{"id":26553,"date":"2020-06-23T10:28:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-23T10:28:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26553"},"modified":"2022-02-22T15:47:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T15:47:27","slug":"preciso-que-me-escolhas-e-que-nunca-deixes-de-lutar-por-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/preciso-que-me-escolhas-e-que-nunca-deixes-de-lutar-por-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Preciso que me escolhas e que nunca deixes de lutar por mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Atrav\u00e9s de todos os meus desgostos e infort\u00fanios amorosos passados, aprendi (subconscientemente) a colocar um muro \u00e0 volta do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Um muro que \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil de atravessar, mas quando o fizermos, veremos um vislumbre da rapariga de antes de toda a dor e sofrimento.<\/p>\n<p>O meu verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n<p>Quando atravessarem essa parede, poder\u00e3o ver a rapariga que eu era antes de o mundo me esmagar e com cada <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/11-maneiras-de-voltar-a-ser-voce-mesmo-depois-de-um-desgosto-de-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> desgosto <\/a>fez-me perder uma pequena parte de mim.<\/p>\n<p>I need you to break through that wall and show me that all of my heartbreak wasn\u2019t for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Preciso que sejas tu a recolher todas as pe\u00e7as do meu puzzle perdido e a completar-me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar mulher sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>You\u2019re well on your way but I fear I might scare you away.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tenho esta sensa\u00e7\u00e3o paranoica de que vai perceber que estou demasiado danificada e deixar de lutar por mim.<\/p>\n<p>Perceber\u00e3o que eu sou demais e fugir\u00e3o para o outro lado.<\/p>\n<p><b>Please, don\u2019t. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lembram-se daquele fim de semana que pass\u00e1mos no lago? Naquela pequena casa de campo, sem eletricidade e sem ningu\u00e9m num raio de 8 quil\u00f3metros?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9ramos s\u00f3 n\u00f3s os dois e foi a melhor sensa\u00e7\u00e3o do mundo. Senti-me t\u00e3o ligada a ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96790\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado no cais junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lembram-se de como fic\u00e1vamos na cama at\u00e9 ao meio-dia, conversando, abra\u00e7ados e contando um ao outro tudo o que nos ia na alma?<\/p>\n<p>Abri-me contigo como nunca antes e foi a primeira vez em muito tempo que me senti suficientemente \u00e0 vontade para<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/guarda-amar-alguem-como\/\"> baixar a minha guarda em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Tinhas sempre os teus bra\u00e7os t\u00e3o apertados \u00e0 minha volta que eu sentia que ningu\u00e9m me podia fazer mal. Eras o meu porto seguro (e ainda \u00e9s).<\/p>\n<p>Sei que posso ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-uma-mulher-complicada-pode-ser-dificil-mas-vale-a-pena\/\">uma mulher dif\u00edcil de amar<\/a>. I know that when I fall, it can seem as if I\u2019m never getting back up.<\/p>\n<p>I promise I\u2019m trying to change that. I promise I\u2019m trying to not let all of my past experiences shape me as a person and define our relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But I need YOU to help me get there. I can\u2019t do this alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar mulher no cais\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I hope this doesn\u2019t frighten you. I hope you won\u2019t go searching for someone \u2018less\u2019 damaged. I hope you can see past my walls.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m still here, I just need you to find me along the way and never let me go back to that sunken place.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><em>Se o amor fosse assim t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil, valeria mesmo a pena?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 quando lutamos por algu\u00e9m com todas as fibras do nosso ser \u00e9 que nos apercebemos do quanto o amamos e apreciamos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 quando se passa por tanta merda com algu\u00e9m e se consegue chegar ao outro lado, \u00e9 que se aprende a guard\u00e1-la t\u00e3o perto do cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a proteg\u00ea-la a todo o custo.<\/p>\n<p>As dificuldades ensinam-nos isso.<em> Eu devia saber.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96794\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a confortar uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it starts getting scary, that\u2019s when you know it\u2019s worth fighting for. That is when you know you have something real.<\/p>\n<p><em>So I am begging you to stay with me. Let me be the mess that I am and help guide me to the place we both know I can get to. I feel like I\u2019m worth it and I know you feel it too.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I feel it every time you\u2019re near me. I feel it in your every kiss and your every embrace.<\/p>\n<p>When you kiss me, I feel the ground beneath me slipping away and it\u2019s as if I\u2019m on a cloud that is making me feel like the luckiest girl in the world.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, it\u2019s scary. I feel like I can fall at any time. It\u2019s like I\u2019m so happy and I know something is going to come and ruin it for me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96796\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem abra\u00e7ada a um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 aqui que preciso que se chegue \u00e0 frente e me prove que a minha paranoia n\u00e3o \u00e9 real.<\/p>\n<p>Que quando me beijas, est\u00e1s a falar a s\u00e9rio, e n\u00e3o tens inten\u00e7\u00e3o de te ir embora.<\/p>\n<p>Preciso de sentir que est\u00e1s a lutar por mim quando come\u00e7o a perder-me.<\/p>\n<p>Porque isso vai acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>At times, I will feel insecure. But with your love and guidance, I feel like the safest gal in the world. Just don\u2019t quit on me and I promise I will learn to give you my all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Preciso que me escolhas e que nunca deixes de lutar por mim\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Through all of my past heartbreaks and misfortunes with love, I have (subconsciously) learned to put up a wall around my heart. A wall that is very hard to get through but once you do, you will see a glimpse of the girl from before all of the pain and suffering. The real me. Once&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96799,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26553"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26553\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}