{"id":26482,"date":"2020-02-23T07:48:46","date_gmt":"2020-02-23T07:48:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26482"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:58:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:58:25","slug":"se-o-seu-ex-seguiu-em-frente-demasiado-depressa-isto-e-o-que-precisa-de-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-seu-ex-seguiu-em-frente-demasiado-depressa-isto-e-o-que-precisa-de-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o seu ex seguiu em frente demasiado depressa, isto \u00e9 o que precisa de saber"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s just like any other day and you\u2019re walking down the street when <b>BOOM!<\/b> Encontra o seu ex com a sua nova namorada.<\/p>\n<p>You thought you\u2019d gotten over him when suddenly you get that overwhelming feeling of disappointment.<\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7a a contemplar: <i>Porque \u00e9 que ele <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/estas-enganado-se-pensas-que-nao-posso-seguir-em-frente-sem-ti\/\"><i>seguir em frente<\/i><\/a><i> t\u00e3o rapidamente?<\/i> <i>Ser\u00e1 que eu significava t\u00e3o pouco para ele que ele me esqueceu t\u00e3o depressa?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Or you\u2019re scrolling the newsfeed and you suddenly stop in disbelief when you see him happy with another woman.<\/p>\n<p>You feel betrayed even though you\u2019re no longer together or you were the one who initiated the break-up in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you think he didn\u2019t love you that much or that she is the reason why the two of you parted.<\/p>\n<p><b>PARAR!<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Before it gets beyond complicated, try to understand that him moving on too quickly, in most cases, has nothing to do with you. If you overthink, you\u2019ll make it even worse than it is.<\/p>\n<p>Respire e concentre-se no presente. Se misturar o passado com o presente, a mistura de sentimentos que obt\u00e9m acabar\u00e1 por o sufocar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Moving on too quickly doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s forgotten you.<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a difference between moving on too quickly and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/forgetting-made-feel-hardest-part-letting-go\/\">esquecimento <\/a>algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Moving on too quickly could mean that he is able to continue with his life even though he didn\u2019t get over you.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a big chance <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-obvios-de-que-o-seu-ex-esta-a-fingir-que-o-esqueceu\/\">o teu ex est\u00e1 a fingir que j\u00e1 te esqueceu<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez tenha decidido seguir em frente s\u00f3 para se divertir e deixar de pensar em si.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re sure that your love was strong, then be sure that he didn\u2019t forget you.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionadas: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/como-se-vingar-do-seu-ex-12-maneiras-comprovadas-de-o-fazer\/\">Como se vingar do seu ex: 12 maneiras comprovadas de o fazer<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79460 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-couple-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal calmo abra\u00e7ado no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-couple-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-couple-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-couple-hugging-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If your love was genuine, moving on too quickly doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s forgotten you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just his way of coping with it because some people are afraid of being alone after a break-up.<\/p>\n<p>In a relationship, people create their own routine and now it\u2019s hard for him to continue on his own (especially if you were together for a long time).<\/p>\n<p><b>Seguir em frente demasiado depressa pode ser um ato de aumento do seu ego.<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Todos sabemos que os homens s\u00e3o competitivos e sens\u00edveis no que diz respeito \u00e0 sua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>They enjoy pursuing you just to feel so much worthier in the end when they \u2018get you\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s pretty much the same with break-ups as well. No matter what the reason for your break-up, he will find himself feeling insulted.<\/p>\n<p>To be exact, his ego will find itself insulted. He will feel like he has failed to be a real man because he couldn\u2019t make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>If he cannot make a woman happy, it\u2019s a direct attack on his confidence and a man\u2019s most important thing in possession\u2014his ego.<\/p>\n<p>Now, if he succeeds to seduce another woman, it means he\u2019s still worthy of being a man and his skills still work like a charm.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se de repente o encontrar com outra mulher, pode ser um ato de aumento de ego.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing you can do about it. You have to accept that it is in their twisted nature.<\/p>\n<p><b>Avan\u00e7ar demasiado depressa para te fazer ci\u00fames?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019re the one who moved on too quickly and he\u2019s just telling you that he\u2019s able to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>It can also mean that he\u2019s subtly trying to make you jealous, especially if he\u2019s bragging about her and appearing all over the place with his new girl, you have every right to think that he\u2019s doing it in order to make you jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Agora a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: porque \u00e9 que ele quereria fazer-lhe ci\u00fames?<\/p>\n<p>Well, perhaps he\u2019s just testing whether or not you\u2019re going to call him and say that you miss him or he\u2019s subconsciously trying to make you feel like shit for no apparent reason. Whatever the reason may be, don\u2019t let him manipulate you.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele realmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/15-maneiras-poderosas-de-fazer-com-que-ele-te-queira-de-volta-em-pouco-tempo\/\">quer-te de volta<\/a> e sente a tua falta, ele vai encontrar uma forma decente de o demonstrar.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionadas: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-o-ex-quer-voltar-desesperadamente\/\">10 sinais claros de que o teu ex te quer de volta (mas n\u00e3o o admite)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79463 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Your-Ex-Moved-On-Too-Quickly-This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.png\" alt=\"Se o seu ex seguiu em frente demasiado depressa, isto \u00e9 o que precisa de saber\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Your-Ex-Moved-On-Too-Quickly-This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Your-Ex-Moved-On-Too-Quickly-This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Your-Ex-Moved-On-Too-Quickly-This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest.png 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s just like any other day and you\u2019re walking down the street when BOOM! You run into your ex with his new girlfriend. You thought you\u2019d gotten over him when suddenly you get that overwhelming feeling of disappointment. You start contemplating: Why did he move on so quickly? Did I mean so little to him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":114512,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/If-Your-Ex-Moved-On-Too-Quickly-This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Know-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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