{"id":27183,"date":"2020-10-05T09:58:39","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T09:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27183"},"modified":"2022-02-07T10:29:48","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T10:29:48","slug":"7-coisas-que-um-bom-namorado-nunca-te-vai-esconder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-um-bom-namorado-nunca-te-vai-esconder\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que um bom namorado nunca esconde de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Now you think that breaking up after a year or two of dating is not that big of a deal. But when you realize that if you live to 80, that\u2019s like 1\/80th of your whole life.<\/p>\n

Make the same mistake twice and the number gets even bigger. Then you realize it\u2019s a big deal!<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t waste your time on a man who isn\u2019t worth it! Don\u2019t fall into the trap and give in to your nurturing instincts – don\u2019t try to fix him<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to change him because let me tell you how it\u2019s going to work out. You\u2019ll move mountains for him. You\u2019ll wear your heart on your sleeve while he enjoys all the attention you\u2019re giving him without giving anything back.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll give him dozens of second chances, and he won\u2019t even think about changing his approach to your relationship because you\u2019ve clearly shown him you\u2019re going to tolerate every coisa de merda que ele faz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After a while, you\u2019ll get sick and tired of being treated like shit, and you\u2019re going to give up. Poof! There goes the 1\/80th of your life which you can never get back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying you should ditch dating entirely just because there are some serious assholes out there. I\u2019m just saying you should pay attention to how your boyfriend acts around you.<\/p>\n

Porque um bom namorado, um tipo que gosta mesmo de ti e que se preocupa contigo, nunca far\u00e1 nada disto:<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never hide his phone<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

He has nothing to worry about because he has done nothing. You know how some guys can\u2019t seem to live without their phones? They take it to the bathroom. They sleep with it. It\u2019s like their phone becomes a part of them.<\/p>\n

Well, if you\u2019re dealing with that type of man, then you definitely have something to worry about. He\u2019s definitely hiding something.<\/p>\n

But if your guy leaves his phone around and leaves the room without it, then you can be sure he\u2019s not doing anything you should worry about.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never hide where he\u2019s been<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

When he\u2019s not around and you ask him where he\u2019s been, a good boyfriend will tell you all about it. He\u2019ll tell you what he did during the weekend or where he went after he met you. He has no secrets because he has done nothing wrong.<\/p>\n

A bad boyfriend will be secretive about where he\u2019s been and with whom. He\u2019s probably been doing something you wouldn\u2019t like it, otherwise, why would he keep it a secret?<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t change his story<\/h2>\n

\"Silhueta<\/p>\n

This morning, he told you one thing, and in the afternoon, he changed his story into something else. And if you ask him why he is telling it differently, he\u2019ll have some dumb ass, lame excuse like, \u201cI couldn\u2019t remember this morning\u201d or he\u2019ll try to convince you he was saying the same story this morning, too.<\/p>\n

You must have understood him wrong. The bottom line, it\u2019s you not him. A good boyfriend won\u2019t have several versions to one story. Things he says stay unchanged. His word really means something.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca esconder\u00e1 a verdade<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Lying is not his cup of tea. He is mature enough to face the consequences of his actions. If he fucked up, he\u2019ll come clean about it and face what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n

Bad boyfriends don\u2019t realize that lying is just a temporary solution. Sooner or later their lies will catch up with them. It will all become transparent and then, there is no easy way out.<\/p>\n

Esconder as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

A good boyfriend won\u2019t be scared of what he feels. He won\u2019t hide his feelings from you. The fact that he has to be vulnerable in order to open up to you doesn\u2019t scare him at all.<\/p>\n

By being vulnerable, he is being true to himself. And you as his girlfriend will recognize that and you\u2019ll trust him. That is more than you could ask for in a successful relationship.<\/p>\n

Um mau namorado faz-se de dif\u00edcil. Ele ser\u00e1 emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/span><\/a> because he doesn\u2019t want to commit to you. He doesn\u2019t trust you enough to open up to you. That kind of behavior is nothing more than a relationship-killer.<\/p>\n

As suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Good boyfriends don\u2019t have ghosts from the past haunting them. Good boyfriends don\u2019t have any unresolved issues with ex-girlfriends. They don\u2019t have a reputation because they\u2019ve ended their every relationship in a humane way, with dignity.<\/p>\n

Good boyfriends never have anything bad to say about their ex-girlfriends. You\u2019ll never hear them trashing them or calling them crazy bitches, and most importantly, they don\u2019t hide them.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, bad boyfriends hide their past relationships or they trash talk about their ex\u2019s. That\u2019s probably a precautionary measure just in case you hear something bad about them.<\/p>\n

They make up all kinds of lies to make sure you know their ex\u2019s are crazy, so you don\u2019t believe a word they say.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t hide what he does for a living<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

A good boyfriend will be transparent about what he does for a living. You\u2019ll probably even meet his colleagues\/friends. He will talk about his day at work and everything worth mentioning that goes down.<\/p>\n

Since he is planning on having a future with you, he has nothing to hide from you. He\u2019ll tell you the good and the bad. He\u2019ll tell you everything.<\/p>\n

A bad boyfriend will be sketchy about what he does because he simply doesn\u2019t care enough for you to know. You\u2019ll know maybe some basic things about his job, but that\u2019s it. He\u2019ll never talk about work nor you\u2019ll meet anyone who works with him.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is: don\u2019t give up on dating. You have to put yourself out there and take risks if you want to find true love. You have to date the wrong ones to meet the right one.<\/p>\n

But, you don\u2019t have to waste more of your life than you have to. Read the signs and cross him out from your life because he\u2019s not a good boyfriend, and he\u2019s so much less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

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