{"id":26558,"date":"2020-09-24T06:52:12","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T06:52:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26558"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:21:57","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:21:57","slug":"ela-ja-nao-precisa-de-ti-porque-tu-a-ensinaste-a-estar-sozinha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-ja-nao-precisa-de-ti-porque-tu-a-ensinaste-a-estar-sozinha\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o precisa mais de voc\u00ea porque voc\u00ea a ensinou a ficar sozinha"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s a prioridade dela. Lida com isso. A culpa \u00e9 tua, de qualquer forma. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are not the person she can count on when she needs support. You\u2019re not the man she can call in the middle of the night if she can\u2019t sleep or if she\u2019s anxious.<\/p>\n<p>O facto de a ter ignorado e de a ter colocado em \u00faltimo lugar na lista teve o seu pre\u00e7o. O seu comportamento, o seu lado frio e indiferente, afastou-a.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ensinaste-a a nunca contar contigo.&nbsp;<\/b>You\u2019ve made sure that she will go through every moment in life, whether happy or bad, alone.<\/p>\n<p>But you weren\u2019t aware that you were doing her a favor. You had no idea that one day, she\u2019ll be so independent that she\u2019ll wonder what the hell she is doing with you.<\/p>\n<p>Todas as fases da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, todos os problemas que ela enfrentou sozinha. As \u00fanicas pessoas com quem ela podia falar eram os seus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>So now, don\u2019t be surprised if her friends mean so much more than you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118330 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You taught her you\u2019ll never be around.<\/b> She wasn\u2019t even bothered by the fact that she couldn\u2019t come to you or count on your help and support.<\/p>\n<p>It became so mundane. At first, it hurt, but after you pulled the same thing over and over again, she just didn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ela sabia que a \u00fanica pessoa em quem podia confiar era nela pr\u00f3pria.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><b>Ensinaste-lhe que a voz dela n\u00e3o tem som,<\/b> como num sonho mau. Ela gritava, mas n\u00e3o sa\u00eda nada.<\/p>\n<p>You never heard a thing. You didn\u2019t want to hear a thing. It was so much easier to ignore her and let her deal any way she knows how.<\/p>\n<p><b>You taught her you don\u2019t care about her.<\/b> With every reckless move and every indifferent look, you\u2019ve shown her how selfish you are.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to love yourself. But usually, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/de-um-homem-para-uma-mulher-a-importancia-de-se-amar-a-si-proprio-em-primeiro-lugar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/span><\/a> permite-nos amar ainda mais os outros. Mas n\u00e3o no teu caso. Eras demasiado ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll move on without you. It\u2019s just a matter of time. <b>Ensinou-a a fazer planos por si pr\u00f3pria.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118331 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher determinada, de camisa branca, est\u00e1 junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ensinou-a a olhar para o futuro sem a sua presen\u00e7a. Ensinou-a a ser independente, mas n\u00e3o fazia ideia de que ela acabaria por o excluir da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>One day, she\u2019ll be sick of you. She won\u2019t think twice about leaving you.<\/p>\n<p>And you know what\u2019s going to happen? You\u2019ll stay miserable, and she\u2019ll know you miss her, but she won\u2019t give a fuck. <b>Ensinaste-lhe isso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised if she goes no contact with you. Don\u2019t act like you haven\u2019t been ignoring her for as long as you were together.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised if she doesn\u2019t want to have anything to do with you. <b>Ensinaste-a a ser ego\u00edsta e a pensar apenas nela pr\u00f3pria.<\/b> Fizeste isso todos os dias.<\/p>\n<p>Ela foi sempre a \u00fanica que manteve a boca fechada e fez tudo o que tu querias.<\/p>\n<p>She was always the one who walked around on eggshells just so you didn\u2019t get all worked up. She wanted you to be happy, and you couldn\u2019t care less how she felt.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised if she changes. <b>Ensinou-a apenas a tomar conta de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118332 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira bonita e sorridente com uma camisola amarela caminha pela rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You did that to her day after day. She now knows it\u2019s alright to act like that.<\/p>\n<p><em>Don\u2019t be surprised if she turns to herself and becomes the person she was before she met you. Just a heads <\/em>up\u2014you\u2019re<em> n\u00e3o vai gostar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll open her eyes and see that you\u2019ve been treating her less than she deserves. She\u2019ll slowly realize that all she\u2019s ever been to you is your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/verdade-recusar-o-plano-de-reserva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">plano de reserva<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Slowly, she\u2019ll realize that she is completely invisible in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Prepare to be hurt. Prepare for her to treat you the same as you\u2019ve treated her.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll look you in the eye, and she won\u2019t feel a thing. You\u2019re going to be a stranger she passes by and not the person she once was in love with.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised when she leaves. Don\u2019t be surprised <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-perdoou-te-mas-nao-quer-ter-nada-a-ver-contigo\/\">she doesn\u2019t need you<\/a> porque nunca fez um esfor\u00e7o para a manter.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118333 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ela n\u00e3o precisa mais de voc\u00ea porque voc\u00ea a ensinou a ficar sozinha\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re not her priority anymore. Deal with it. It\u2019s your fault, anyway. You are not the person she can count on when she needs support. You\u2019re not the man she can call in the middle of the night if she can\u2019t sleep or if she\u2019s anxious. Your ignoring her and placing her last on the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":118329,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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