{"id":26713,"date":"2020-04-25T11:14:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T11:14:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26713"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:57:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:57:49","slug":"para-todas-as-raparigas-que-pensam-que-nao-conseguem-deixar-de-amar-o-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-que-pensam-que-nao-conseguem-deixar-de-amar-o-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas que acham que n\u00e3o conseguem deixar de amar o homem errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ol\u00e1, tu! Sei exatamente o que est\u00e1s a passar e como te sentes neste momento.<\/p>\n

I know that you feel like you\u2019ve lost yourself to heartbreak and that you are fighting hard to not dwell on your pain.<\/p>\n

Sei que est\u00e1 a lutar com todas as suas for\u00e7as para esquecer o homem que lhe fez mal e para fechar todos os sentimentos que ainda tem por ele.<\/p>\n

But somehow, this isn\u2019t happening.<\/p>\n

Eu sei porque eu era tu. Tamb\u00e9m fui algu\u00e9m que amou o homem errado, apesar de ser a \u00faltima coisa que ele merecia.<\/p>\n

I know that you are aware of all of this guy\u2019s flaws. You are aware that he has caused you great emotional pain and that he is not the man you should be giving your love to.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The truth is that you have a huge heart and that you believe in everlasting love. You swore to this man that you\u2019d love him forever, no matter what.<\/b><\/p>\n

And you are still keeping your promise, even though he didn\u2019t do the same. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas, por vezes, perguntamo-nos se estaremos loucos. Como \u00e9 que \u00e9 poss\u00edvel amar algu\u00e9m que nos fez tanto mal?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que \u00e9 poss\u00edvel amar o homem que a negligenciou e abusou emocionalmente de si?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 poss\u00edvel que ainda tenhas sentimentos fortes por algu\u00e9m que nunca te amou como devia?<\/p>\n

Por vezes, perguntamo-nos o que mais este homem tem de nos fazer para acabar com todo o nosso amor por ele.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Wasn\u2019t everything he put you through more than enough for you to get him out of your head and out of your heart?<\/p>\n

Por vezes, sente-se culpada por ainda o amar e sentir a sua falta. Culpa-se por n\u00e3o ter sido suficientemente forte para o ultrapassar e seguir em frente com a sua vida, tal como ele fez.<\/p>\n

Pensa que esta dor emocional \u00e9 exclusivamente culpa sua porque \u00e9 voc\u00ea que ainda est\u00e1 agarrada ao homem que a levou a sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n

And then, there are days when you are convinced that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life craving this guy.<\/p>\n

When you think of all the ways he crippled you emotionally and when you are sure that you\u2019ll never be capable of loving someone else as much as you loved him.<\/p>\n

I know that things aren\u2019t looking good right now. I know that you can\u2019t seem to see the light at the end of the tunnel that you so desperately seek.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But let me tell you just one thing\u2014you will <\/b>deixar de o amar<\/b><\/a>, sooner or later. You probably don\u2019t believe me now but this man will become just a part of your past. <\/b><\/p>\n

Um dia, ele ser\u00e1 apenas uma mem\u00f3ria distante. <\/b>E esse dia est\u00e1 prestes a chegar mais cedo do que esperas.<\/p>\n

I am not here to give you any false hope but when that day finally comes, you won\u2019t be able to believe that you cried this many tears for someone who was never worthy of your energy or time.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to believe that once you were convinced you would spend eternity suffering for someone who was never worthy of you.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014the pain you are feeling now is only temporary. You feel this way because you are processing everything that went on and because you are grieving your loss.<\/p>\n

Mas tudo isto desaparecer\u00e1 quando compreender que algumas coisas e algumas pessoas simplesmente n\u00e3o est\u00e3o destinadas a acontecer.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Toda esta dor passar\u00e1 \u00e0 hist\u00f3ria quando perceberes que tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o e por uma causa maior.<\/p>\n

One day, you\u2019ll accept the fact that this man is no longer a part of your life. <\/b><\/p>\n

And the best part is that you\u2019ll realize that losing this guy was the best thing that could have ever happened to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014 sarar\u00e1s <\/a> quando menos se espera.<\/p>\n

Todo o amor que sente por esse homem desaparecer\u00e1 juntamente com a dor que a consome neste momento.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 temos de ser pacientes e ter f\u00e9 em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hey, you! I know exactly what you are going through and how you feel right now. I know that you feel like you\u2019ve lost yourself to heartbreak and that you are fighting hard to not dwell on your pain. I know that you are struggling with all of your power to forget the man who…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":96567,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}