{"id":26580,"date":"2021-01-02T08:01:45","date_gmt":"2021-01-02T08:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26580"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:25:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:25:46","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-independentes-atraem-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-independentes-atraem-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres independentes atraem homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 sempre a mesma hist\u00f3ria. Uma mulher bonita e forte apaixona-se por um homem que lhe d\u00e1 tudo, exceto a coisa mais importante: o amor.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t need flowers, she doesn\u2019t need fancy things. All she needs is your attention and someone to love her.<\/p>\n

A hist\u00f3ria termina ou com uma rutura imediata ou com a tentativa de prolongar algo que est\u00e1 destinado a ser condenado.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, o desgosto \u00e9 certo. A mulher acabar\u00e1 a chorar e a tentar recompor-se.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll be angry with herself for falling for the tricks of an homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

To all those who are strong and in a happily ever after relationship, this is just BS. They can\u2019t accept that it\u2019s possible for such a man to choose such a woman.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis<\/a> don\u2019t choose strong women\u2014strong women choose them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. V\u00eaem-nas como convenientes<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Quando escolhem homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis, escolhem-nos por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And that is that as long as they are with them, they can rest assured that these men won\u2019t question their authority.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t do anything to compromise their power. These men don\u2019t have the guts to do it.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t stand up to them and they won\u2019t question their decisions. They will go with the flow every time.<\/p>\n

Although this seems like an upside, it\u2019s not. Over time, although their authority is unquestionable, these women wish for their emotionally unavailable men to change.<\/p>\n

Querem que eles mostrem mais afeto, que mostrem que se preocupam.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, isso nunca acontece, pelo que a hist\u00f3ria \u00e9 sempre a mesma, com dois resultados poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

2. Acham que estes homens n\u00e3o s\u00e3o arriscados<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ou seja, est\u00e3o seguros com eles. N\u00e3o se v\u00e3o magoar, s\u00e3o demasiado fortes para isso.<\/p>\n

But what they don\u2019t see is that love sneaks up on them, blinds them and they end up getting hurt either way.<\/p>\n

Independent women promise themselves they won\u2019t become the girl who is waiting by the phone, waiting for him to call her back.<\/p>\n

They promise themselves they won\u2019t wait around or suffer for anyone.<\/p>\n

So they tend not to get too close to anyone. They\u2019ve all done this in the past and it didn’t end well. It ended with them getting terribly hurt.<\/p>\n

3. Apesar de, no fundo, quererem seguran\u00e7a emocional<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Nenhum deles o admite porque parece que s\u00e3o fracos. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de fraco em querer ser amado.<\/p>\n

Mas, normalmente, f\u00e1-los sentirem-se vulner\u00e1veis e, por isso, expostos \u00e0 possibilidade de serem magoados.<\/p>\n

No fundo, as mulheres fortes querem e precisam de compaix\u00e3o e amor incondicional, mas escolhem homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis, homens que s\u00e3o distantes e incapazes de mostrar o que sentem, porque isso lhes parece mais seguro.<\/p>\n

It seems like they aren\u2019t getting hurt.<\/p>\n

4. Elas sabem que os homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis manter-se-\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Strong women are so good at pretending everything is okay. They will put on their \u2018I don\u2019t give a shit\u2019 face and keep calm when they are on the verge of breaking down.<\/p>\n

Eles constroem muros emocionais<\/a> \u00e0 sua volta para se protegerem.<\/p>\n

They treat this man the same way. They always have a serious face on because that way the man won\u2019t get close to her. He will keep his distance.<\/p>\n

E para manter a rela\u00e7\u00e3o viva, eles d\u00e3o um sorriso ocasional ou um encontro noturno. S\u00f3 para manter as coisas a funcionar.<\/p>\n

5. Escolhem-nas porque \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Valorizam a sua capacidade de manter tudo sob controlo. E se a solid\u00e3o for o pre\u00e7o a pagar, eles fecham o neg\u00f3cio.<\/p>\n

They choose these men because they know they won\u2019t get emotionally involved and they won\u2019t question their abilities or their authority.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada pior para uma mulher forte do que comprometer-se, deixar o seu parceiro ver o seu lado vulner\u00e1vel e tomar decis\u00f5es m\u00fatuas.<\/p>\n

The only people they trust is themselves. So the ideal choice for a relationship is a man who won\u2019t get involved too much. Because he doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the heart makes its own decisions and their mind gets overwhelmed with questions like: \u201cWhat if he hurts me?\u201d, \u201cWhat if I let him love me and he doesn\u2019t know how?\u201d, \u201cwhat if he tries to manipulate me?\u201d<\/p>\n

Questionar-se-\u00e3o mas, no final, nunca desistir\u00e3o. Nunca deixar\u00e3o que ningu\u00e9m comprometa a sua liberdade ou independ\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Underneath it all, they are so scared to lose what it took them so long to build. That\u2019s why women choose emotionally unavailable men. Because they choose to.<\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

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