{"id":26825,"date":"2020-03-29T08:51:04","date_gmt":"2020-03-29T08:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26825"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:19","slug":"e-assim-que-se-abre-ao-amor-depois-de-ter-sido-emocionalmente-afetado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-abre-ao-amor-depois-de-ter-sido-emocionalmente-afetado\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se abre para o amor depois de ter sofrido danos emocionais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguma vez passou por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa que tamb\u00e9m Partiu-te em peda\u00e7os <\/a> ? J\u00e1 estiveste com algu\u00e9m que te deixou emocionalmente incapacitado?<\/p>\n

Com algu\u00e9m cujas ac\u00e7\u00f5es deixaram marcas profundas no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e na sua sa\u00fade mental?<\/p>\n

If you have, I am sure you are convinced that right now, you don\u2019t want to be in another relationship ever again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost all your faith in love, and all you want to do is to recover in the best possible way from everything that has happened to you.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que quer \u00e9 curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado e desistir de vez dos encontros, das rela\u00e7\u00f5es e do amor.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eu sei que tudo o que queres fazer agora \u00e9 excluir completamente o amor da tua vida. Pensas que a \u00fanica forma de proteger o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 agir de forma completamente insens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Que a \u00fanica maneira de se proteger \u00e9 construir uma armadura \u00e0 prova de bala \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ferido, que manter\u00e1 afastada toda a dor potencial.<\/p>\n

Mas antes de decidir fazer isso, saiba que o amor merece sempre uma segunda oportunidade. <\/b><\/p>\n

You need to understand that just because one person disappointed you, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should be disappointe<\/b>d apaixonados todos juntos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Precisa de compreender que nem todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais. Precisa de compreender que deixar de lado a possibilidade de voltar a encontrar o amor \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, deve libertar-se da dor e da pessoa que lhe causou essa dor.<\/p>\n

Em vez de deixar que tudo o que aconteceu o consuma, tome-o como uma dura li\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> O que \u00e9 que o teu desgosto te ensinou?<\/p>\n

Did it show you what true love isn\u2019t? Did it teach you when it\u2019s time to walk away?<\/p>\n

Ensinou-te a colocares-te em primeiro lugar e a amares-te mais? Ensinou-te sobre os erros que nunca deves repetir?<\/p>\n

Em vez de se permitir ficar preso \u00e0 dor, aprenda com ela. Em vez de permitir que a dor o defina, pense nela como uma experi\u00eancia valiosa.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Pense nisso como algo que fez de si a pessoa que \u00e9 hoje. Pense nisso como uma parte do seu passado, e deixe-o a\u00ed mesmo, onde ele pertence.<\/p>\n

Instead of allowing your pain to crush you, rise from the ashes of your broken heart. Don\u2019t think of yourself as weak for being hurt.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lembre-se de que \u00e9 apenas um ser humano e de que isto \u00e9 um teste \u00e0 sua for\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n

Loving again and opening your heart to love after you\u2019ve suffered severe emotional damage is the most courageous thing you\u2019ll ever have to do.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma batalha que temos de travar com os nossos dem\u00f3nios interiores, com o nosso passado, com toda a nossa dor, e uma batalha que temos de travar connosco pr\u00f3prios.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

And it is a battle you\u2019ll have to win. Because if you don\u2019t, it means that the other person got exactly what they wanted. <\/b><\/p>\n

It means that they\u2019ve managed to break you along with your heart. That their mission is completed because they\u2019ve managed to scar you for life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Giving in to resentment and bitterness means that the other person won because you\u2019ve become just like them.<\/p>\n

It means that they\u2019ve convinced you that there is no such thing as true love and that you\u2019ll always hold on to them in one way or another.<\/p>\n

It means that they\u2019ve convinced you that the way they hurt you tornou-o inam\u00e1vel para os outros tamb\u00e9m <\/a> . And that is a satisfaction you shouldn\u2019t give them.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Abrir-se ao amor \u00e9 uma batalha que vencer\u00e1 se tiver um pouco mais de f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio. <\/b><\/p>\n

Remember that everything always happens for a reason, and that the Universe has bigger plans for you. I know you\u2019ve heard this a million times, but please, don\u2019t give up just yet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not here to promise you that things will always turn out to your benefit in the future.<\/p>\n

I am not here to lie you that you\u2019ll never have your heart broken again.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que o amor foi e ser\u00e1 sempre arriscado. Mas merece mesmo uma oportunidade e vale mesmo a pena correr o risco. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de viver realmente a sua vida, em vez de apenas sobreviver a ela.<\/b><\/p>\n

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