto-de-ser-sempre-o-unico-que-se-preocupa-mais\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou farto de ser sempre o \u00fanico que se preocupa mais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei mais do que tu sabes sobre mim. As coisas de que gostas, as coisas que amas. Isto diz-te alguma coisa?<\/p>\n

Why am I always the one who keeps track of your preferences while you ignore mine or don\u2019t know them? Why am I always the one who has to keep things going?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of always being aquele que se preocupa demasiado<\/a> about your feelings, desires and requests. If you tell me that you\u2019re feeling down, I immediately try to lift you up.<\/p>\n

Se me disseres que me queres ver com a minha nova lingerie, eu salto para uma roupa sexy em segundos. Se me disseres que precisas de uma massagem, negligencio as minhas prioridades e come\u00e7o a massajar-te, mesmo que mal me consiga manter de p\u00e9.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of that.<\/p>\n

Dizem que haver\u00e1 sempre um que se preocupa mais. Mas, porque \u00e9 que tenho de ser sempre eu? Quando nos preocupamos mais, magoamo-nos mais.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ficamos magoados quando se recusam a fazer algo que far\u00edamos de bom grado por eles. Preocupar-se mais significa deixar que os seus sentimentos controlem as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Cansei-me de ser controlado pelas minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of you not caring enough.<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of always being the one who will make you feel special. Just because I go beyond myself to show that I care, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not allowed to.<\/p>\n

Existem muitos formas de demonstrar o seu afeto<\/a>E tudo o que precisam de fazer \u00e9 arrega\u00e7ar as mangas e mostrar-me que se preocupam.<\/p>\n

Show me that you appreciate me being here and that you care for our relationship. Don\u2019t let me suffocate in my own thoughts, thinking that I\u2019m not good enough for you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let me think that I should care more in order for you to start caring.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Se me queres na tua vida, s\u00ea um homem e mostra-me as tuas verdadeiras inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of you not making an effort.<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of you not making an effort to show me your biggest fears and to show me that you will do anything to keep me entertained. When you really like someone, you never miss a chance to make them feel special.<\/p>\n

I want you to be a man and go over yourself to show me some affection. Buy me my favorite chocolate or pick a flower somewhere and I\u2019ll be the happiest girl in the world.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of your not listening to my wishes and dreams.<\/p>\n

I want you to support my decisions and nourish my dreams just as I\u2019m nourishing yours.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I want you to show me that you\u2019re interested in my cravings and that you\u2019re paying attention to the smallest of details that go on in my life.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of you telling me that I overreact.<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of you telling me that I\u2019m overreacting every time you\u2019re wrong and trying to make me look insane so that things go the way you want them to go.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a cheap shot played by cheap people like you, making me look like I\u2019m the bad guy and that you\u2019re the victim.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of being the victim of your selfish necessities. You probably don\u2019t realize that I have necessities too and that you\u2019re not the only one who needs attention.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to confuse me with being needy. There\u2019s a big differences between needing and wanting something.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need it because I can\u2019t live without it. I want it because it makes me feel appreciated.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of your ignorance.<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of your ignorance and lack of empathy. I don\u2019t want to be the one telling you what to do.<\/p>\n

Quero que reflictam sobre o vosso comportamento e encontrem uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o adequada para o mesmo.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to take me for granted just because you can or just because you know that I will always be the one who cares more.<\/p>\n

This time I want you to know that I do care more. But this time \u2013 about myself.<\/p>\n

\"Estou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know more than you know about me. The things you like, the things you love. Is this telling you something? Why am I always the one who keeps track of your preferences while you ignore mine or don\u2019t know them? Why am I always the one who has to keep things going? I\u2019m tired…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102263,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Tired-Of-Always-Being-The-One-Who-Cares-More.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26325"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26325\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}