{"id":26611,"date":"2018-10-24T09:14:37","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T09:14:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26611"},"modified":"2022-01-16T19:15:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T19:15:46","slug":"como-recuperar-o-seu-ex-namorado-6-caminhos-para-o-sucesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-recuperar-o-seu-ex-namorado-6-caminhos-para-o-sucesso\/","title":{"rendered":"Como ter o seu ex-namorado de volta: 6 maneiras de ter sucesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

You probably don\u2019t know it but getting your ex-boyfriend back is actually one of the easiest things to accomplish. It is a piece of cake when you turn off your emotions and when you learn how to play your cards right aka como fazer com que ele se arrependa de a ter perdido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

E n\u00f3s estamos aqui para lhe ensinar exatamente isso. Estamos aqui para o guiar atrav\u00e9s de 6 passos que deve seguir se quiser voltar a estar com o seu ex sem parecer desesperado.<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t reach out<\/h2>\n

Quando o seu namorado a deixa, a primeira coisa que quer fazer \u00e9 telefonar-lhe e dizer-lhe que tem saudades dele. O primeiro impulso que tem \u00e9 o de o contactar e fazer tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para o ter de volta.<\/p>\n

E este \u00e9 o primeiro erro que a maioria de n\u00f3s comete durante a fases da separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. First of all, even if this succeeds, you will only send him the message that he can do whatever the hell he wants and whenever the hell he wants and that you\u2019ll always be right there where he left you, waiting for him.<\/p>\n

Secondly, you\u2019ll just look desperate and needy. Besides losing your dignity, you\u2019ll also make him see that he can have you whenever he wishes and you are sending him the message that he shouldn\u2019t be medo de te perder.<\/a><\/p>\n

When you set things up like this, you are actually giving your ex a heads up to try some new things and to see if he can make it without you because you\u2019ll be there when or if he ever decides to come back. You are telling him that he didn\u2019t lose anything when he left you.<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t call him or send him essay-long texts, telling him how much you love and miss him. I know you want to remind him of all of your good times right away after he leaves you but this is something you shouldn\u2019t do if you want this guy back.<\/p>\n

2. Nenhum contacto<\/h2>\n

J\u00e1 ouviste falar do regra de n\u00e3o contacto?<\/a> \u00c9 um m\u00e9todo comprovado atrav\u00e9s do qual corta todos os la\u00e7os com o seu ex durante 30 dias seguidos. E quando digo todos os la\u00e7os, estou a falar literalmente de todos os la\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

That means that you should spend the next month completely ignoring the fact that this man has ever existed in your life. You can\u2019t call him or text him. You can\u2019t post songs or status updates about things which remind you of him. You can\u2019t hang out with his friends or family and you can\u2019t go out to the places where you\u2019ll know you could see him.<\/p>\n

Sim, eu sei que isto parece imposs\u00edvel de fazer, especialmente agora que est\u00e1 a morrer de vontade de o ver ou de ouvir algo sobre ele, mas \u00e9 algo que pode e tem de ser feito. Poder\u00e1 pensar que, uma vez desaparecido do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o estar\u00e1 mais \u00e0 vista dele, mas a verdade \u00e9 bem diferente.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll give this guy a chance to miss you. You\u2019ll give him a chance to wonder what you\u2019ve been up to and to think about you. Remember\u2014distance only makes hearts grow fonder.<\/p>\n

3. Pensar nas coisas que correram mal<\/h2>\n

During this no contact phase, you\u2019ll have some time to cool your head off and to think about your relationship realistically, for the first time ever. This is the time in which you have to take off your rose-tinted glasses and put some effort into seeing this man clearly.<\/p>\n

Por que \u00e9 que voc\u00eas se separaram? O que \u00e9 que poderia ter sido feito para evitar esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o? Quais foram os seus erros na rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Quais foram as coisas que ele fez de errado? Como poderiam melhorar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se ele voltasse para si?<\/p>\n

These are all the questions you need to find answers to now. But the most important question you need to answer yourself is: Is this worth it? I know you love this guy and that you are dying to have him back but you need to ask yourself if he is really worthy of you. Is he the man you want to build your future with or is it that your ego simply can\u2019t stand the fact that ele deixou-te?<\/a><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que desta vez as coisas t\u00eam hip\u00f3teses de melhorar? Ou ser\u00e1 que os dois v\u00e3o acabar da mesma maneira, mesmo que voltem a juntar-se?<\/p>\n

\"Como<\/p>\n

4. Concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve responded to all of these questions and you are still certain that you want this man back in your life, it\u2019s time for the next step. And no, the next step doesn\u2019t include you calling him and crying how much you want things to be the way they were, even though I know this is probably something you wish to do.<\/p>\n

O pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 concentrares-te em ti pr\u00f3pria. Sim, queres que ele volte, mas estas coisas levam tempo. Em vez de ficar em casa \u00e0 espera que ele se lembre de si, use esse tempo e gaste-o consigo mesma.<\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019ll feel much better about yourself if you start investing your energy into making yourself look and feel better. Read a book or go get a mani and a pedi\u2014whatever makes you happy and whatever takes your mind off your ex.<\/p>\n

Secondly, you\u2019ll send him a better and more positive vibe. I know that you aren\u2019t doing anything for him to conclude that you desperately want reconciliation but trust me, he\u2019ll feel it if you spend all your days thinking of him. And when you start focusing more on yourself and less on him, your ex will feel that your energy has shifted and he\u2019ll automatically start considering you more desirable.<\/p>\n

5. Deixai-o vir a v\u00f3s<\/h2>\n

So, it has been a month and you\u2019ve managed to stick to the no contact rule. You haven\u2019t spoken to this guy ever since the two of you broke things off and you haven\u2019t done anything for him to think that you want him back.<\/p>\n

Well, enough time has passed and it\u2019s time to change this. No, this is not the moment in which you\u2019ll admit to him that you\u2019ve been missing him all this time nor the moment in which you\u2019ll directly ask him to get back together.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o momento em que tem de deixem-no vir at\u00e9 v\u00f3s<\/a> and the time in which he starts chasing you, if you play your cards right. I am sure you are wondering how to accomplish that.Well, now you have to reappear in this man\u2019s life and heart. But you have to find a way to do it discreetly and for it to appear unintentional.<\/p>\n

Pode contact\u00e1-lo sobre algo que precisa dele, sem sequer mencionar a vossa reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o. Pode come\u00e7ar a aparecer nos locais que ele costuma frequentar ou pode come\u00e7ar a enviar-lhe sinais sobre os seus sentimentos por ele.<\/p>\n

6. Definir as condi\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve accomplished all of these steps the right way, trust me\u2014this man will voltar para si<\/a> and he\u2019ll be the first one to talk about getting back together. And when this finally happens, you should never be desperate enough to accept everything and to agree about everything with him just to have him back.<\/p>\n

Instead, start acting like reconciliation is just an option to you. It is something you will think about. Yes, you will be happy to have him back in your life but it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t live without him and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean that you want this guy back at any cost.<\/p>\n

Set the terms and conditions about your old-new relationship. This will make it much more successful and it will show your soon-to-be boyfriend that he can\u2019t play with you the way he wants. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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