{"id":26810,"date":"2018-10-29T08:15:48","date_gmt":"2018-10-29T08:15:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26810"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:43:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:43:29","slug":"um-dia-a-dor-que-sentes-agora-fara-sentido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-dia-a-dor-que-sentes-agora-fara-sentido\/","title":{"rendered":"Um dia, a dor que sentes agora far\u00e1 sentido"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re a mess, and nothing\u2019s going right. Your eyes are swollen from all the crying, and your body is too tired get out of bed anymore. You feel like your heart could burst at any moment and you don\u2019t seem to be doing any better. It\u2019s been weeks of feeling this way…Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 suposto come\u00e7ar a sentir-se melhor?<\/em><\/p>\n

You are overwhelmed by the array of emotions that are consuming you, and all you are able to do is just let them. You can\u2019t lutar contra isso<\/span><\/a> anymore. The pain is too much, and you don\u2019t know how you\u2019ll ever survive this.<\/p>\n

The thing about pain is, it needs to be felt in order for you to heal properly and be able to get over it. The pain is there to teach you that you are stronger than you think. It\u2019s there to show you what you\u2019re really made of and how much you are capable of enduring. You\u2019ll be surprised at how tough you are and how much you can take.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tens de deixar a dor tomar conta de ti. Entregue-se \u00e0 agonia que est\u00e1 a sentir neste momento. Deixa que ela te consuma e corra pelo teu corpo como uma tempestade num dia de rajada. Deixa que ela se insinue e fique o tempo que for preciso, e algum dia<\/em> ser\u00e1 melhor para si.<\/p>\n

That is how pain works. It arrives as an uninvited guest when you least expect it, and it lingers longer than you would like it to.. but be patient. When it finally goes away, you will feel like a new person who\u2019s ready to take over the world. There will be nothing you won\u2019t be able to conquer.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para l\u00e1 chegar.<\/em><\/p>\n

Just remember. When you feel like you\u2019ve hit rock bottom, crying on the kitchen floor, surrounded by more bottles of wine than you would like to admit, and feeling like this is the lowest you could possibly get, THAT is when you need to make a choice.<\/p>\n

This is the moment that will make you or break you. This is the time you need to decide if you\u2019re going to pick up all of your broken pieces, get up from that floor and decide that you\u2019ve had enough. You are at your lowest, and you can\u2019t even see your face from all the mascara that is smudged across your face. This is exactly when you need to decide that this is the last time you\u2019ve done this to yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m o vai ajudar se n\u00e3o se ajudar a si pr\u00f3prio primeiro. \u00c9 preciso QUERER melhorar para se sentir realmente melhor.<\/p>\n

This feeling won\u2019t last forever. I know it seems as if the sun has set on your happier days, but there is so much more sunshine waiting for you. All you need is to want to get rid of that cloud of misery that is hanging above you so dimly.<\/p>\n

E, um dia, ser\u00e1 capaz de olhar para tr\u00e1s e sentir um enorme orgulho naquilo a que conseguiu sobreviver.<\/b><\/p>\n

Um dia, poder\u00e1 acordar da cama que outrora partilhou com ele e levantar-se com uma vis\u00e3o positiva da vida. Nesse momento, a mis\u00e9ria n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 mais nada a ver consigo. Ter\u00e1 desaparecido do seu corpo e da sua alma, e sentir-se-\u00e1 como uma pessoa nova em folha, capaz de fazer tudo o que lhe apetecer.<\/p>\n

E sabem porqu\u00ea?<\/em><\/p>\n

Because you welcomed your pain with open arms. You embraced it and let it stay for a little while, for as long as it took for you to get to the place you\u2019re at now. And aren\u2019t you glad you did?<\/p>\n

Por causa dessa dor, agora sabes como \u00e9s realmente forte. Por causa dessa dor, \u00e9s capaz de apreciar a calma que est\u00e1s a sentir neste momento. E por causa dessa dor, sente-se pronto para entrar na luz novamente e deixar-se sentir de novo.<\/b><\/p>\n

To those still trying to weather the storm, feeling like a lost cause\u2014you will get through this, I promise. It always feels like the end of the world when life blindsides you like this, but one day, you\u2019ll realize that you are the only one keeping yourself from healing. And that is when you\u2019ll decide enough is enough and do everything you can to get yourself back to that happy place.<\/p>\n

Um dia<\/em> pode n\u00e3o ser amanh\u00e3 ou mesmo na pr\u00f3xima semana. Mas vai acontecer e, quando acontecer, vais ver que todas as l\u00e1grimas e noites sem dormir valeram a pena, porque foram elas que te trouxeram at\u00e9 aqui.<\/p>\n

Aguenta mais um pouco.<\/em><\/p>\n

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