{"id":26726,"date":"2020-11-26T08:29:09","date_gmt":"2020-11-26T08:29:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26726"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:08:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:08:04","slug":"eis-como-recuperei-do-desgosto-que-quase-me-matou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eis-como-recuperei-do-desgosto-que-quase-me-matou\/","title":{"rendered":"Eis como recuperei do desgosto que quase me matou"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve survived two heartbreaks\u2014one amor n\u00e3o correspondido<\/a> and a heartbreak that almost killed me. All of you who have gone or are going through the same will know what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the feeling of emptiness. I felt like someone ripped out my heart and cut it into small pieces. I could barely breathe. I wasn\u2019t even aware of my own existence.<\/p>\n

If someone started making me laugh, it would take minutes for my lips to move and imitate a smile. Even then, I wasn\u2019t aware of myself smiling or what I was doing.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t eat. I would chew on one bite for hours. My mother would keep preparing my favorite food in the hope that I would somehow come to my senses and start eating like I\u2019d never eaten before.<\/p>\n

Estava zangada comigo pr\u00f3pria por ter deixado que isto me acontecesse. Disse para mim pr\u00f3prio: You\u2019ll never love again. NEVER.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ver os meus amigos e a minha fam\u00edlia a tentarem fazer-me sentir melhor fazia-me sentir ainda pior. Um dia, olhei-me ao espelho e comecei a gritar comigo pr\u00f3pria, acabando por chorar.<\/p>\n

Uma noite em l\u00e1grimas tornou-se o meu maior al\u00edvio. As l\u00e1grimas eram a minha can\u00e7\u00e3o de embalar, a minha maior amiga e o meu \u00fanico escape \u00e0 mis\u00e9ria. Eu disse a mim pr\u00f3pria:<\/p>\n

Nunca mais te deixarei entrar no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Apagarei todos os fragmentos do teu amor ego\u00edsta. Apertarei o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e atir\u00e1-lo-ei a um animal selvagem para que o devore!<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mulher Eu sabia que isso era apenas um desejo meu. Se eu quisesse recuperar, teria de encontrar outra forma, uma forma mais pr\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n

So, I decided to force myself to feel better. I decided to fake my smile at the times when I couldn\u2019t smile. I decided to pretend that I was eating greedily at the times I couldn\u2019t eat. I decided to feel happy even though I was miserable.<\/p>\n

Perhaps if you pretend that you\u2019re good, you\u2019ll somehow start feeling good. I always believed that our mind is much stronger than our body.<\/p>\n

Se a tua mente ordenar algo ao teu corpo, o teu corpo obedecer\u00e1 \u00e0s suas ordens.<\/p>\n

Por isso, deixei que a minha mente ordenasse ao meu corpo que me estava a sentir bem. No in\u00edcio, n\u00e3o foi assim t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil, mas eu estava a esfor\u00e7ar-me muito.<\/p>\n

My biggest motivations were my friends and family. When you\u2019re in such a desesperado<\/a> state, you don\u2019t care about yourself or what will happen to you.<\/p>\n

You only care about those who are watching you. I couldn\u2019t stand the fact that they were starting to feel miserable too, because of me. I promised myself that I would not let his poison reach my friends and family.<\/p>\n

I would suck out his poison like you do after you\u2019re bitten by a snake. I realized that he was not worthy of my pain or my endless, sleepless nights.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o era digno de estar no centro da minha mente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Decidi desfazer-me de tudo o que me fazia lembrar dele. Livrei-me de todas as letras, dos ursinhos de peluche e de algumas figuras com diferentes formas de animais.<\/p>\n

Certifiquei-me de que o tinha apagado das minhas redes sociais e tamb\u00e9m dos seus n\u00fameros de telefone.<\/p>\n

Apaguei-o.<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

Senti que me tinham tirado um peso enorme dos ombros. Senti que estava pronto para come\u00e7ar a viver de novo.<\/p>\n

Concentrei-me apenas no presente e no que estava a fazer naquele momento. N\u00e3o deixei a minha mente vaguear e pensar no passado, porque dessa forma nunca seria capaz de come\u00e7ar a viver no presente.<\/p>\n

And if you don\u2019t live in the present, you\u2019ll never get rid of your past. During the day was easy because I\u2019d always make sure that I was occupied with something.<\/p>\n

Mas as noites eram o meu inimigo mortal. Durante a noite, come\u00e7ava a vaguear pelas ruas mais escuras do meu c\u00e9rebro e tinha de ouvir a m\u00fasica at\u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o desaparecer.<\/p>\n

Em breve, apercebi-me de que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estava a fingir. Lenta mas seguramente, o meu sorriso tornou-se genu\u00edno e os meus amigos e fam\u00edlia transformaram-se nas pessoas mais felizes do mundo.<\/p>\n

Estava t\u00e3o orgulhoso de mim pr\u00f3prio. O vazio encheu-se de alegria. O meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o estava de novo vivo.<\/p>\n

I would pinch myself for five seconds to be sure that it was not a dream. I wasn\u2019t dreaming. I was alive again.<\/p>\n

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