But the thing is, these almost extinct creatures, these nice guys are so hard to find because they\u2019ve been outshined by Tinder guys and creatures of the modern dating world.<\/b><\/p>\n
It\u2019s really almost impossible to find a man who\u2019ll treat you right, who\u2019ll genuinely care for you, so you settle for an imbecil imaturo<\/span><\/a> and you hope for the best – you hope he is not a jerk.<\/p>\n But surprise, surprise. He is just one more in the sea of men who\u2019ll hurt you. It\u2019s like they are everywhere, and they are spreading so fast, like a plague.<\/p>\n Estamos t\u00e3o habituados a empanturrar-nos de gelado enquanto choramos l\u00e1grimas enormes e falamos com os nossos amigos ao telefone, repetindo constantemente uma palavra, uma pergunta eterna – <\/span>PORQU\u00ca?! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n That\u2019s what we do. That\u2019s what these modern men have made us do. <\/b><\/p>\n The bottom line is, we seem to be living a life of pain, true heart-wrecking pain because it\u2019s been a year you\u2019re dating, and he still doesn\u2019t know whether he\u2019d like to take things seriously or not.<\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso? Ser\u00e1 que estamos a pedir demasiado? Nos dias de hoje, parece que sim.<\/p>\n So, I’ve been thinking, and I had to ask myself why do we always fall for bad boys, men who\u2019ll definitely hurt us in the end, and I came to a conclusion. This is what you\u2019re doing, you and me both:<\/p>\n O carinho est\u00e1 escrito no seu c\u00f3digo gen\u00e9tico. Tem este instinto profundo de ajudar as pessoas que parecem estar quebradas. E quem \u00e9 mais perfeito para o papel de v\u00edtima, aos seus olhos, do que um bad boy, um homem que precisa claramente de ser consertado.<\/p>\n So you roll up your sleeves and you begin your quest – to save his poor, little, wounded soul. How does it all end? With you barely getting up from your bed in the morning, and he partying away \u2018to forget\u2019. Clearly, he is having such a hard time. Boohoo!<\/p>\n You choose these men because real men don\u2019t need to be fixed; ergo they are not as attractive.<\/p>\n1. Quer consert\u00e1-los<\/h2>\n
2. You\u2019re scared of commitment<\/h2>\n
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