{"id":26495,"date":"2020-05-23T07:55:01","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T07:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26495"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:05:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:05:04","slug":"se-duas-pessoas-estao-destinadas-a-ficar-juntas-encontrarao-o-seu-caminho-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-duas-pessoas-estao-destinadas-a-ficar-juntas-encontrarao-o-seu-caminho-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"Se duas pessoas foram feitas para ficar juntas, elas encontrar\u00e3o o caminho de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I really thought once it\u2019s over there\u2019s no going back. That\u2019s it. End of relationship, end of someone&#8217;s existence in my life. But destiny had other plans.<\/p>\n<p>I always rolled my eyes every time someone would say something along the lines of, \u201cIf it\u2019s meant to be, you will be together again.\u201d I thought it was a myth.<\/p>\n<p>Pensava que era apenas algo que as pessoas diziam para nos confortar. At\u00e9 que me aconteceu a mim.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I don\u2019t know why it had to happen this way. The harder way. Was going through all that mess and awful heartbreak really necessary to have my heart full and beating again? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>It seems it had to go that way. I still don\u2019t really understand why, though.<\/p>\n<p>I always knew he was something else. Someone different. Someone mine. I can\u2019t really describe that feeling. It\u2019s something I always longed for but never knew existed.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Infelizmente, nunca tive tanta certeza dos meus sentimentos como no dia em que ele partiu. A dor que senti depois disso foi como nunca tinha sentido antes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I felt like I was going to suffocate from all the tears. I thought they would never stop. It\u2019s so hard to feel so much love in one moment and have it all taken away from you the next.<\/p>\n<p>Pensei que nunca iria recuperar. Nunca tinha sido t\u00e3o negativa na minha vida, mas o amor perdido tem esta forma de nos mudar como nada mais na vida.<\/p>\n<p>Apesar de tudo, nunca o odiei. Nunca o pude fazer. Culpava-o por ser ego\u00edsta, por ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sinais-de-que-ele-tem-medo-do-quanto-gosta-de-ti\/\">com medo dos seus sentimentos<\/a>, for being immature, for not appreciating me, for\u2026. so many things.<\/p>\n<p>But I still kept him in my prayers every single night. It was a habit I formed and I couldn\u2019t shake off. I wanted him to be safe and sound, I wanted him to be happy even if he wasn\u2019t mine.<\/p>\n<p>Acho que uma parte dele ficou comigo. Mesmo anos depois de termos acabado, mesmo quando eu acreditava que j\u00e1 o tinha ultrapassado e tinha seguido com a minha vida, ele estava sempre presente na minha mente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83351 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"olhar atento para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Acreditava mesmo que ele n\u00e3o estava no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, pelo menos j\u00e1 n\u00e3o. Pensava que eram apenas as mem\u00f3rias do que foi e do que poderia ter sido que o mantinham presente nos meus pensamentos. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>At\u00e9 que o seu nome iluminou o meu telem\u00f3vel. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>My hands were shaking. I was weak at my knees and felt like I was about to faint. I didn\u2019t know whether I should answer or not. I hesitated for a while. But I gave in.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>S\u00f3 o som da sua voz trouxe de volta todos os sentimentos que eu pensava estarem mortos e enterrados. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>He begged me to talk to him. I couldn\u2019t utter a single sound. I was paralyzed. After I came to my senses, he asked me to meet and I couldn\u2019t say no. I wanted to see him, it was stronger than me.<\/p>\n<p>Passado algum tempo, dei-lhe uma segunda oportunidade. Dei uma segunda oportunidade ao nosso amor. Eu perdoei-o. Apesar de ser arriscado. Apesar de toda a gente \u00e0 minha volta me dizer para n\u00e3o o fazer. Confiei no meu instinto e segui em frente.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Because despite everything that had happened, the love hadn\u2019t faded away, it was still there, it was still very much alive. What was different this time was that his love had matured. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ele sabia o que queria. Sabia que teria de trabalhar muito e arduamente para ganhar de novo a minha confian\u00e7a. Sabia que eu queria um compromisso total e que ele estava pronto para isso.<\/p>\n<p>He wasn\u2019t that scared anymore. He was sure about me, about us, and somehow I was able to see that. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Desta vez, ele estava presente. Ele estava l\u00e1 para corrigir todos os erros. Ele estava l\u00e1 para beijar as minhas cicatrizes. Ele estava l\u00e1 para ficar.<\/p>\n<p>We are getting to know each other all over again. He isn\u2019t the only one who changed. All that I\u2019ve been through shaped me into a person with standards, into someone who demands respect.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o existem regras claras no que diz respeito ao amor, mas uma coisa \u00e9 verdade: quando o amor \u00e9 real, quando duas pessoas est\u00e3o destinadas a ficar juntas, elas encontram o seu caminho de volta.<\/p>\n<p>And though our story wasn\u2019t easy, I would do it all over again. It\u2019s worth it because of everything we have now.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83348 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se duas pessoas foram feitas para ficar juntas, elas encontrar\u00e3o o caminho de volta\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I really thought once it\u2019s over there\u2019s no going back. That\u2019s it. End of relationship, end of someone&#8217;s existence in my life. But destiny had other plans. I always rolled my eyes every time someone would say something along the lines of, \u201cIf it\u2019s meant to be, you will be together again.\u201d I thought it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":83349,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26495","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26495"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26495\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83349"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}