{"id":26766,"date":"2018-10-26T09:39:52","date_gmt":"2018-10-26T09:39:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26766"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:44:38","slug":"se-ele-gostasse-mesmo-de-ti-agiria-como-tal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-gostasse-mesmo-de-ti-agiria-como-tal\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele gostasse mesmo de ti, agiria como tal"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que \u00e9s louca por este homem. E, naturalmente, a \u00fanica coisa que realmente queres \u00e9 que ele sinta o mesmo por ti. Desejas que ele te ame da mesma forma que tu o amas.<\/p>\n

But your hope blinds you from seeing the reality. This false hope is causing you to lie to yourself and to see things that aren\u2019t actually there.<\/p>\n

Because if you look at things realistically, you\u2019ll see the truth. And the truth is that this guy actually acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you. And <\/b>if he treats you like he doesn\u2019t care, you better start believing him<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

So please, stop getting your hopes up and lying to yourself that this man has feelings for you. Look the truth in the eye and accept that if he truly cared about you, he\u2019d act like it.<\/p>\n

Please, stop justifying him mistreating you. Stop making false excuses even you don\u2019t believe in, just to justify his behavior and his lack of emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n

Stop convincing yourself that he is just emotionally unavailable right now and that things will change the moment he senses the depth of your love. That he lost faith in love and that you just have to prove to him that romance isn\u2019t dead.<\/p>\n

Stop telling yourself that he is just playing hard to get to make you fall for him even more. That he pretends to be this tough guy who doesn\u2019t want to express his emotions or show you his vulnerability.<\/p>\n

Pare de se convencer de que ele est\u00e1 apenas assustado com o quanto gosta de si e que est\u00e1 a fugir das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Que ele \u00e9 demasiado t\u00edmido para ser ele pr\u00f3prio e que s\u00f3 precisa de ser paciente com ele.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de te convenceres que este homem \u00e9 emocionalmente quebrado<\/span><\/a> or damaged and that you\u2019ll be his savior. That you\u2019ll be the one to heal his broken heart and make him fall for you.<\/p>\n

Stop telling yourself that he is treating you this way because he has trust issues and because he\u2019s been hurt in the past. That he just needs time to open up to you completely.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de te convenceres que, no fundo, este homem te ama \u00e0 sua maneira especial.<\/b> Que esta \u00e9 a sua capacidade m\u00e1xima e que \u00e9 assim mesmo que ele \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Stop dissecting his every move and analyzing his every word in the search for emotions that simply don\u2019t exist.<\/b> Pare de tentar encontrar um significado oculto nos pequenos sinais de afeto dele e pare de os confundir com amor verdadeiro. P\u00e1ra de procurar pistas nos seus sinais contradit\u00f3rios e jogos mentais.<\/b><\/p>\n

If he wanted to call you, there doesn\u2019t exist an earthly power which could stop him from doing so. If he wanted to see you, he would do so, no matter how tired or busy he is.<\/p>\n

Porque, na verdade, as coisas s\u00e3o muito simples: se este homem quisesse estar consigo, estaria. Se ele te amasse, mostrar-te-ia esse amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because a man who loves you for real will never play with your mind. His feelings will always be clear and he\u2019ll always be completely honest about them. This man will never make you second-guess him and he\u2019ll never leave you wondering.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never have to ask yourself whether this man really cares about you or if you are just imagining things. You\u2019ll never have to decode his texts and phone calls, trying to read through his intentions and trying to find a sign of his emotions for you.<\/p>\n

Quando <\/b>um homem ama-te de verdade<\/b><\/a>, you\u2019ll never have to search for that love under layers of his indifference. Because you\u2019ll be able to see it and to feel it in every second of every day, with every atom of your body and soul.<\/b><\/p>\n

Stop lying to yourself and accept the bitter truth. This man doesn\u2019t love you, never did and never will.<\/p>\n

E sabes porque \u00e9 que deves fazer isto?<\/p>\n

Because you are better than that. And you deserve more than to settle for someone who doesn\u2019t give you the love you deserve or need. And because you are strong enough to look the truth in the eye, no matter how harsh or painful it might get.<\/b><\/p>\n

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I know that you are crazy about this guy. And naturally, the only thing you really want is for him to feel the same way about you. You wish for him to love you back the same way you love him. But your hope blinds you from seeing the reality. This false hope is causing…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/matheus-lira-1113014-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26766"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26766\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26767"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}