{"id":27063,"date":"2020-08-02T07:38:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T07:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27063"},"modified":"2021-12-06T18:27:49","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T18:27:49","slug":"5-maneiras-de-saber-se-ele-e-narcisista-ou-apenas-egocentrico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-saber-se-ele-e-narcisista-ou-apenas-egocentrico\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de saber se ele \u00e9 narcisista ou apenas egoc\u00eantrico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Normalmente, ser um narcisista e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-perturbadores-de-que-e-uma-pessoa-egoista\/\">ser ego\u00edsta<\/a> e egoc\u00eantrico s\u00e3o considerados a mesma coisa.<\/p>\n<p>Na pr\u00e1tica, estes dois termos s\u00e3o normalmente utilizados para descrever algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 obcecado por si pr\u00f3prio e que se ama demasiado. Mas estas duas coisas s\u00e3o, de facto, bastante diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>Embora estas diferen\u00e7as n\u00e3o sejam t\u00e3o \u00f3bvias \u00e0 primeira vista, s\u00e3o bastante reais e existentes.<\/p>\n<p>O facto \u00e9 que o narcisismo \u00e9 um dist\u00farbio de personalidade, enquanto que o egocentrismo \u00e9 um tra\u00e7o de personalidade, e aqui est\u00e3o as formas em que estes dois termos diferem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Empatia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124855\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a ouvir mulher no banco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A primeira coisa que o pode ajudar a determinar se \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/apos-o-namoro-com-um-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> namorar um narcisista <\/a> ou apenas um homem egoc\u00eantrico \u00e9 o n\u00edvel de empatia e compaix\u00e3o que sente pelos outros.<\/p>\n<p>Enquanto um narcisista normalmente n\u00e3o tem empatia e s\u00f3 pensa no seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar, as pessoas egoc\u00eantricas s\u00e3o diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>Se o seu namorado for ego\u00edsta, ele colocar\u00e1 sempre as suas necessidades e desejos em primeiro lugar. A verdade \u00e9 que ele vai cuidar de si pr\u00f3prio, mas ao contr\u00e1rio de um narcisista, ele ter\u00e1 a capacidade de partilhar a sua felicidade ou tristeza.<\/p>\n<p>He will feel bad when he hurts your feelings, and he won\u2019t ignore your emotions completely.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, a narcissist doesn\u2019t care about the way anyone around him feels because he lacks empathy. A narcissist lacks understanding for other people\u2019s feelings, and he can never even pretend to be an empath.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Procurar aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124856\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a olhar para o espelho\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O que \u00e9 comum \u00e0s pessoas narcisistas e egoc\u00eantricas \u00e9 o facto de ambas desejarem a aten\u00e7\u00e3o e a aprova\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a huge difference between ways in which they do this and the degree to which they seek attention. If your boyfriend is self-centred, he\u2019ll use every possible opportunity to talk about himself and be under the spotlight.<\/p>\n<p>But he\u2019ll still be able to devote his time and attention to you, when it\u2019s needed.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, um narcisista nunca ouvir\u00e1 nada do que tem para dizer. Em vez disso, procurar\u00e1 sempre uma oportunidade para falar de si pr\u00f3prio, mostrando-lhe claramente que o que lhe est\u00e1 a acontecer \u00e9 muito mais importante do que aquilo por que est\u00e1 a passar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Valores morais<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124857\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>From someone else\u2019s point of view, narcissists don\u2019t have moral values. Actually, they have their own standards and distorted values which they think are right.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t follow social norms, and in this case, this is not a good thing. He has a hard time distinguishing good from bad, and there is almost nothing he wouldn\u2019t for his own benefit.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, a self-centred person doesn\u2019t have any trouble with moral values. They have some values they follow and don\u2019t feel like life rules don\u2019t apply to them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os outros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124858\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio de p\u00e9 ao ar livre e a enviar mensagens de texto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-magoar-emocionalmente-um-homem-narcisista-6-formas-eficazes-de-o-fazer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> o homem ao teu lado \u00e9 narcisista <\/a>Ele trat\u00e1-la-\u00e1 como se estivesse acima de si, mas como se dependesse de si. E \u00e9 exatamente isso que ele sente.<\/p>\n<p>He feels like you are beneath him, but at the same time, he can\u2019t live without your admiration. Yes, you are his victim, but he is the one who needs you and the one who depends on you.<\/p>\n<p>Contrary to this, self-centred people don\u2019t look at the world like this. Instead, they are usually self-sufficient, and they don\u2019t consider it to be the end of the world if they don\u2019t have someone\u2019s approval.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Auto-consci\u00eancia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124859\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio de fato a olhar pela janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outra grande diferen\u00e7a entre um narcisista e uma pessoa egoc\u00eantrica est\u00e1 no n\u00edvel de auto-consci\u00eancia e de auto-consci\u00eancia sobre as suas palavras, ac\u00e7\u00f5es e comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>To put things simply\u2013a narcissist will never admit or accept that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/guy-10-things-hes-serious-narcissist-disguise\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> ele \u00e9 um narcisista <\/a>. He is never aware that his actions aren\u2019t right, and he thinks he is entitled to break all moral norms and rules just because he is better than everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>A narcissist doesn\u2019t have a conscience, runs away from responsibility and always thinks he is right, no matter what he said or did.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, uma pessoa egoc\u00eantrica sabe normalmente que ser ego\u00edsta n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma qualidade humana valorizada e reconhece-o como um tra\u00e7o da sua personalidade.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas ego\u00edstas s\u00e3o diferentes dos narcisistas devido \u00e0 sua auto-consci\u00eancia. Por vezes, sentem-se culpadas pelo seu ego\u00edsmo e tentam trabalhar nesse sentido.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124861\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 maneiras de saber se ele \u00e9 narcisista ou apenas egoc\u00eantrico\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Usually, being a narcissist and being selfish and self-centered are considered to be the same thing. In practice, both of these terms are usually used to describe someone who is obsessed with themselves and who loves themselves too much. But these two things are actually quite different. Even though these differences are not so obvious&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":124860,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27063","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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