{"id":2713,"date":"2020-03-24T08:02:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T08:02:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2713"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:34:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:34:18","slug":"3-jogos-mentais-que-todas-as-pessoas-toxicas-fazem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-jogos-mentais-que-todas-as-pessoas-toxicas-fazem\/","title":{"rendered":"3 jogos mentais que todas as pessoas t\u00f3xicas fazem consigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t be fooled, you are not the exception.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que pode saber se tem uma pessoa t\u00f3xica na sua vida? Deixe-me apresentar-lhe os tr\u00eas jogos mentais mais comuns das pessoas t\u00f3xicas e fique \u00e0 vontade para julgar por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Por favor, certifique-se de que, quando essa pessoa se revelar t\u00f3xica, n\u00e3o se convence de que pode mud\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

Because, unless you are a professional therapist, it\u2019s hardly unlikely for you to impact his behavior.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam perturba\u00e7\u00f5es de personalidade e mentais e precisam de ajuda profissional.<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa de que precisa \u00e9 de se arruinar ao tentar compreend\u00ea-lo e dar tudo por tudo para o ajudar.<\/p>\n

Agora que isso ficou claro, eis os tr\u00eas jogos mentais que as pessoas t\u00f3xicas fazem consigo.<\/p>\n

Jogo #1: Ganhar, Preservar ou Adquirir Controlo<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Toxic people are all about control\u2014if they don\u2019t have control over other people, they have nothing.<\/p>\n

Se conseguirem obter uma resposta espec\u00edfica de si ou lev\u00e1-lo a fazer o que querem, isso d\u00e1-lhes a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de poder que procuram.<\/p>\n

Isto f\u00e1-los sentir que t\u00eam o controlo da situa\u00e7\u00e3o e d\u00e1-lhes tamb\u00e9m a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de poder sobre si.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the story behind this? Toxic people need to have control everywhere, but if they can\u2019t get it wherever they want it, they\u2019ll double the dose on you.<\/p>\n

So if they can\u2019t have control at work, they\u2019ll search for it elsewhere\u2014ergo they\u2019ll make up for it with you.<\/p>\n

Pay attention if you\u2019re purposely giving the control to satisfy the person playing the mind game or est\u00e1 a ser manipulado?<\/a><\/p>\n

Jogo #2: Guilt-Tripping<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Toxic people need to have you inferior since that\u2019s the only way to make them superior. By making you insecure, they feel more confident.<\/p>\n

Unless you do what toxic people want you to do, they\u2019ll make you guilty.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll call you names and they\u2019ll be able to bring you down or to make you believe that you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Em vez de dizer abertamente: Tenho um problema com o facto de fazeres isso,<\/i> ele pode acus\u00e1-la de ser fr\u00edgida para conseguir mais sexo ou ela pode acus\u00e1-lo de ser sexista para o obrigar a comportar-se como ela quer.<\/p>\n

Either way, it\u2019s an unhealthy way to express feelings or emotions and you don\u2019t want to be the victim of such a mind game.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 5 coisas que as pessoas t\u00f3xicas fazem para o destruir<\/a><\/p>\n

Jogo #3: Envergonhar e desqualificar<\/h2>\n

 \"homem<\/p>\n

Toxic people heal their complexes by bringing other people down. They only feel good if people they\u2019re surrounded by feel miserable and they\u2019ll do everything to build such an environment for themselves.<\/p>\n

Pessoas que fazem jogos mentais de vergonha<\/a> tentam exprimir a sua raiva procurando apanh\u00e1-lo a fazer algo que consideram inadequado.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re just waiting for you to make a mistake so they can shame you or point out how what you\u2019re doing is wrong.<\/p>\n

If you mention something related to religion, for example, it could be that\u2019s all they\u2019ve been waiting for to make you feel ashamed of your beliefs.<\/p>\n

Also, they are very good at disqualifying people. It\u2019s a method of saying something hurtful to someone and then, when they become hurt, doing a double-whammy by making it seem as if they didn\u2019t at all mean what you thought they meant.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s often followed by \u201cSometimes you\u2019re so over sensitive.\u201d or \u201cIt was just a joke, chill.\u201d. They are disqualifying you at first and after that, they\u2019re insulting you. It\u2019s like they purposely hurt you twice.<\/p>\n

Tens a certeza de que queres lidar com estas coisas ou estar rodeado por este tipo de pessoas?<\/p>\n

Although you may be a victim of a toxic person, don\u2019t forget there is a huge possibility that a toxic person is a victim of another toxic person and it just goes round and round.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change them, but you can try to help them because they truly need help.<\/p>\n

There are people qualified to deal with such issues and the best you can do, if you don\u2019t feel like losing that person, is to hold his\/her hand during the process of realizing they have issues.<\/p>\n

But, if they don\u2019t want help, don\u2019t stick around long enough to be intoxicated by toxic people. You owe yourself much more.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 4 maneiras elegantes de se livrar de pessoas negativas<\/a><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t be fooled, you are not the exception. How will you know if you have a toxic person in your life? Let me introduce to you the three most common mind games of toxic people and feel free to judge for yourself. Please, make sure, once this person proves to be toxic, not to convince…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":114553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/3-Mind-Games-Every-Single-Toxic-Person-Plays-With-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114553"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}