{"id":26650,"date":"2018-10-25T06:46:08","date_gmt":"2018-10-25T06:46:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26650"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:40:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:40:04","slug":"nao-voltes-ao-teu-antigo-amor-ja-sabes-como-acaba-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-voltes-ao-teu-antigo-amor-ja-sabes-como-acaba-2\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o voltes ao teu antigo amor - j\u00e1 sabes como acaba"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tens saudades dele. Eu sei que sim.<\/p>\n

Tens saudades do seu sorriso bonito, de rapaz, e da forma como ele sorria adoravelmente de orelha a orelha quando tentavas ficar zangada com ele por te ter irritado com algo que agora parece t\u00e3o rid\u00edculo.<\/p>\n

Tens saudades daqueles pequenos e preciosos momentos com ele, depois de um longo dia, e de ele te fazer brilhar no momento em que entravas em casa. Tens saudades de como s\u00f3 a ideia de o ver \u00e0 tua espera no sof\u00e1 te fazia t\u00e3o feliz.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all those small things that you may have taken for granted at the time, but that now make you feel so empty and hollow. You feel like there is a genuine part missing from yourself, and you don\u2019t know how to fill that void that is churning in your chest.<\/p>\n

E you\u2019re sick and tired of feeling this way<\/a>. S\u00f3 precisas de parar.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something. The thing you miss the most is not HIM. It\u2019s how you felt when you knew you had him around. But remember this. You broke up for a reason. A good reason. You just need to remind yourself of all the ways he made you feel insufficient and inadequate and stop idealizing him in your head. If it were REALLY that good, don\u2019t you think you would still be together?<\/b><\/p>\n

Tentaste o teu melhor. Fizeste tudo o que podias para salvar a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e, no fim de contas, n\u00e3o conseguiste, your best just wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> mais.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat yourself up now that the story has come to an end. There is nothing left to be written. Let it go; give yourself a chance to heal.<\/p>\n

Quando damos por n\u00f3s a querer enviar-lhe uma mensagem, please don\u2019t<\/b>.<\/span> When you feel yourself wanting to talk to him, call your bestie instead! But whatever you do, don\u2019t give him so much space in your head and your heart.<\/p>\n

O seu lugar j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 ali<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este sentimento atual de fragilidade n\u00e3o vai durar para sempre. \u00c9 apenas o que est\u00e1 a sentir neste momento. \u00c9 perfeitamente compreens\u00edvel, mas precisa de saber que isso vai passar. Acabou de perder uma coisa que era parte integrante da sua vida e precisa de dar tempo a si pr\u00f3prio para aprender a viver sem ela.<\/p>\n

It is insane to think that going back to him would change anything. Don\u2019t be tempted. He is still the same person that made you feel so shitty at times. He\u2019s still the same person who couldn\u2019t find the time for you when you needed him the most! And he is still the person who didn\u2019t FIGHT for you when your relationship was going to hell. It was all you and your effort.<\/b><\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you tired of always being the only one giving it your all?<\/p>\n

It is normal to miss him sometimes. After all, you spent a significant amount of life together. You were so used to having him by your side that now you just don\u2019t know how to function any other way.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t live in the past. It\u2019s there for a reason. For as long as you keep clinging onto that tiny glimmer of hope that things MIGHT get better someday and that he might change, you will be doing yourself a huge disservice by not allowing yourself to live your life in the present, e reviver continuamente momentos do passado, momentos que na realidade s\u00e3o apenas <\/b>destaques<\/i><\/b> de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o fazia sentido.<\/b><\/p>\n

Querida, mereces muito mais do que ele alguma vez te poder\u00e1 oferecer! Mereces viver a tua vida AGORA e encontrar a tua felicidade no teu presente.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve to have you still hung up on him when there are so many guys out there that could be your ONE.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let memories of your past diminish the light that you deserve in your present.<\/p>\n

O futuro pode ser t\u00e3o brilhante. S\u00f3 precisas de o deixar brilhar novamente.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 o vosso passado. Deixa-o a\u00ed!<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You miss him. I know you do. You miss his cute, boyish smile and the way he would adorably grin from ear to ear when you would try and stay mad at him for annoying you with something that seems so ridiculous now. You miss those precious, little moments with him, after having had a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26651,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26650","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/alicia-petresc-1115833-unsplash.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26650","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26650"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26650\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26651"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26650"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26650"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26650"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}