{"id":26881,"date":"2023-10-18T09:13:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-18T09:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26881"},"modified":"2023-10-19T12:10:19","modified_gmt":"2023-10-19T12:10:19","slug":"mesmo-que-ele-se-va-embora-tu-e-que-ganhas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mesmo-que-ele-se-va-embora-tu-e-que-ganhas\/","title":{"rendered":"Mesmo que ele se v\u00e1 embora - tu \u00e9 que ganhas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No matter how much in pain you are right now, believe me \u2013 you\u2019ve won. I know it sounds crazy, but the moment he decides to leave you, he loses, and you\u2019re the one who wins.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who wins because you were not afraid to love him with all of your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Eras real e genu\u00edno neste mundo cheio de mentes falsas e preconceitos. Mostraste a todos como amar sem ego\u00edsmo e fizeste do mundo um lugar melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even dare to think otherwise. Your tears, big heart and soul full of life are all traits of a real soldier.<\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t afraid to fight for your dreams and beliefs. You weren\u2019t afraid to fight for the most dangerous thing \u2013 love.<\/p>\n<p>You knew that you might get hurt, but your beautifully stubborn heart simply didn\u2019t want to give up at the first obstacle. Obstacles have made you stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Estavas pronto para cair e levantar-te como se nada tivesse acontecido. Estava pronta para se entregar totalmente a outra pessoa, o que \u00e9 a coisa mais bonita e inspiradora que se pode fazer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz deitada no colo de um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, even if he leaves, you\u2019re the one who wins. You\u2019re the one who will continue with your life with a head held high and your big, now even stronger, heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Apesar de ele te tomar por garantida, tu eras generosa.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Apesar da sua natureza ego\u00edsta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/not-rebuild-take-granted\/\"> tomei-o por garantido <\/a> , your big heart was giving. You weren\u2019t afraid to give the most valuable thing in your possession \u2013 your heart, to a complete stranger.<\/p>\n<p>Can you ever imagine what a brave person you are? I\u2019m really proud of you, and you should be, too.<\/p>\n<p>Estava a dar, apesar de quase n\u00e3o receber nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre esperou que algo mudasse e foi generoso ao dar-lhe uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98497\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada com as mentes profundas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though he didn\u2019t appreciate you, you gave him your affection and were patiently waiting for him to reciprocate.<\/p>\n<p><b>Apesar de ele te ter mentido, foste honesta.<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso ser uma pessoa corajosa para se manter honesto no mar de mentiras. Voc\u00ea sabia que ele lhe estava a mentir, mas decidiu manter-se sincera.<\/p>\n<p>Even though his lies have haunted you every night in your sleep, you didn\u2019t let them change who you are. You stayed true to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca perdeste uma oportunidade de lhe dizer o quanto o amavas ou sentias a sua falta, mesmo quando ele se recusava a responder \u00e0s tuas chamadas. Foste honesta.<\/p>\n<p>A honestidade \u00e9 uma prenda muito cara, que oferecia de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e que esperava dele tamb\u00e9m, mesmo sabendo que n\u00e3o se pode esperar uma prenda t\u00e3o cara de pessoas baratas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98498\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher solit\u00e1ria e triste em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas tu escolheste acreditar de forma diferente porque tentas sempre ver o melhor nos outros.<\/p>\n<p><b>Apesar de ele te ter feito sentir indigna, deste tudo o que podias.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t care for his manipulative games that made you feel unworthy of love. He made you feel like you had to fight and deserve his love, and you gave everything you could.<\/p>\n<p>Lutaste como um verdadeiro soldado, n\u00e3o porque ele te obrigou, mas porque acreditaste que se deres tudo o que tens, ele acabar\u00e1 por mudar de ideias e come\u00e7ar a tratar-te como mereces.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-maior-erro-que-alguma-vez-cometi-foi-dar-tudo-de-mim-a-ti\/\">Dar tudo o que se tem<\/a> tornou-te vulner\u00e1vel, mas continuavas a nadar orgulhosamente no mar das suas mentiras, sem te importares com isso.<\/p>\n<p>You believed he would rescue you once you started drowning. He didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste junto ao muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you weren\u2019t afraid to continue fighting for his poisonous love even though you knew it would destroy you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mesmo que ele tenha escolhido outra pessoa, tu escolheste-o a ele.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Escolheste-o e decidiste lutar por ele. Deves estar orgulhosa de ti pr\u00f3pria porque fizeste tudo o que estava ao teu alcance para conquistar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s what brave people do. They don\u2019t like someone and then wait for them to magically appear on their doors and jump into their lives.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas corajosas optam por lutar por algu\u00e9m de quem gostam, mesmo que saibam que podem acabar por se magoar. N\u00e3o tem medo de desafios.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t let life challenge you; instead you\u2019re the one challenging it, and sooner or later, you will reap what you sow.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita de p\u00e9 \u00e0 luz do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os seus esfor\u00e7os ser\u00e3o recompensados de uma forma ou de outra, s\u00f3 tem de acreditar nisso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Even though he left, you\u2019re the one who won.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sabe que fez o seu melhor e que lhe deu uma oportunidade, apesar de ele a ter tomado como garantida.<\/p>\n<p>Know that you\u2019re the one who won because your heart has gone through enormous pain and now it\u2019s even stronger.<\/p>\n<p>O cora\u00e7\u00e3o dele permanecer\u00e1 o mesmo, mesmo que o tenhas tentado reparar. Mas o teu grande cora\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 ainda maior e mais forte, e esperar\u00e1 pacientemente por algu\u00e9m que te mere\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who wins because you know how to love, and don\u2019t let anyone tell you differently.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mesmo que ele se v\u00e1 embora - tu \u00e9 que ganhas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.png\" alt=\"Mesmo que ele se v\u00e1 embora - tu \u00e9 que ganhas\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-150x225.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No matter how much in pain you are right now, believe me \u2013 you\u2019ve won. I know it sounds crazy, but the moment he decides to leave you, he loses, and you\u2019re the one who wins. You\u2019re the one who wins because you were not afraid to love him with all of your heart. 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