{"id":27133,"date":"2020-03-05T08:25:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T08:25:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27133"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:02:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:02:57","slug":"o-desgosto-de-amar-alguem-que-nao-se-pode-ter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-desgosto-de-amar-alguem-que-nao-se-pode-ter\/","title":{"rendered":"O desgosto de amar algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se pode ter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ter algu\u00e9m no cora\u00e7\u00e3o mas n\u00e3o poder t\u00ea-lo nos bra\u00e7os \u00e9 uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not sure of the exact moment my heart chose you but I do know that ever since that moment, I have been <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-coisas-que-o-vao-fazer-cair-de-cabeca\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de cabe\u00e7a para baixo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> por ti. E o meu amor s\u00f3 tem crescido com o tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Infelizmente, para mim, este amor que sinto n\u00e3o \u00e9 do tipo que nos deixa com borboletas no est\u00f4mago ou com a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de formigueiro que temos quando estamos perto dele. N\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>O meu amor \u00e9 do tipo sem esperan\u00e7a. O tipo que me deixa destro\u00e7ado e confrontado com a realidade de n\u00e3o ser correspondido.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know it\u2019s difficult to grasp the fact that I can love someone who doesn\u2019t seem to be too concerned about me but this is my truth and I need to come to terms with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I live with a persistent feeling of absence and the misery of not having you by my side. It\u2019s the constant yearning of my heart for you but you barely know I exist. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m sad that the thing my heart wants the most is something I\u2019ll probably never have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As much as I would like to forget you, I can\u2019t. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">God knows I\u2019m trying<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I have tried to mask my pain and trick myself into thinking that not getting any attention from you doesn\u2019t affect me. span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tentei dizer a mim pr\u00f3prio que este \u00e9 apenas um sentimento passageiro e que, assim que conhecer algu\u00e9m novo, este sentimento que tenho por ti desaparecer\u00e1 do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e da minha mente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m doing my best not to think about you but every time we cross paths, my heart sinks a little deeper. Every time I hear your voice, I ache inside knowing that it is not directed at me. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Every time I see you laughing, I know it\u2019s not because of me. All these things break me one tiny piece at a time. How did I manage to fall so hard for someone so elusive?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sinto que a vida est\u00e1 a pregar-me uma partida muito cruel. E estou pronta para que isso acabe. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My feelings are only intensified every time I see you and I can\u2019t bring myself to move on from you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can\u2019t blame you for anything, though. I\u2019m sure you have noticed how awkward I get around you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m sure you\u2019re wondering what in the world is going on with me when I just stare at you, not being able to utter a single word, trying so hard to keep my composure but it\u2019s hard having to pretend all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Se ao menos soubesses como me sinto por dentro e as sensa\u00e7\u00f5es que percorrem o meu corpo sempre que est\u00e1s ao meu alcance. <\/b><b><i>A minha alma d\u00f3i por ti<\/i><\/b><b> mas a minha mente diz-me para manter a calma.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The only thing that saves me is not wanting your pity. I don\u2019t need you to feel sorry for me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t need your attention solely because you feel bad for not feeling anything for me. At least I have that much respect for myself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estou a tentar dominar a arte de estar calmo ao p\u00e9 de ti. Consegui n\u00e3o me deixar quebrar de cada vez que te vejo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aceitei o facto de que os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es nunca se entrela\u00e7ar\u00e3o e que nunca serei eu a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-razoes-dignas-de-desmaio-pelas-quais-te-quero-beijar-imediatamente\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">beijar-vos<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou confortar-vos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Eu sei que h\u00e1 provavelmente outra pessoa que faz o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o cantar de alegria. Eu sei que provavelmente h\u00e1 mais algu\u00e9m que te ama <\/b><b><i>quase <\/i><\/b><b>tanto quanto eu. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00f3 espero que te d\u00eaem tudo o que mereces, como eu faria. Espero que n\u00e3o te tomem por garantido e que quem quer que acorde ao teu lado saiba a sorte que tem. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00e3o mereces menos do que isso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Este amor que sinto por ti fez-me mais mal do que bem, mas pelo menos fez-me perceber uma coisa: fez-me perceber que sou <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">capaz de amar t\u00e3o intensamente<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Agora sei o quanto sou capaz de dar e se vos amo assim tanto, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 como saber o quanto posso amar algu\u00e9m que me retribua esse amor. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E \u00e9 isso que me d\u00e1 paz de esp\u00edrito e esperan\u00e7a no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27142 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Until-These-8-Things-Happen-Dont-Call-Him-Your-Boyfriend-3.png\" alt=\"O desgosto de amar algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se pode ter\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Until-These-8-Things-Happen-Dont-Call-Him-Your-Boyfriend-3.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Until-These-8-Things-Happen-Dont-Call-Him-Your-Boyfriend-3-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Until-These-8-Things-Happen-Dont-Call-Him-Your-Boyfriend-3-683x1024.png 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having someone in your heart but not being able to have them in your arms is a painful predicament. I\u2019m not sure of the exact moment my heart chose you but I do know that ever since that moment, I have been head over heels for you. And my love has only grown with time&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":27140,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/11.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27133"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27133\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27140"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}