These are the most common deceiving signs that may confuse you to think that you\u2019re still in love with him (but believe me, you\u2019re not):<\/p>\n
1. You don\u2019t want him to meet somebody else<\/h2>\n
This is the biggest misconception and it occurs at the very start of the break-up. You think you still love him just because you don\u2019t want him to be with somebody else.<\/p>\n
You still have that part of you saying that you\u2019re his and only his and him being with another woman is cheating on you. You still have these feelings that you\u2019re together but in reality this is not the case.<\/p>\n
This also means that you don\u2019t want him to be happy which is the biggest evidence that you\u2019re not in love with him. Real love means putting other people\u2019s happiness before yours.<\/p>\n
Isto significa que se a pessoa que amas for feliz, tamb\u00e9m ser\u00e1s feliz e vice-versa. Por isso, o facto de desejar que ele fique para sempre sozinho ou numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz est\u00e1 longe de ser um amor.<\/p>\n
2. You\u2019re constantly calling and texting him<\/h2>\n
This one may seem weird because we all think if a person is constantly calling and texting someone then she\u2019s madly in love with him. Unfortunately, this is not true.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s a difference between being madly in love and an obsession. An obsession starts when you reach the level where he constantly ignores you but you keep calling and texting him with no intention of stopping until he answers you.<\/p>\n
Mas se ele quisesse responder-lhe, j\u00e1 o teria feito h\u00e1 muito tempo. Se o amas realmente, respeitar\u00e1s o seu desejo de estar sem ti.
\nConstantly calling and texting him is a desperate move and you know you\u2019re better than that.<\/p>\n
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3. Espera que ele lhe telefone ou envie mensagens<\/h2>\n
Esperar que ele lhe telefone ou envie uma mensagem \u00e9 outra vers\u00e3o da obsess\u00e3o. Ent\u00e3o, esperas que ele te telefone mas recusas-te a telefonar-lhe?<\/p>\n
The only logical reason why you would want such a thing is that you want to prove something to yourself. Perhaps you want to prove that you still own him or you\u2019re doing this for self-validation purposes.<\/p>\n
Evidentemente, isto n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com amor; \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de dom\u00ednio numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tamb\u00e9m de outros factores psicol\u00f3gicos. Se era a pessoa que dominava a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, esta pode ser a sua forma subconsciente de preservar o seu estatuto para se sentir bem novamente.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t do this. You are a self-sufficient, amazing woman and you don\u2019t need a man to call you in order to prove what I\u2019ve just said.<\/p>\n