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<\/p>\nOs narcisistas podem enganar qualquer pessoa que nunca tenha estado em contacto com esse tipo de pessoa.<\/p>\n
They can sell all kinds of stories and make up all kinds of lies to victims tangled in their webs, but they can\u2019t fool someone who has already been through their terror.<\/p>\n
So, in light of this, I\u2019m going to use my experience with a narcissist and share it with you, so one day if, God forbid, a narcissist crosses your path, you\u2019ll be ready to defend yourself.<\/p>\n
I never wanted to really talk about what happened to me because I was ashamed. I didn\u2019t want to admit to anybody, including myself, that I fell for the lies and tricks of one vicious man.<\/p>\n
Guardei-o tanto tempo dentro de mim, engarrafado. Culpava-me por ser t\u00e3o est\u00fapida, por manter os olhos fechados, por ignorar tudo o que estava a acontecer mesmo debaixo do meu nariz.<\/p>\n
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This went along for a long time until I decided to forgive myself. I\u2019ve realized that I\u2019m not perfect and because I made that mistake, I\u2019m not stupid either.<\/p>\n
It happened; it went down horribly wrong. I could have prevented it, but I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Fiz as pazes com isso e segui em frente. Foi uma viagem espiritual coberta de sangue, suor e enormes quantidades de l\u00e1grimas, mas foi um caminho que valeu a pena percorrer. <\/b><\/p>\n
So, I\u2019m here now offering you my help. I want you to know all the tricks narcissists have up their sleeves because I want to save you from the pain I went through.<\/p>\n
Continue a ler para saber mais os segredos e os truques narc\u00edsicos<\/a> n\u00e3o querem que tu descubras:<\/p>\n If you say anything that will shame him or give him a clue that you\u2019re up to what he\u2019s doing, he\u2019ll make your life impossible.<\/p>\n If you let him know that you\u2019re aware of his narcissistic traits, he\u2019ll bring out the big guns with the intention of destroying you.<\/p>\n Neste caso, e em geral, ignorar um narcisista <\/a> \u00e9 a melhor e a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que vos resta. Essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de o afastar.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get caught in his provocations. In fact, don\u2019t show any emotions while talking to him.<\/p>\n Acting like that will make you unappealing and uninteresting, and eventually, he\u2019ll walk away because you\u2019ve cut off his supply.<\/p>\n Sempre que ele fizer algum tipo de abuso, tente regist\u00e1-lo ou anot\u00e1-lo. O importante \u00e9 que tenha provas do ass\u00e9dio.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important because when you have tangible proof of abuse, he can\u2019t gaslight you.<\/p>\n He can\u2019t use various tactics to make you think you\u2019re crazy. and the abuse never happened. You just overreacted.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll try to go with it anyway, but since you have proof, you can always show it to someone you trust to really confirm that you\u2019re not imagining things, that the abuse actually happened.<\/p>\n Os narcisistas t\u00eam uma grande estima por si pr\u00f3prios e a sua reputa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa com que se preocupam. <\/b><\/p>\n So if they see that their reputation has been compromised, they will run from you like hell because you\u2019re too big of a risk.<\/b><\/p>\n Qualquer tipo de resposta que lhes d\u00ea, mesmo que seja sob a forma de vingan\u00e7a, alimenta-os.<\/p>\n Precisam de aten\u00e7\u00e3o constante<\/a>\u2014good or bad, it doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n Em vez de pensar em como se vingar deles, concentre-se em si e tente fazer da sua vida uma vida melhor.<\/p>\n If you choose to stay in contact with them for whatever reason, be prepared for constant attacks and guilt trips designed to get back their source of narcissistic supply – you.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you\u2019re forced to stay in contact with your narcissist, make yourself as boring as you possibly can.<\/p>\n Limit your conversations to only what\u2019s necessary and never give them a single detail more than they need to know.<\/p>\n Making yourself appalling to a narcissist will definitely make him leave you alone, but you won\u2019t win that war without putting up a fight\u2014that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n If you discard him, he\u2019ll freak out. He can\u2019t stand that huge hit on his ego. So, his next step, only logical to him, is to try to come back to you.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t want to get back together because ele sente a tua falta <\/a> e quer trabalhar na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Ele quer que voltes para te magoar e traumatizar por teres tido a aud\u00e1cia de o deixar primeiro.<\/p>\n Ele quer reavivar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, por isso \u00e9 ele que a mata. Claro que, mais tarde, ele vai espalhar boatos sobre a cabra maluca que tu \u00e9s, como destru\u00edste a vida dele, etc.<\/p>\nDon\u2019t confront him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEle tem medo de ser apanhado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe can\u2019t stand your indifference<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe can\u2019t stand getting dumped first<\/h2>\n
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