{"id":27172,"date":"2020-11-05T09:04:30","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T09:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27172"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:50:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:50:16","slug":"o-amor-requer-trabalho-arduo-nao-se-pode-simplesmente-ir-embora-quando-as-coisas-ficam-dificeis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-requer-trabalho-arduo-nao-se-pode-simplesmente-ir-embora-quando-as-coisas-ficam-dificeis\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor requer trabalho \u00e1rduo; n\u00e3o se pode simplesmente partir quando as coisas ficam dif\u00edceis"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se ama algu\u00e9m, ama-se at\u00e9 ao fim. Ama-se nos bons e nos maus momentos, nos bons e nos maus momentos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don’t love them only when everything is going smoothly and when life is beautiful. Because when you really love someone, you stay by their side, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

You stick with them even when it’s not easy and even when the only impulse you have is to run and hide from everything.<\/p>\n

Yes, the truth is that love is beautiful and that it shouldn\u2019t make your life harder. But you need to have in mind that love isn\u2019t a real life fairytale and that it will always be far from perfect.<\/p>\n

Porque, \u00e0s vezes, as merdas simplesmente acontecem.<\/p>\n

E quando isso acontece, \u00e9 a\u00ed que a for\u00e7a e a profundidade do seu amor pela outra pessoa s\u00e3o testadas. Porque o amor \u00e9 uma viagem, n\u00e3o um destino.<\/p>\n

E precisa de trabalho \u00e1rduo. \u00c9 preciso trabalhar e lutar por ela. \u00c9 preciso esfor\u00e7o, energia e muitos sacrif\u00edcios.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

E o mais importante \u00e9 que exige o mesmo grau de empenho nos dias bons e maus.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because you don\u2019t walk away from someone you love just like that.<\/strong> You don\u2019t leave them hanging when something becomes too much for you to handle.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t just turn your back on them the second things get rough.<\/p>\n

E foi exatamente isso que fez a esta rapariga. Abandonou-a quando ela mais precisava do seu apoio. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Desististe dela sem lutar e deixaste-a, quando a \u00fanica coisa de que ela precisava era que ficasses. E isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se fa\u00e7a a algu\u00e9m que se ama.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because when you love someone, you go through life shoulder to shoulder with them. You show them that they can count on you and that you\u2019ll always be their partner in crime.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you love all of them\u2014not just the parts you like and find convenient. You accept them with all of their flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n

Aceita todos os seus problemas como se fossem seus e v\u00ea-os como uma equipa.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you truly care about someone, you are aware that things between the two of you won\u2019t always be easy. You understand that your relationship will sometimes go through rough patches.<\/p>\n

E quando isso acontece, em vez de desistir, \u00e9 nessa altura que se luta mais para manter o amor vivo. \u00c9 nessa altura que p\u00f5es todo o teu esfor\u00e7o e toda a tua energia para ultrapassar esta crise.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 nesta altura que mostra ao seu parceiro que acredita em voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

Quando amamos uma pessoa, amamo-la da mesma forma quando ela est\u00e1 no seu melhor e quando est\u00e3o no seu pior<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You hold their hand through thick and thin, and you don\u2019t run away at the first sign of trouble.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t escape when they need to be taken care of, when they need help or just a shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t run away when they crave your support and when all they need is you assuring them you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

\"Morena<\/p>\n

Instead, you stand by their side, and you show them that you have their back. You don\u2019t act like their problems are none of your business, and you never even think of giving up on them.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you don\u2019t disappear on them when they need your presence the most.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t chicken out on them, and you show them that the two of you will overcome every life difficulty and obstacle, as long as you are together.<\/p>\n

And this is something you\u2019ve never done for this girl. You\u2019ve never showed her that she can rely on you, and you\u2019ve never fought for your relationship.<\/p>\n

You know, it is easy to remain in someone\u2019s life when everything is going great. It was easy for you to be with this girl while everything was sugar and spice. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas foi preciso um homem a s\u00e9rio para a apoiar e para ser a sua for\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And obviously, you weren\u2019t man enough for the job. Instead, you acted like a coward who ran away when she needed you to hold her hand.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Portanto, n\u00e3o, nunca a amaste o suficiente<\/a>. Because you don\u2019t turn your back on the ones you truly love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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