{"id":27071,"date":"2020-03-02T08:08:33","date_gmt":"2020-03-02T08:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27071"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:27:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:27:41","slug":"5-coisas-em-que-a-maioria-dos-homens-pensa-demais-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-em-que-a-maioria-dos-homens-pensa-demais-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas em que a maioria dos homens pensa demais numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Apesar da opini\u00e3o comum, as mulheres n\u00e3o s\u00e3o as \u00fanicas que pensam demasiado. Os homens tamb\u00e9m podem sentir-se inseguros e perguntar-se se s\u00e3o suficientes para a pessoa que amam.<\/p>\n<p>They also analyze and worry about many things when they are in a relationship\u2014they are just better at hiding it.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the 5 most common things almost every man overthinks about in a relationship, even though he\u2019ll never admit it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Comparar-se com a sua ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77101\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-man-sitting-in-the-park-alone.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado sentado sozinho no parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-man-sitting-in-the-park-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-man-sitting-in-the-park-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-man-sitting-in-the-park-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um dos receios que todos os homens t\u00eam \u00e9 que a sua namorada s\u00f3 os veja como uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete e que ainda ame o seu ex.<\/p>\n<p>E isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pergunta-se se est\u00e1 com ele apenas para esquecer algu\u00e9m do seu passado ou para fazer ci\u00fames ao seu ex. Tens algum <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-assim-que-vais-deixar-a-tua-bagagem-emocional-arruinar-a-tua-proxima-relacao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> bagagem emocional que pode arruinar a sua futura rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>The fact is that he\u2019ll secretly want to know all about your ex and the relationship the two of you had. He overthinks about the love you felt for your ex and the love you\u2019ll feel for him.<\/p>\n<p>Tem algu\u00e9m do passado que pensa ter sido a sua alma g\u00e9mea e ser\u00e1 que alguma vez ocupar\u00e1 o lugar dele no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>Even though he probably won\u2019t show it to you, it is likely that your current boyfriend will try to find out as much as possible about all of your exes because he feels threatened by them.<\/p>\n<p>He feels insecure thinking that they were better than him in one way or another or that he\u2019ll never make you feel the way they did.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu desempenho sexual<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77102\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-kissing-woman-passionate.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher apaixonadamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-kissing-woman-passionate.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-kissing-woman-passionate-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-kissing-woman-passionate-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many guys connect their value as men exclusively to sex. Your boyfriend\u2019s sexual performance and the fact that he is a stud in the sheets are what he thinks determine his masculinity.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que todos os homens querem impression\u00e1-la na cama e dar o seu melhor para lhe mostrar todas as suas capacidades, especialmente no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Mas todo este desejo de ser t\u00e3o bom quanto poss\u00edvel cria uma enorme press\u00e3o para eles e, normalmente, leva-os a ter um desempenho inferior.<\/p>\n<p>E isto \u00e9 algo que todos os homens t\u00eam medo de passar e que os deixa stressados.<\/p>\n<p>When a guy falls for you, he\u2019ll think about how he\u2019ll turn out to be before sex happens and he\u2019ll overthink about if he pleased you the right way once it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you should definitely always tell your boyfriend what works for you and work on improving your sex life, make sure you don\u2019t openly criticize him.<\/p>\n<p>E mesmo que o fa\u00e7a, fa\u00e7a-o com delicadeza. Se vir que ele est\u00e1 a esfor\u00e7ar-se para a satisfazer, n\u00e3o esmague o ego dele insinuando que ele \u00e9 p\u00e9ssimo na cama.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Matar as borboletas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77103\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada sentada ao lado do namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you start a new relationship, you don\u2019t see each other\u2019s flaws and imperfections. Nothing annoys you about your partner because the butterflies in your stomach consume you completely.<\/p>\n<p>Mas como \u00e9 que se mant\u00e9m essa chama viva? O que \u00e9 que ele pode fazer para que se continue a apaixonar por ele todos os dias? Como \u00e9 que ele pode manter-te interessada?<\/p>\n<p>Ter\u00e1 ele sempre a capacidade de vos fazer rir e de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/17-sweet-things-to-do-for-your-girlfriend-to-put-a-smile-on-her-face\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> p\u00f4r um sorriso no rosto <\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>E o que \u00e9 que acontece quando a fa\u00edsca se apaga? O que acontece quando as borboletas desaparecem? Isso significa que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 condenada ao fracasso?<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que vai gostar do que v\u00ea, quando come\u00e7ar a olhar para ele com clareza? Ou ser\u00e1 ele que vai querer fugir da rela\u00e7\u00e3o quando isso acontecer?<\/p>\n<p>Estas s\u00e3o apenas algumas das coisas em que a maioria dos homens pensa demasiado quando est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque se gostam de si, sentem-se respons\u00e1veis por continuar a seduzi-la.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Perder a sua masculinidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77104\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-man-sitting-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"jovem preocupado sentado ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-man-sitting-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-man-sitting-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-man-sitting-outdoor-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma das coisas que quase todos os homens temem \u00e9 serem menos homens no momento em que se apaixonam e no momento em que come\u00e7am a demonstrar esse amor.<\/p>\n<p>No in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, est\u00e3o sempre divididos entre fazerem-se de dif\u00edceis e arriscarem-se a ser demasiado apegados.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que am\u00e1-la far\u00e1 com que ele se perca? Ir\u00e1 ele sentir-se preso e enjaulado nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao fim de algum tempo?<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que ele se tornar\u00e1 demasiado vulner\u00e1vel e perder\u00e1 o seu lado masculino se se abrir demasiado consigo?<\/p>\n<p>Deve ser completamente honesto sobre os seus sentimentos por si ou deve agir como um dur\u00e3o? Deve mimar-te ou mostrar-te que n\u00e3o \u00e9s tu quem manda?<\/p>\n<p>Que abordagem far\u00e1 com que se apaixone mais por ele e permitir\u00e1 que ele mantenha a sua personalidade intacta?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se ele for suficiente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77105\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-man-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"homem atento sentado no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-man-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-man-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-man-sitting-on-the-floor-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 realmente o homem certo para si? Ele pode satisfazer todas as suas necessidades? Poderia fazer melhor?<\/p>\n<p>Substitui-lo-ia por um tipo mais bonito ou mais bem sucedido e com mais dinheiro? Est\u00e1 a contentar-se com menos com ele?<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 com ele s\u00f3 para n\u00e3o estar sozinha e porque ele \u00e9 conveniente ou \u00e9 o homem com quem quer estar?<\/p>\n<p>Pensa na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o como um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/entertainment\/9-clear-signs-screaming-youre-just-fling\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> namoro sem sentido <\/a> ou consegue ver um futuro para voc\u00eas os dois juntos?<\/p>\n<p>This might come as a shock to you but these are all the questions that are going through your boyfriend\u2019s mind and which keep him up at night, even though he\u2019ll probably never admit it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77100\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/5-Things-Most-Men-Overthink-About-In-A-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 coisas em que a maioria dos homens pensa demais numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/5-Things-Most-Men-Overthink-About-In-A-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/5-Things-Most-Men-Overthink-About-In-A-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/5-Things-Most-Men-Overthink-About-In-A-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite common opinion, women are not the only ones who overthink. Men can also feel insecure and wonder if they are enough for the person they love. They also analyze and worry about many things when they are in a relationship\u2014they are just better at hiding it. Here are the 5 most common things almost&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":77106,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27071","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/5-Things-Most-Men-Overthink-About-In-A-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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