{"id":27177,"date":"2020-07-05T09:12:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T09:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27177"},"modified":"2022-02-26T12:02:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T12:02:46","slug":"nao-tenha-medo-de-amar-de-novo-nem-todos-serao-como-o-seu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-tenha-medo-de-amar-de-novo-nem-todos-serao-como-o-seu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o tenha medo de amar de novo - nem todos ser\u00e3o como o seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve been through hell. Maybe you were a victim of abuse. Or you were involved with a narcisista manipulador <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Or you got cheated on. Or you were with someone who never appreciated you and didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que deixou entrar o homem errado, pensando que ele era o homem certo para si. Amou um homem t\u00f3xico com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e ele s\u00f3 usou o seu amor contra si.<\/b><\/p>\n

Confiou nele e ele traiu a sua confian\u00e7a da pior maneira poss\u00edvel. Planeou um futuro com um homem que acabou por destruir todos os seus sonhos e esperan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

You gave him your best and he still thought it wasn\u2019t enough. You prioritized a man who didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

Usaste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga e ele partiu-o, sem nunca pensar nas consequ\u00eancias. Deste-lhe tudo sem receberes nada em troca.<\/p>\n

All of this crushed you to pieces and it made you question your judgment. Everything this man did left deep wounds on your soul and now, you are convinced that you\u2019ll never mend your broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

I know that now you see all of this as the end of the world but these things simply happen. Everything doesn\u2019t always go as you planned.<\/p>\n

As pessoas acabam por ser diferentes do que imaginamos.<\/p>\n

E ficamos com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. Mas tudo isso faz parte da vida.<\/p>\n

And a failed relationship doesn\u2019t equal a failed life. A broken heart doesn\u2019t have to mean that you are broken for good.<\/p>\n

I know that you think that you\u2019ll never recover from everything that has happened to you. I know that you\u2019ve lost all faith in people and that you don\u2019t believe in finding love again.<\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, para si, o simples <\/b>a ideia de voltar a apaixonar-se \u00e9 assustadora como o raio<\/b><\/a>. You are terrified of diving into a new relationship ever again and you are afraid of getting your heart broken once more because that is something you couldn\u2019t take.<\/b><\/p>\n

E est\u00e1 pronto para fazer o que for preciso para garantir que isso nunca aconte\u00e7a. Tudo o que queres fazer \u00e9 proteger o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o de passar por toda esta dor devastadora que j\u00e1 experimentou.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Tem a certeza de que a \u00fanica forma de se manter em seguran\u00e7a \u00e9 desistir completamente do amor. Que a melhor coisa para si \u00e9 manter-se guardado e agir sem cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Besides, you are convinced that you\u2019ve missed out on your chance to be happy. If things hadn\u2019t worked out with your ex-boyfriend, why would it be any different with anyone who comes after him?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 convencida de que toda a gente a vai tratar da mesma forma que o seu ex e que todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais.<\/b><\/p>\n

Bem, adivinha? N\u00e3o s\u00e3o. E se te permitires continuar a pensar assim, isso significa que ele ganhou.<\/b><\/p>\n

It means that he has managed to change you and that he succeeded in leaving a permanent mark on you. It means that he has impacted your entire life and that you\u2019ve allowed bitterness and fear to take over you completely. It means that you are still a prisoner of everything he did to you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me trying to convince you that letting a new man in will be easy or that you are wrong or weak for being scared because that is a completely natural reaction to all the pain and disappointment you\u2019ve experienced. <\/b><\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o estou, de forma alguma, a dizer-lhe para se lan\u00e7ar numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 para provar a si pr\u00f3prio que j\u00e1 seguiu em frente.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Estou apenas a aconselh\u00e1-lo n\u00e3o desistir do amor<\/a> por ter amado um homem errado e n\u00e3o se privar da oportunidade de ser feliz s\u00f3 porque ficou com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido no passado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Estou a dizer-lhe para encarar esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada como uma dura li\u00e7\u00e3o. Encare-a como uma oportunidade para encontrar um homem que deve ser seu para sempre, porque tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Estou a dizer-vos que um homem que pensa que \u00e9s digno vir\u00e1 <\/a> along, even though you don\u2019t believe it now. That you\u2019ll find um homem que vai curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> and who\u2019ll show you what it means to be loved.<\/p>\n

And when he comes, he\u2019ll show you how wrong you were for thinking that everyone is the same. He\u2019ll show you how foolish you were for thinking you should give up on love.<\/p>\n

Because true love really does exist. And when it finally happens to you, you\u2019ll see that it is worthy of everything.<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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