{"id":26717,"date":"2019-10-25T11:27:22","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T11:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26717"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:20:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:20:48","slug":"ela-perdoou-te-mas-nao-quer-ter-nada-a-ver-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-perdoou-te-mas-nao-quer-ter-nada-a-ver-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela perdoou-te mas n\u00e3o quer ter nada a ver contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela nunca pensou que iria <\/span>encontrar a for\u00e7a para vos perdoar<\/span><\/a> for all the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She never thought she would be able to forgive you for all the harm you\u2019ve done to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela nunca imaginou que poderia perdoar-te por todas as l\u00e1grimas que chorou por ti. Pela forma como a trataste ou pela forma como a fizeste sentir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas aqui est\u00e1 ela, a fazer exatamente isso. <\/span>Yes, that\u2019s right\u2014you\u2019ve heard it well. This is her forgiving you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But she isn\u2019t doing it for your sake. No, the only person she is doing it for is herself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando deixou esta rapariga para tr\u00e1s, deixou tamb\u00e9m toda a sua negatividade para tr\u00e1s. Foi como se transferisses toda a tua toxicidade e pessimismo para ela.<\/span><\/p>\n

After you left, anger and resentment started to consume her completely. She was pissed and furious at you for everything you\u2019d done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo o que ela conseguia pensar eram as formas de <\/span>vingar-me de ti<\/span><\/a> porque pensava que esta era a \u00fanica forma de recuperar a sua paz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela queria vingar-se de ti e queria que sentisses o que ela sentia, porque pensava que s\u00f3 assim poderia curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e o seu ego partido.<\/span><\/p>\n

But then, it hit her. She had become a prisoner of her hatred toward you. And you still had power over her, even though you were gone. You were still a huge part of her life, even though you weren\u2019t physically present in it.<\/b><\/p>\n

She realized that she had become everything she swore she\u2019d never be. Her hatred and anger made her become a bitter, negative and toxic person. Her negative emotions caged her and didn\u2019t let her be free.<\/span><\/p>\n

She realized that she was actually holding on to you as long as she was holding grudges. And that is why she finally let you go, together with all the bitterness and pessimism you\u2019d left behind.<\/b><\/p>\n

She decided it was time for her to forgive you because you didn\u2019t deserve to still have an impact on her. You weren\u2019t that important for her to dedicate her time or energy to hating you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ela<\/p>\n

Ela perdoou-te porque finalmente aceitou tudo o que se tinha passado. Aceitou que n\u00e3o havia nada que ela pudesse fazer para o tornar diferente e que as coisas tinham de ser como eram.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela decidiu que era altura de aceitar as desculpas que nunca recebeu porque era a \u00fanica coisa que a libertaria. Porque era a \u00fanica maneira de ela seguir em frente com a sua vida e de tu desapareceres verdadeiramente dela.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that her forgiveness is an invitation back into her life. Because it is anything but that. <\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, she forgave you but she still doesn\u2019t want anything to do with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that she forgave you but she definitely didn\u2019t forget about everything you did to her. <\/b>By forgiving you, she is letting go of you but it doesn\u2019t mean that she is approving your actions or sending you the message that you didn\u2019t do anything wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 porque ela tem um cora\u00e7\u00e3o bondoso e porque <\/span>ela \u00e9 clemente<\/span><\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean she is stupid. It doesn\u2019t mean that she doesn\u2019t see you for who you really are and it doesn\u2019t mean she thinks of you in any better way than she did before. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that she hasn\u2019t learned her lesson and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean she is ready to repeat her mistakes.<\/b><\/p>\n

By forgiving you, she isn\u2019t giving you another chance to screw her up once more or to break her heart again. She isn\u2019t giving you a green light or an opportunity to finish her off.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, she is giving herself another chance to rise from the ashes you\u2019ve put her in. She is giving herself a chance to completely move on from you and from all the pain you\u2019ve made her experience. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 a dar a si pr\u00f3pria uma oportunidade de come\u00e7ar de novo e de ter um futuro sem si.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She never thought she would find the strength to forgive you for all the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She never thought she would be able to forgive you for all the harm you\u2019ve done to her. She never imagined that she could forgive you for all the tears she cried for you. For the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":26718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/megan-te-boekhorst-1116023-unsplash-6.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26718"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}