{"id":27138,"date":"2020-04-05T08:23:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T08:23:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27138"},"modified":"2022-02-22T01:49:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T01:49:11","slug":"5-sinais-perturbadores-de-que-o-seu-ex-e-um-verdadeiro-psicopata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-perturbadores-de-que-o-seu-ex-e-um-verdadeiro-psicopata\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais perturbadores de que o seu ex \u00e9 um verdadeiro psicopata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ele era um psicopata. Um louco completo e absoluto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That is the sentence I use to describe my ex. He was a true example of a classic abuser. No, I didn\u2019t have bruises on my body. He didn\u2019t hit me, but emotional scars were deeply carved on my heart.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll take months for them to stop itching. It\u2019ll take years for them to fade away.  <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ele sabia que as suas palavras magoavam como o inferno. Ele sabia que podia destruir-me com uma simples frase. Ele s\u00f3 precisava de me bater com for\u00e7a onde mais d\u00f3i. E ele f\u00ea-lo. Todas. \u00danico. dia.<\/p>\n

Those horrible years of my life are finally over. I\u2019ve escaped his psychopathic grip. It is like I\u2019ve awakened from a terrible dream.<\/p>\n

Uma s\u00fabita constata\u00e7\u00e3o atingiu-me como um comboio – <\/span>Ele \u00e9 um verdadeiro exemplo de psicopata. <\/b><\/p>\n

Eu sabia que tinha de me afastar dele o mais depressa poss\u00edvel. Sabia que tinha de ser inteligente.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t allow him to manipulate me to stay once again. Not this time.<\/p>\n

Psychopaths are highly intelligent, and you can\u2019t recognize their behavior as abuso emocional<\/b><\/a> imediatamente. Podem passar-se meses ou mesmo anos antes de se aperceber completamente de que ele est\u00e1 a tornar a sua vida num inferno.<\/p>\n

Your depression, your anxiety, the lack of will to live your life which you\u2019ve once enjoyed…it is all him. It is all happening because of him.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve seen that. I\u2019ve lived it, and I saved myself by acting quickly and wisely.<\/p>\n

Mas o que acontece quando se separa um pouco cedo demais, antes de ele mostrar as suas verdadeiras cores ou se ele se cansa de si e acaba por se separar?<\/b><\/p>\n

You may think that his desperate behavior, stalking and bad mouthing you is just an attempt to get you back, but it\u2019s much more serious than that.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a revelation of who he actually is. It\u2019s damn good proof why your decision to break up with him was the best one you could ever make.<\/p>\n

Depois de leres estes sinais, a \u00fanica frase que usar\u00e1s para descrever o teu ex ser\u00e1 exatamente a mesma que a minha – <\/span>ele era um psicopata. Um louco completo e absoluto.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Mudou demasiado depressa<\/h2>\n

Every relationship has a honeymoon phase at the beginning. Both of you are on your best behavior because you want to keep each other. You\u2019re enjoying the new relationship, and you don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019ll put up with things you usually wouldn\u2019t just because you\u2019ve just started dating. This is where most of us fuck up. Instead of keeping quiet, you have to confront him.<\/p>\n

O conflito far\u00e1 com que ele mostre a sua verdadeira face e as suas verdadeiras inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

O que acontece \u00e9 que, no in\u00edcio, ele \u00e9 gentil e compassivo, apenas para a treinar para ser obediente. Depois, de repente, ele muda de comportamento e torna-se imposs\u00edvel de conviver, e a fase da lua de mel acaba oficialmente.<\/p>\n

2. Ele ama tudo o que tu amas<\/h2>\n

Um dos principais movimentos dos psicopatas \u00e9 tentarem convencer-nos de que gostam das mesmas coisas que n\u00f3s. Basicamente, querem fazer-te acreditar voc\u00eas foram feitos um para o outro.<\/a><\/p>\n

Se se abrir com ele e partilhar os traumas da sua inf\u00e2ncia, ele dir\u00e1 que tamb\u00e9m passou por momentos dif\u00edceis enquanto crescia. Se lhe disseres de que m\u00fasica gostas, ele dir\u00e1 que tamb\u00e9m gosta.<\/p>\n

A isto chama-se espelhar. Ele imita tudo o que amas ou fazes, tudo o que te aconteceu, tanto o bom como o mau.<\/p>\n

At the beginning of the relationship, they mirror you to get you to like them. In the middle of it, they try to convince that you\u2019re the same, and by the end of it, they see you as completely opposite than in the beginning.<\/p>\n

If they said that you were smart, now, they are saying you\u2019re stupid.<\/p>\n

3. Once you were everything to him; now you\u2019re nothing<\/h2>\n

Eras a sua raz\u00e3o de viver, a menina dos seus olhos. Ent\u00e3o, uma manh\u00e3, acordaste e, de ser tudo, passaste a ser nada.<\/p>\n

Mudou a opini\u00e3o que tinha de si. Tornou-se distante e desinteressado de si. E isso levou-a a pensar que tinha feito algo de errado.<\/p>\n

But, the thing is, it\u2019s all a tactic to mess with you, to destroy your confidence. He wants you to doubt yourself and question what you could have possibly done to chase him away.<\/p>\n

Ele quer que n\u00e3o tenhas a certeza de ti pr\u00f3pria e que s\u00f3 o ou\u00e7as a ele. Ele quer que sejais obedientes.<\/b><\/p>\n

He made you think that you and he have an unbreakable bond. He made you feel like you\u2019ve found the man of your dreams.<\/p>\n

But the thing is, after he accomplishes that, he becomes bored, he gets sick of you. You\u2019re no longer attractive to him because he got what he wanted.<\/p>\n

So he leaves feeling nothing, neither regret nor remorse. These men cannot feel empathy. They don\u2019t give a damn about your emotions and the fact you\u2019re left broken, hurting.<\/p>\n

4. Ele coloca-se em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

Os psicopatas s\u00e3o hipersens\u00edveis, mas apenas quando se trata deles. Sentir-se-\u00e3o negligenciados e atacados se algu\u00e9m os criticar.<\/p>\n

Then, they\u2019ll go out and seek the best way to get their revenge, and you won\u2019t even know they were hurt or what the hell is going on.<\/p>\n

They only think about themselves and are unable to feel empathy toward anyone else. Other people\u2019s feelings are completely irrelevant to them.<\/p>\n

5. Ele bloqueia a tua felicidade futura<\/h2>\n

He doesn\u2019t want you to move on. It\u2019s like he has a sixth sense when it comes to your happiness. Every time something nice happens to you, there he is. He shows up and tries to demolish everything you\u2019ve built after him.<\/p>\n

He pretends he wants to keep a warm relationship. He wants you to stay friends, but actually, the only reason he is back in your life is to make sure you don\u2019t move on.<\/p>\n

He suddenly wants you to give him another try. But that is not a sincere request. That is just another play from his thick playbook to try to lure you back into his life of terror. It\u2019s just another try to keep you as his toxic supply.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get rid of him and he keeps popping back into your life announced, you have to take some serious steps. If you want to move on with your life, you have to n\u00e3o entrar em contacto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nunca mais ouvir falar dele. Elimine todos os contactos que tenha com ele e apague-o da sua mem\u00f3ria de uma vez por todas.<\/p>\n

Only then, you\u2019ll have a fighting chance to move on with your life. A better life, a happier life.<\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

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He was a psychopath. A complete and utter crazy person. That is the sentence I use to describe my ex. He was a true example of a classic abuser. No, I didn\u2019t have bruises on my body. He didn\u2019t hit me, but emotional scars were deeply carved on my heart. It\u2019ll take months for them…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27131,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/pawel-szvmanski-1131771-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27138"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27138\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27131"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}