{"id":26818,"date":"2020-05-29T08:20:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T08:20:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26818"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:10:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:10:17","slug":"isto-e-o-que-ele-realmente-pensa-quando-diz-que-e-complicado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/isto-e-o-que-ele-realmente-pensa-quando-diz-que-e-complicado\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que ele realmente pensa quando diz \"\u00e9 complicado\""},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada pior do que n\u00e3o saber qual \u00e9 a nossa posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m com quem esperamos ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que se est\u00e1 quase numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m que doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/a> ainda n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

E quando lhe pede para esclarecer as coisas, ele diz-lhe que as coisas entre voc\u00eas s\u00e3o complicadas. Bem, aqui est\u00e1 o que ele est\u00e1 realmente a pensar quando lhe diz isto.<\/p>\n

I am ready for a relationship\u2014just not with you<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Sim, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel que algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o esteja pronto para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio. Mas, na maioria das vezes, os rapazes usam isso como desculpa para estarem numa esp\u00e9cie de quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo, sem terem de a rotular.<\/p>\n

A maior parte das vezes, justificam-se dizendo que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o emocionalmente dispon\u00edveis neste momento, que est\u00e3o demasiado ocupados para lhe dar o tempo e a energia que merece e que precisam de tempo para se decidirem.<\/p>\n

Bem, tretas. Quem quiser ter-te na sua vida, arranja tempo. Se fores a tal, ele vai querer estar contigo neste preciso momento.<\/p>\n

So when a guy tells you that he isn\u2019t ready or that things are complicated, he is probably just telling you that he doesn\u2019t want a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

Este homem est\u00e1 a planear mant\u00ea-la por perto at\u00e9 que apare\u00e7a algu\u00e9m mais adequado para ele e este n\u00e3o \u00e9 um acordo com o qual se deva contentar.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you are good enough and whoever doesn\u2019t see that doesn\u2019t deserve to have you in his life.<\/p>\n

Quero sexo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s complicated\u201d is another way for a guy to try and vestir as cal\u00e7as<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 outra forma de lhe dizer que ele quer sexo casual, sem quaisquer outras obriga\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

But he is aware of the fact that you wouldn\u2019t accept something like this so he is basically giving you false hope that your relationship might rise to the next level sometime in the future.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014there is absolutely nothing wrong with sleeping with someone you are not in a real relationship with, as long as both partners want the same thing.<\/p>\n

Uma coisa \u00e9 concordarem em ter sexo casual e outra coisa completamente diferente \u00e9 ele continuar a mentir-lhe que as coisas v\u00e3o ser diferentes se lhe der mais algum tempo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 te quero para as coisas boas<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada, est\u00e1-se na verdade numa quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o. E isso significa que esse homem s\u00f3 est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para as coisas boas.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para o sexo, para as noites divertidas de encontro, para os mimos e tudo o mais de bom que qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica traz.<\/p>\n

Mas e as coisas m\u00e1s? E as vezes em que precisas que ele esteja l\u00e1 para ti? Para te dar a m\u00e3o quando os tempos s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis? Quando est\u00e1s doente ou deprimida?<\/p>\n

Quando precisas que ele te enxugue as l\u00e1grimas ou que te acompanhe \u00e0quele evento familiar aborrecido?<\/p>\n

Technically, he is not your official boyfriend so he doesn\u2019t have the \u2018duty\u2019 to be around.<\/p>\n

And he knows this very well\u2014that is why he is insisting on having this type of relationship.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t know where you stand with your \u2018boyfriend\u2019, you simply can\u2019t rely on that man nor can you see him as your support.<\/p>\n

He hasn\u2019t made you any promises and he is using that to get what he wants. He hasn\u2019t promised to love you at your best or at your worst.<\/p>\n

Quero uma desculpa para continuar a sair com outras raparigas, mas tamb\u00e9m quero manter-te por perto<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

A complicated relationship can\u2019t guarantee you fidelity. Well, to be frank, nobody can guarantee that your boyfriend will never cheat on you, even when you are in a labeled relationship but in this case, there at least exists a promise of integrity.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, quando um rapaz define a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o como complicada, est\u00e1 apenas \u00e0 procura de uma desculpa para dormir por a\u00ed e namoriscar com outras raparigas, sem tecnicamente a trair, porque n\u00e3o \u00e9 a namorada dele.<\/p>\n

Mas, ao mesmo tempo, ele pensa \u00e9 conveniente<\/a> e quer manter-te na vida dele como algo est\u00e1vel e constante.<\/p>\n

Eu guiar-te-ei enquanto tu me deixares<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Quando um homem lhe diz que as coisas entre ele e voc\u00ea s\u00e3o complicadas, est\u00e1 basicamente a dizer-lhe que planeia engan\u00e1-la enquanto voc\u00ea o deixar.<\/p>\n

He is perfectly fine with everything being this way and he doesn\u2019t plan on breaking things off unless you do it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s tu que tens de ver que mereces mais e que tens de acabar com as coisas, por muito que te custe.<\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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