{"id":26614,"date":"2018-10-24T09:51:28","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T09:51:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26614"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:50:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:50:17","slug":"8-coisas-de-que-nos-apercebemos-quando-voltamos-a-sair-com-o-nosso-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-de-que-nos-apercebemos-quando-voltamos-a-sair-com-o-nosso-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"8 coisas de que nos apercebemos quando voltamos a sair com o nosso ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 uma boa ideia voltar a namorar com o seu ex? Em 9 de cada 10 casos, eu diria que N\u00c3O. Mas h\u00e1 sempre excep\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 regra.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people are too immature and unprepared for a relationship. Sometimes there are so many \u2018what-ifs\u2019 left between two people that they crave one more chance.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, o amor continua vivo, apesar de tudo. Nessas alturas, as pessoas decidem tentar outra vez.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, as pessoas est\u00e3o dispostas a arriscarem-se a ser magoadas de novo porque ainda sentem demasiado. Por vezes, conseguem-no contra todas as probabilidades.<\/p>\n<p>Voltar a sair com o seu ex pode ser uma experi\u00eancia agridoce. H\u00e1 algumas coisas de que nos apercebemos quando decidimos dar esse salto de f\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2>1. A dor de cabe\u00e7a muda as pessoas<\/h2>\n<p>Quando se parte o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, ele nunca mais volta a ser o que era antes. Agora \u00e9s uma pessoa diferente. Aprendeste muito e tornaste-te mais forte.<\/p>\n<p>Dating your ex again will be a way of getting to know each other all over again. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking you will pick up where you left off, and everything will be the same.<\/p>\n<h2>2. O sentimento de familiaridade estar\u00e1 muito presente<\/h2>\n<p>Even though you\u2019ve both changed, everything will feel familiar. You will know stuff about each other such as your likes and dislikes.<\/p>\n<p>You have a history together that can be both a positive and negative thing for you\u2014positive because you will feel comfortable around that person; negative because in the back of your mind, you will fear that the same bad things will happen all over again.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You can\u2019t undo the damage that was already done<\/h2>\n<p>Tiveram um motivo para terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e isso deixou-vos um sabor amargo na boca. Pode dar por si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/para-a-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-nem-todos-os-homens-sao-iguais\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desconfiado<\/span><\/a> and fearing that the same things will happen again even though you\u2019ve both changed.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t leave the past in the past and forgive all that has been, there are slim chances you will make it this second time around.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Os seus entes queridos podem n\u00e3o apoiar a sua reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t blame them; they are just worried. They have been with you through your breakup, and they don\u2019t want to see you hurt again.<\/p>\n<p>They wiped away your tears. They listened to you. They were there for you to lean on, and it\u2019s only natural that they are distrustful of your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Eles querem que seja feliz. Fa\u00e7a-lhes ver que est\u00e1 consciente do risco e que aprecia o seu amor e preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Finalmente, algumas coisas far\u00e3o mais sentido<\/h2>\n<p>A maior parte das separa\u00e7\u00f5es acontece sem uma conclus\u00e3o, e h\u00e1 milh\u00f5es de perguntas na nossa cabe\u00e7a que ficam sem resposta.<\/p>\n<p>Agora tem a oportunidade de falar sobre as coisas, ver como o seu ex se sentia e porque \u00e9 que ele fez as coisas que fez.<\/p>\n<p>Just be careful\u2014talking about your past is not good for your future. That\u2019s why that talk should be limited to one or two conversations at the most.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep rubbing the past up their noses and constantly making them feel guilty, you will always be stuck, and your relationship won\u2019t be able to move forward.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Coisas novas para um novo come\u00e7o<\/h2>\n<p>You have an opportunity to start fresh here, so don\u2019t go back to your old patterns. Be more open and ready to communicate. Be more creative with how you spend your days.<\/p>\n<p>There are always new things to do and new places to see. Don\u2019t fall back into the rut you left behind. Try harder this time. Both of you.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Est\u00e3o agora mais maduros<\/h2>\n<p>Assuming that you haven\u2019t given a chance to someone who was manipulative, narcissistic, toxic or in any way abusive, you probably were with someone who was not ready for a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Compromisso era a palavra que lhes causava irrita\u00e7\u00e3o. Faltavam-lhes esfor\u00e7os e investimentos. Nunca estavam presentes quando precis\u00e1vamos deles. Basicamente, s\u00f3 estavam a meio caminho.<\/p>\n<p>They are all in now, and you can clearly feel the difference. They call and text regularly. You don\u2019t have to beg for their time or affection. Everything flows freely.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Aprenderam finalmente a dar-te valor<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s like some kind of curse in people that they don\u2019t see someone&#8217;s value in their life until they lose them. It was probably a long time coming, but they finally see your worth.<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 ver que ela est\u00e1 verdadeiramente arrependida dos seus actos. Na segunda vez, esfor\u00e7ar-se-\u00e1 mais porque quer corrigir todos os erros e far\u00e1 com que se sinta seguro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-26617 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 coisas de que nos apercebemos quando voltamos a sair com o nosso ex\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it a good idea to date your ex again? In 9 out of 10 cases, I would say NO. But there are always exceptions to the rule. Sometimes people are too immature and unprepared for a relationship. Sometimes there are so many \u2018what-ifs\u2019 left between two people that they crave one more chance. 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