{"id":26874,"date":"2020-08-30T09:08:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-30T09:08:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26874"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:08:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:08:37","slug":"se-a-amas-apoia-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-a-amas-apoia-a\/","title":{"rendered":"Se a amas - est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para ela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you love her, don\u2019t just say it. Words <i> s\u00e3o <\/i> important&#8230; but ultimately hold no bearing if not backed up by actions.<\/p>\n<p>If you really love her, you can\u2019t just say it and never show it. She needs to see that your words aren\u2019t just empty, and she needs to <i> ver <\/i> prova-o a ela, uma e outra vez.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mostra-lhe que \u00e9s um homem de palavra. Mostra-lhe que n\u00e3o \u00e9s como todos os outros homens que ela teve antes. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Show her that you\u2019re not just saying what you want her to hear. Show her that when you profess her your love, you feel it in every bone and in every fiber of your being.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sabe, ela est\u00e1 a ficar um pouco farta de ouvir essas tr\u00eas palavras m\u00e1gicas e de acreditar nelas como se fossem a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/28-sinais-que-mostram-que-e-um-romantico-sem-esperanca\/\"> rom\u00e2ntico incur\u00e1vel <\/a> que ela \u00e9, apenas para que lhe mordam o rabo depois de ter sido t\u00e3o aberta e confi\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Ela est\u00e1 a ficar farta de lhe dizerem uma coisa e ter de a questionar durante toda a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Dizer que a ama \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, mas estar l\u00e1 para ela quando ela realmente precisa de si \u00e9 quando lhe mostra que essas palavras t\u00eam um significado real.<\/p>\n<p>Que realmente n\u00e3o consegues ver a tua vida sem ela e <i> apreciar <\/i> o seu valor. Ela precisa que lhe digam isso de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace.jpg\" alt=\"um jovem casal que se beija no terra\u00e7o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Ela precisa que sejas fiel \u00e0 tua palavra<\/b> . Ela precisa de ver que o esfor\u00e7o que faz na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 valorizado, caso contr\u00e1rio, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 lentamente a desistir.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t see the point in continuing to water your relationship if you are going to let it die.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make her give up on you.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t you dare tell her you love her and then leave her when it gets messy and complicated. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>When life happens and you have shit to worry about. Don\u2019t let all the burdens fall on her shoulders. She needs you to show her that you love her now more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t expect her to get you out of life\u2019s hardships on her own and then decide to join her when the coast is clear again.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not love. That\u2019s <i> conveni\u00eancia <\/i> . Saiba a diferen\u00e7a e nunca a deixe ficar mal.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se a amas, pergunta-lhe como est\u00e1.<\/b> Don\u2019t assume that she\u2019s okay just because she is quiet.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking.jpg\" alt=\"um casal amoroso no sof\u00e1 a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 agora que ela precisa de si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-o-teu-amigo-mau-e-o-amigo-que-mais-se-preocupa\/\"> o mais <\/a> . Ask her, and don\u2019t let her fool you into thinking she\u2019s okay. She\u2019s not always going to be fine, and she is going to need you to see it and come to her rescue.<\/p>\n<p>Saber como a ler. <i> She\u2019s going to need you to <\/i> , de tempos a tempos.<\/p>\n<p>Talk to her about the uncomfortable stuff. It\u2019s not all rainbows and butterflies.<\/p>\n<p>Coisas <i> vontade <\/i> get difficult, and you will need to figure things out together. Don\u2019t bail on her when it stops being fun.<\/p>\n<p><b><i> Para poderem desfrutar da vida em conjunto, t\u00eam de enfrentar as tempestades em conjunto.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Be consistent. Don\u2019t shower her with affection one day and then disappear the other.<\/p>\n<p>Tens de ser de confian\u00e7a para ela. Tal como ela \u00e9 para ti.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 certo que nem todos os dias v\u00e3o ser um piquenique, mas todos os dias s\u00e3o uma nova oportunidade para lhe mostrar que est\u00e1 empenhado nela e que, independentemente do que possam estar a passar, n\u00e3o v\u00e3o deixar que isso ofusque o vosso amor m\u00fatuo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"um casal amoroso sentado no capot verde de um carro e a apreciar o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s mais forte do que tudo o que possa surgir no teu caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Acima de tudo, mostra-lhe que a amas <b>quando ela deixa de se amar a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are going to be times when she won\u2019t know how to love herself anymore. She will be so hard on herself and let life get to her. She will probably try to chase you away as well.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t let her! <\/i> This is when she\u2019s at her most delicate and vulnerable. This is when she is a complete mess, but this is when she needs your love, guidance and patience the most.<\/p>\n<p><b>All you need to do is just be there. When she tells you to leave \u2013 stay. When she tells you she wants to be alone \u2013 be there more than ever. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And when she is on the verge of breaking things up \u2013 kiss her with such love and passion that she will be able to feel life coming back into her body and soul. Make her <\/b><b><i>sentir <\/i><\/b><b>o vosso amor e a vossa presen\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ela nunca esquecer\u00e1 esses momentos. Nunca esquecer\u00e1 como a ajudaste a recuperar a sanidade.<\/p>\n<p>Ela nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de lhe dizer o quanto valoriza o seu amor e esfor\u00e7o, mesmo quando estava no seu pior momento. Tu \u00e9s a sua \u00e2ncora e \u00e9s tudo o que ela precisa para se sentir viva novamente.<\/p>\n<p>O amor \u00e9 isto. As palavras s\u00e3o necess\u00e1rias, <i> mas s\u00e3o as ac\u00e7\u00f5es que a fazem passar o dia. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Saber que ela tem tudo isso em si \u00e9 o que a far\u00e1 ultrapassar tudo. Tu \u00e9s ela <b>for\u00e7a <\/b> quando ela est\u00e1 no seu ponto mais fraco.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever let her down. Don\u2019t ever make her regret trusting you with so much of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t gamble away the love that she feels from you. If you keep being her anchor, she will never stop being your girl.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107939 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se a amas - est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para ela\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you love her, don\u2019t just say it. Words are important&#8230; but ultimately hold no bearing if not backed up by actions. If you really love her, you can\u2019t just say it and never show it. She needs to see that your words aren\u2019t just empty, and she needs to see you prove it to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":107929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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