{"id":26679,"date":"2020-09-25T09:42:29","date_gmt":"2020-09-25T09:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26679"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:37:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:37:59","slug":"e-preciso-um-homem-forte-para-conquistar-o-coracao-de-uma-mae-solteira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-preciso-um-homem-forte-para-conquistar-o-coracao-de-uma-mae-solteira\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 preciso um homem forte para conquistar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o de uma m\u00e3e solteira"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u00e3e solteira<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra por um segundo e pensa no peso desta palavra.<\/p>\n

Em breve se aperceber\u00e1 de que \u00e9 apenas uma palavra simples vista de fora, mas na perspetiva de uma mulher que desempenha esse papel, \u00e9 muito mais do que isso.<\/p>\n

You will see that that word is full of worries about your child, tears spilled because you can\u2019t explain why dad is no longer there.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 cheio de tristeza por causa dos lugares escuros para onde leva o seu filho todos os fins-de-semana, para que o pai o v\u00e1 buscar.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Places where nobody goes, places where there are not so many people because you don\u2019t want others to see your sadness for sharing your child with the man who used to be your everything once, but now, he is just a stranger you no longer recognize.<\/p>\n

That word is full of love, attention, sacrifice, late night talks, keeping awake because your child has a fever, working two different jobs just to provide him with nice clothes and shoes, so he won\u2019t be different from the other kids.<\/p>\n

Tem muito medo que o seu filho seja diferente dos amigos e que fique triste com isso. Por isso, d\u00e1 o seu melhor para tentar torn\u00e1-lo o mais parecido poss\u00edvel com eles.<\/p>\n

Porque, para ser sincero, ele j\u00e1 \u00e9 bastante diferente dos outros. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E por isso, todo o seu mundo est\u00e1 a desmoronar-se. Sente que a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 justa e que merece algo melhor.<\/p>\n

Then you realize that you don\u2019t have time to think negatively because you have a little person in your life who needs you badly, and se te desmoronares <\/a>, ele vai ficar sozinho.<\/p>\n

Depois, chora o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, limpa as l\u00e1grimas e continua onde parou. E vive-se assim dia ap\u00f3s dia.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Por vezes, desejamos ter algu\u00e9m, n\u00e3o para tomar conta de n\u00f3s, mas apenas para vermos que ele est\u00e1 l\u00e1. Mas apercebemo-nos que um homem assim tem de ser verdadeiramente especial. Porque s\u00f3 um homem de verdade pode conquistar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o de uma m\u00e3e solteira.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 aquele que \u00e9 forte e que te aceita tal como \u00e9s pode conquistar-te e fazer uma vida contigo.<\/p>\n

Mas um homem assim precisa de saber algumas coisas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ele precisa de aceitar que o seu filho ser\u00e1 sempre a sua principal prioridade. Isso significa que pode fazer planos com ele, mas que os cancelar\u00e1 num piscar de olhos se o seu filho ficar doente.<\/p>\n

Because you would rather stay with the person you carried under your heart for nine months, making sure he is fine, than to have fun with a guy who isn\u2019t the perfect one.<\/p>\n

If a man wants to win the heart of a single mom, he needs to know that she doesn\u2019t like games, except the ones she gladly plays with her child. She won\u2019t put up with any shit in a relationship because she has been emotionally beaten, bruised and neglected for so much time. And she doesn\u2019t want her child seeing her going through the same things again. She would rather stay single than to settle for less than she deserves.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have any problems showing her badass side because she learned that by being gentle and polite, she won\u2019t get what she wants.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

A man who thinks he is strong enough to date a single mom needs to know that she doesn\u2019t give second chances. She gave a lot of them in the past, and every time she was disappointed.<\/p>\n

Now, all she wants is a love that stays. She wants someone she can rely on. She wants to have a friend and a lover in one person. And most of all, she doesn\u2019t want to change because of him.<\/p>\n

She put a lot of effort to get to where she is now, and she wouldn\u2019t give that up for anything in this world. She just wants someone who will colocar um r\u00f3tulo <\/a> e aceit\u00e1-la como ela \u00e9.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that even though she split with her ex, he will always be a part of her life because of their child. And if he can\u2019t stand that they meet and talk about their child, he shouldn\u2019t even try anything with her. He needs to know that by accepting her, he accepts her child as well.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

When she was so brave to bring him into her life and the life of her child, he can at least be honest about his feelings. He needs to have his heart on his sleeve and have a strong will to stay or go but to never hold her somewhere in between. She already had an almost relationship, and she doesn\u2019t want another one.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t keep any man in her life until she is 100% sure that he will be good to her child. She will spend a lot of time getting to know a man before she even introduces him to her child. Because her child is her whole world and she doesn\u2019t want someone to hurt him.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 disposta a ir mais longe por aquele que a aceita como ela \u00e9. Ficar\u00e1 feliz se encontrar um homem que lhe devolva a f\u00e9 no amor e que lhe mostre que a vida pode ser bela.<\/p>\n

Ela ficar\u00e1 mais do que feliz por ter algu\u00e9m a quem possa recorrer quando tiver um dia mau. Algu\u00e9m com quem se possa abra\u00e7ar e contar-lhe todos os seus piores pesadelos.<\/p>\n

Ela, a forte, tamb\u00e9m precisa de algu\u00e9m que lhe diga que est\u00e1 a fazer um excelente trabalho sozinha e que lhe d\u00ea cr\u00e9dito por isso.<\/p>\n

She needs a man who won\u2019t run away at the first bump on the road. She needs someone who is strong enough to endure the storms life puts in front of him.<\/p>\n

Ela precisa de um homem de verdade para conquistar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e mostrar-lhe que \u00e9 digna de ser amada. Ela precisa de algu\u00e9m que saiba que ela foi partida em peda\u00e7os, mas que decida apaixonar-se por todos e cada um deles.<\/p>\n

Porque ela vale mais do que isso!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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