{"id":27025,"date":"2020-03-01T09:12:01","date_gmt":"2020-03-01T09:12:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27025"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:31:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:31:09","slug":"se-nao-me-quiseres-agora-nunca-me-teras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-nao-me-quiseres-agora-nunca-me-teras\/","title":{"rendered":"Se n\u00e3o me quiseres agora, nunca me ter\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ouve, n\u00e3o vou fingir que sou menos do que sei que sou.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a good catch and I treat everyone with the same amount of respect. I love my friends more than anything and whomever I date, I give 101% of me.<\/p>\n

So, I expect the same from my partner. I don\u2019t like anything half-assed. If you\u2019re dating me, you need to appreciate and value me for the great gal that I am.<\/p>\n

I promise I\u2019ll make it worthwhile. But if you expect me to wait for you, while you descobrir <\/a> quer me queiras ou n\u00e3o, pensar de novo.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not waiting for anyone. If you\u2019re having second thoughts about me, by all means, leave. I don\u2019t have time for you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I need someone who, just like me, knows what he wants, and is smart enough to get it, before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re either ready to make me a part of your life or you\u2019re not. There is no gray area here. We\u2019re too old to be playing games.<\/b><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t settle for anything that\u2019s neither here nor there.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have the energy to be wondering whether maybe you\u2019re just too shy or you are actually a enganar-me <\/a>Quero algu\u00e9m que saiba quando a coisa que quer est\u00e1 \u00e0 sua frente e que aja em conformidade.<\/p>\n

Not in a week\u2014now. Anything else… I\u2019m not interested.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

My time is too valuable for a \u2018maybe\u2019. Am I supposed to sit here and pause my life, because there is a possibility that you might realize in the future that you do actually want me?<\/p>\n

Isso \u00e9 um disparate.<\/p>\n

My life is too amazing to be put on pause for a guy who can\u2019t make up his mind.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to hope that the situation might change with time for a guy who can\u2019t make a decision to save his life. I\u2019ll pass.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m really not that desperate. I have options, you know. Also, I feel like any guy worth my time wouldn\u2019t be wasting it like this; am I right?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por que \u00e9 que me est\u00e1 a p\u00f4r em espera, em vez de me tentar conquistar? <\/i> Are you really that special? I don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s plenty more fish in the sea and this girl isn\u2019t worried about a thing.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re making yourself very clear. You\u2019re not interested enough to make a move and I can take a hint.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re taking up way too much time and mine is too precious to be wasted like this.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re busy mulling over your options, I have no problem moving on and deleting you from my life. <\/b>Passemos \u00e0 pr\u00f3xima.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 inequ\u00edvoco. Quando se tem sentimentos reais e genu\u00ednos por algu\u00e9m, sabe-se. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 espa\u00e7o para incertezas.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t go around wondering whether you should keep this woman you amor<\/b> na tua vida ou n\u00e3o. Sabes como \u00e9. Simplesmente sabes.<\/p>\n

If you really had feelings for me, there\u2019d be no room for uncertainty. So I have no problem letting you go, before I grow too attached to an unsure man.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to accept being your backup plan. Not today, not ever.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to be one of four girls you\u2019re casually seeing at the same time and be praying that you end up choosing me. Sorry but that\u2019s just such a waste of time!<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Also, you\u2019re really not that cute.<\/p>\n

If you come looking for me later, I won\u2019t be available. Even if I\u2019m single then, I won\u2019t be available for you.<\/p>\n

You might come to me with some BS story that you just weren\u2019t in the right place at the time and the timing was just not right… But guess what?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care. You HAD your chance and you blew it. You\u2019re the only one to blame for that.<\/p>\n

Se realmente me apreciasses e me valorizasses, nunca me farias esperar enquanto ponderavas as tuas op\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9 rid\u00edculo pensar que eu alguma vez o consideraria aceit\u00e1vel.<\/b><\/p>\n

No, it\u2019s not okay. I have other shit to do and unless you\u2019re ready to commit when I give you a chance, you\u2019re not worth my time. Sorry, not sorry!<\/p>\n

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Listen, I\u2019m not going to pretend to think I\u2019m anything less than I know I am. I\u2019m a good catch and I treat everyone with the same amount of respect. I love my friends more than anything and whomever I date, I give 101% of me. So, I expect the same from my partner. I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81278,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27025","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Don\u2019t-Want-Me-Now-You\u2019ll-Never-Have-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27025","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27025"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27025\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163603,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27025\/revisions\/163603"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27025"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27025"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27025"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}