{"id":26585,"date":"2020-03-20T08:10:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T08:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26585"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:18:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:18:40","slug":"aceitando-que-tinhamos-terminado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aceitando-que-tinhamos-terminado\/","title":{"rendered":"Foi assim que aceitei que t\u00ednhamos acabado"},"content":{"rendered":"

I held onto my foolish hopes about us for as long as I could. Regardless of everything, I\u2019ve always been the perpetual optimist when it comes to romance, and you are no exception.<\/span><\/p>\n

Espero sempre o melhor, mesmo quando as provas de que n\u00e3o \u00e9 esse o caso est\u00e3o mesmo \u00e0 vista do meu rosto desanimado.<\/span><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que eu posso dizer? <\/span>I\u2019m a sucker for love. <\/b>Arranjei todas as desculpas poss\u00edveis para n\u00e3o perder o contacto contigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mesmo que n\u00e3o houvesse qualquer raz\u00e3o para comunicarmos, eu inventaria qualquer coisa, s\u00f3 para poder sentir a tua presen\u00e7a na minha vida, de qualquer forma que fosse.<\/b><\/p>\n

Recusei-me a admitir para mim pr\u00f3prio que, nessa altura, j\u00e1 me tinhas exclu\u00eddo da tua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Foi preciso muito <\/span>raiva<\/span><\/a> and resentment on my part to accept the fact we were done. While I was trying to salvage what I believed was left of us, what I failed to see was that there was no \u2018us\u2019 left. <\/span><\/p>\n

It was just me and my desperate attempts to get us back to what we were, but hadn\u2019t been for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was so foolishly trying to make us overcome the obstacles that came our way that I didn\u2019t see you had already moved on. That was the final nail in the coffin for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Foi nessa altura que percebi o que tinha tanto medo de admitir a mim pr\u00f3prio. <\/span>J\u00e1 t\u00ednhamos acabado h\u00e1 muito tempo e j\u00e1 me tinhas substitu\u00eddo por algu\u00e9m novo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Foi um despertar rude para mim. Tive de abandonar a fantasia de que ainda tinhas alguns sentimentos por mim, tal como eu tinha por ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ainda estava t\u00e3o apaixonada por ti que ver-te com algu\u00e9m novo era como um punhal a ser espetado no meu peito repetidamente.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Na altura, foi doloroso, mas hoje vejo que foi o necess\u00e1rio para que eu finalmente perdesse a ideia de te ter no meu futuro. <\/span>You didn\u2019t belong there anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

And as much as it pained me to say, I thank God I saw you with her. I don\u2019t know if I would\u2019ve been able to pull through otherwise.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi a \u00faltima vez que tive contacto consigo. Foi nessa altura que decidi que era<\/span> suficiente.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Nessa altura, eu era o \u00fanico que estava a causar dor e sofrimento a mim pr\u00f3prio. Eu era o \u00fanico que estava a negar a mim pr\u00f3prio o processo de cura de que tanto precisava.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, I finally took responsibility for my actions. I could no longer go on like that and be blaming you when I was the only one not moving on, still hung up on an old love who hadn\u2019t been in my life for months.<\/span><\/p>\n

I have to admit, even though I consciously decided I wouldn\u2019t contact you ever again, I still kept track of your new love life.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Precisava de saber como \u00e9 que ela era e o que \u00e9 que ela tinha que te fazia esquecer de mim t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Mas depois apercebi-me. Enquanto eu continuasse a prestar-lhe aten\u00e7\u00e3o com quaisquer pensamentos, n\u00e3o estava a permitir-me seguir em frente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tinhas claramente seguido em frente, era altura de te riscar completamente da minha lista e nunca mais pensar em ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Doeu muito, mas fi-lo. Deixei de seguir a tua vida. <\/b>Deixei de perguntar a amigos comuns sobre ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

Decidi esquecer que existias. E foi a melhor decis\u00e3o que alguma vez tomei.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that our relationship was real. We had some good times. I\u2019m never going to <\/span>arrependimento<\/span><\/a> nada disso. <\/span>Acho que j\u00e1 pass\u00e1mos o nosso tempo.<\/b> Era apenas uma quest\u00e3o de o aceitar. <\/span><\/p>\n

It took me a little longer than I would\u2019ve liked but here I am. Ready to get hurt again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sa\u00ed do buraco que tinha cavado para mim de forma t\u00e3o inepta. Posso ver novamente um vislumbre da luz brilhante. <\/span><\/p>\n

And most importantly, I accept that we weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not the woman you were supposed to spend your forever with and now I can finally say it out loud and not break into a million pieces. I\u2019m finally okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

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