{"id":26422,"date":"2020-05-22T07:59:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T07:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26422"},"modified":"2022-01-20T11:46:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T11:46:05","slug":"acreditar-nele-quando-ele-mostra-o-pouco-que-se-importa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acreditar-nele-quando-ele-mostra-o-pouco-que-se-importa\/","title":{"rendered":"Acredite nele quando ele mostrar que n\u00e3o se importa"},"content":{"rendered":"

A maioria de n\u00f3s j\u00e1 teve rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas na vida. Sabe, aquelas em que temos de estar constantemente a pensar se ele nos ama e se devemos perdoar-lhe isto e aquilo.<\/p>\n

Rela\u00e7\u00f5es desse g\u00e9nero est\u00e3o, na maior parte das vezes, condenadas ao fracasso.<\/p>\n

O tipo est\u00e1 a tratar-te mal, mas tu continuas a correr para ele, na esperan\u00e7a de que ele mudan\u00e7a <\/a> e o c\u00edrculo vicioso continua sem que nada mude realmente.<\/p>\n

The thing about guys like that is this: if he is showing you he doesn\u2019t care, that\u2019s probably because he doesn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

Respeite-se o suficiente para se afastar de tudo o que o fa\u00e7a questionar e duvidar regularmente da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Guys like that don\u2019t have the balls to tell you to your face that they\u2019ve lost interest in you, so they show it in various disastrous ways, hoping you will realize it for yourself and leave on your own.<\/p>\n

Por outras palavras, facilite-lhe a vida, acabando com ela voc\u00ea mesmo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t delude yourself into thinking talvez ele ainda se importe<\/b> .<\/p>\n

It sucks to hear it, but if he\u2019s going out of his way to show you he doesn\u2019t care<\/a> \u2013 believe him!<\/p>\n

He\u2019s an asshole for it, but it doesn\u2019t mean you have to put up with it.<\/p>\n

If you see him slowly slipping away, don\u2019t try and persegui\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> him! He\u2019ll just disappear even faster.<\/p>\n

Guys like that don\u2019t have the courage to face their problems, so they just run. But don\u2019t run after him.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not what he wants, and it definitely shouldn\u2019t be what you want either! You know you deserve better.<\/p>\n

Why would you want someone who clearly doesn\u2019t give a crap about you and goes out of his way to show it?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the pleasure of keeping you wrapped around his finger. You know, only keeping you near when it suits him and disappearing whenever you need him in return.<\/p>\n

Guess what? It\u2019s obvious to everyone around you. Your friends probably see it, too, but they aren\u2019t saying anything because they keep hoping you will see it for yourself<\/p>\n

Chances are, your parents are probably aware of it also. If they\u2019ve been around you two enough, they can see he\u2019s making a tolo <\/a> de ti.<\/p>\n

They are probably hoping they don\u2019t have to be the ones to break it to you.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You\u2019re tired. You feel emotionally drained. You are so used to giving and giving that you have forgotten what it\u2019s like to have the love reciprocated.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t let your need for love overpower the shitty treatment you are receiving from him.<\/p>\n

Lembra-te disto: quanto mais estiveres disposta a aturar as merdas dele, mais te sentir\u00e1s capaz de as suportar, mais ele continuar\u00e1 a dar-lha.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to try and change his ways but it\u2019s a whole another one to keep staying after countless ways he has shown you how little respect he has for you.<\/p>\n

O amor e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem ser uma quest\u00e3o de amor m\u00fatuo, de respeito, de apoio e de estar presente um para o outro.<\/p>\n

Have you forgotten about that? When you start making excuses for him, just think of the ways in which I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve been treated right and how much you are sacrificing now.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Remember that you KNOW how it feels when it\u2019s right. Now, it\u2019s only a matter of leaving and never looking back.<\/p>\n

Deixa-o antes que te habitues a ser tratada como merda. Antes de come\u00e7ar a pensar que este \u00e9 um comportamento normal numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e de se conformar com isso.<\/p>\n

You know better than that. Leave, before it\u2019s too late. Believe everything he is telling you with his shitty actions, instead of having the balls to say it to your face.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a guy like that in your life. No one does.<\/p>\n

So, the next time he shows you how little he cares \u2013 believe him! And run as fast as you can.<\/p>\n

\"Acredite<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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