{"id":26894,"date":"2018-10-30T10:49:11","date_gmt":"2018-10-30T10:49:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26894"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:40:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:40:36","slug":"para-ti-fui-imperfeito-para-outra-pessoa-serei-perfeito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-ti-fui-imperfeito-para-outra-pessoa-serei-perfeito\/","title":{"rendered":"Para ti eu tinha defeitos - Para outra pessoa serei perfeito"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Demorei algum tempo a ver isto. Durante tanto tempo, tu foste o meu padr\u00e3o. Era em ti que eu media o meu valor. O que tu vias em mim era o que eu escolhia acreditar que era.<\/p>\n<p><em>Caramba, como me enganei.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Felizmente, depois de algum exame de consci\u00eancia ap\u00f3s a nossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o, percebi que a tua vis\u00e3o distorcida de mim n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com o que realmente sou. Tudo o que faz \u00e9 refletir o teu mau julgamento de mim e a natureza ego\u00edsta do teu amor.<\/p>\n<p><b>First of all, I don\u2019t really believe you ever loved me. What you felt for me may have been lust, <\/b><b><i>na melhor das hip\u00f3teses<\/i><\/b><b>. You don\u2019t treat a girl who gives you her heart on a silver platter the way you treated me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You never saw me as anything more than just a piece of meat. A piece of meat that would listen to you, guide you, help you and give you all the other things that you just couldn\u2019t get enough of.<\/p>\n<p><b>E o que \u00e9 que eu tive em troca? Metade da tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e s\u00f3 te preocupavas comigo quando eu estava no meu melhor, para me exibires aos teus amigos, que s\u00f3 me julgavam com base no qu\u00e3o curto era o meu vestido e no qu\u00e3o bem feito era o meu rabo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Right now, I\u2019m disgusted at how I let you treat me. You never showed me any respect. You never bothered to be there when I was a mess. You were only there when YOU needed something from me. <em>Que tolice a minha confundir isso com amor.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But I thank God that he let you in my life. I really do. See, if not for you, this is how I would let everyone treat me. Because that is all I\u2019ve been shown. You showed me any attention and I put my best dress on and went running. And in return, when I called you, when I was in need, you never showed up. You never wanted to be there for me because you saw my emotional side as a flaw.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca conseguiste aceitar que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o mais do que duas pessoas que desfrutam da vida juntas e, quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis, abandonam-se uma \u00e0 outra. Quando os tempos eram bons, est\u00e1vamos numa boa, mas quando a vida se metia no caminho, desaparecias at\u00e9 eu resolver as coisas sozinho.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done letting you treat me this way. I refuse to be seen as needy, when all I wanted was your attention. I refuse to be seen as clingy, when all I wanted was to know my boyfriend loved me. I refuse to let you picture me as flawed, when all I really am is human.<\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Na altura, n\u00e3o me apercebi de nada disto, mas agora vejo-o com mais clareza do que nunca.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>You are no longer a factor in how I choose to see myself, or most importantly\u2014my worth. You are no longer relevant in my soul-searching. You no longer exist.<\/p>\n<p>O que voc\u00ea viu como carente, outra pessoa ver\u00e1 como uma rapariga que ama t\u00e3o profundamente que simplesmente precisa de ver esse amor correspondido.<\/p>\n<p>What you saw as clingy, somebody else will see as a girl who loves spending time with her partner because he makes her happy. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>O que tu v\u00eas como um defeito, outra pessoa ver\u00e1 como uma joia escondida. Ele ver-me-\u00e1 como uma rapariga am\u00e1vel e de bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o, empenhada e fiel, aberta e de confian\u00e7a e, acima de tudo, genu\u00edna e verdadeira.<\/p>\n<p>I will not settle for anything or anyone less. If you want me, you get all of me. I\u2019m not going to pretend to be perfect to please you and be alone in my misery. I\u2019m not going to put on a brave face around you, only to come home and cry myself to sleep.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>N\u00e3o<\/i><\/b><b>. Se eu tiver de fingir ser outra coisa que n\u00e3o o real, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/rapariga-coracao-confuso-que-vale-a-pena-cair\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rapariga desarrumada que eu sou<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9s relevante para a minha vida. S\u00f3 aqueles que me aceitam por inteiro s\u00e3o dignos do meu tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are the one who made me realize that. Out of that shitty relationship, I came out as the winner. You taught me to value myself and I\u2019ll forever be thankful.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o tenho paci\u00eancia para meias coisas. Se me amas, ter\u00e1s tudo de mim e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 atalhos.<\/p>\n<p>Love me or leave me, I no longer accept anything in-between. I\u2019m the best version of myself I have ever been and only those who can appreciate me in all my realness, get the key to my heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-26895 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Para ti eu tinha defeitos - Para outra pessoa serei perfeito\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It took me a while to see this. For so long, you were my standard. You were the one who I measured my worth upon. What you saw in me was what I chose to believe I was. Boy, how wrong was I. Luckily, after some soul-searching following our break-up, I realized that your twisted&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/angelos-michalopoulos-742340-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26894"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26894\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}