{"id":2723,"date":"2020-03-24T08:38:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T08:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2723"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:33:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:33:40","slug":"13-razoes-para-nao-merecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/13-razoes-para-nao-merecer\/","title":{"rendered":"13 raz\u00f5es para n\u00e3o a mereceres"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. You don\u2019t appreciate her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91894\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Girlfriend-and-boyfriend-sitting-next-to-each-other-angry-couple-fighting.jpg\" alt=\"Namorada e namorado sentados ao lado um do outro zangados, casal a discutir\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Girlfriend-and-boyfriend-sitting-next-to-each-other-angry-couple-fighting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Girlfriend-and-boyfriend-sitting-next-to-each-other-angry-couple-fighting-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Girlfriend-and-boyfriend-sitting-next-to-each-other-angry-couple-fighting-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYou don\u2019t cherish what she has nor the things she\u2019s doing for you.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que ela faz por si ou por voc\u00eas os dois juntos passa despercebido.<\/p>\n<p>Todos os esfor\u00e7os dela s\u00e3o em v\u00e3o. Fazes com que ela se sinta indigna. Fazes com que os esfor\u00e7os dela sejam t\u00e3o pequenos.<\/p>\n<h2>2. You don\u2019t love her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91896\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-deceitful-man-in-the-embrace-of-his-wife.jpg\" alt=\"um homem enganador no abra\u00e7o da sua mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-deceitful-man-in-the-embrace-of-his-wife.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-deceitful-man-in-the-embrace-of-his-wife-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-deceitful-man-in-the-embrace-of-his-wife-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando um homem est\u00e1 apaixonado, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel saber. Quando um homem ama, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/homem-que-a-mulher-ama-de-verdade\/\">ele faz tudo pela rapariga por quem est\u00e1 apaixonado.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You might be loving, but she\u2019s not the one you love. You don\u2019t break people you love.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You don\u2019t pay attention to little things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91897\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma mulher a ouvir o seu homem no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know what\u2019s her favorite song, what\u2019s her favorite food or her favorite book.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know what was the name of her first dog, or where she got that scar on her knee or how she tucks her hair behind her ear when she\u2019s nervous.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know that she bites her lip when she desires a kiss from you and you don\u2019t see her <i>ficar-um-pouco-mais-tempo<\/i> olhar nos olhos dela quando come\u00e7as a caminhar em dire\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 porta.<\/p>\n<h2>4. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 presente quando ela precisa de si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91898\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga triste e pensativa sentada sozinha no parapeito a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nos momentos mais necess\u00e1rios, est\u00e1 ausente. Deus sabe o que est\u00e1s a fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you are physically near, even if you\u2019re just a stretch of the arm away, you are still not there when she needs you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t hold her; you don\u2019t let her tell you how she feels. You don\u2019t want to see how much she needs <b>tu<\/b>.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Deixa-a ir facilmente<\/h2>\n<p>Would you even notice if she wasn\u2019t there? You act like you wouldn\u2019t. Because you don\u2019t care, you\u2019re letting her go. And it\u2019s so easy for you.<\/p>\n<h2>6. You don\u2019t keep your promises<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91899\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de neg\u00f3cios, pensativa e receosa, a desviar o olhar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because you keep forgetting everything you say to her. That\u2019s how \u2018big\u2019 a role she has in your life.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t even apologize for breaking your promises. You just go on without a \u2018sorry\u2019 with some lousy explanation thinking she believed it.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/means-girl-cares-much\/\">mas ela gosta demasiado de ti<\/a> para te deixar ir, por isso finge que n\u00e3o v\u00ea.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Deixaste-a estar sem ti<\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re taking from her the thing she loves the most in this world. The one person she dreams of being with is you, and you\u2019re denying her yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>8. You\u2019re not even trying<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91900\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-upset-couple-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal aborrecido sentado num banco de jardim\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-upset-couple-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-upset-couple-sitting-on-a-park-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-upset-couple-sitting-on-a-park-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Para ti, tudo \u00e9 o que quer que seja. O que quer que aconte\u00e7a, acontece.<\/p>\n<p>You are untouchable and it doesn\u2019t really affect you whatever happens between the two of you. If it did, you\u2019d make an effort.<\/p>\n<h2>9. You\u2019re a self-centered prick<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91901\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de um homem com \u00f3culos de sol apoiado num tijolo de parede\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about you. You want this, you want that. You\u2019re going out, you\u2019re spending the night out, she doesn\u2019t need to know anything, why is she being so noisy?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, talvez porque ela te ama e te quer ao lado dela, seu idiota!<\/p>\n<h2>10. N\u00e3o fazes ideia do que tens<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91902\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-on-top-of-cliff.jpg\" alt=\"casal no cimo de uma fal\u00e9sia\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-on-top-of-cliff.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-on-top-of-cliff-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-on-top-of-cliff-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are so blind that you don\u2019t notice the person next to you. You don\u2019t have the slightest clue what has she done so far for you. You have no idea what has she given up on just to be with you.<\/p>\n<p>You have no idea how she\u2019s waiting for you to realize you could be happy with her.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa apenas de um pequeno esfor\u00e7o da sua parte para ser feliz. Ela precisa de ver que se preocupa.<\/p>\n<p>But you don\u2019t. Because you have no idea how valuable she is and the things she\u2019d do for you.<\/p>\n<h2>11. \u00c9s um mentiroso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91903\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Couple-arguing-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Casal a discutir em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Couple-arguing-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Couple-arguing-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Couple-arguing-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You lie that you didn\u2019t see the message. You lie that you didn\u2019t hear the phone.<\/p>\n<p>You lie that you couldn\u2019t call her for days because you were busy.<\/p>\n<p>You lie when you say you didn\u2019t mean to hurt her. You lie when you hold her hand because it\u2019s a promise to be there and you\u2019re never there.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Est\u00e1s sempre a fazer-lhe ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91908\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-typing-on-her-phone-during-night.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a escrever no telem\u00f3vel durante a noite\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-typing-on-her-phone-during-night.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-typing-on-her-phone-during-night-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-typing-on-her-phone-during-night-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Going out with this girl, that girl, this one was \u2018by accident\u2019 at your table\u2014it\u2019s your friends that brought her there.<\/p>\n<p>The girl you\u2019re texting is just your friend and the hand on the hip of that girl doesn\u2019t mean anything.<\/p>\n<h2>13. You don\u2019t deserve her because she deserves somebody better than you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91907\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/man-hugging-woman-around-waist-outside.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar uma mulher pela cintura no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/man-hugging-woman-around-waist-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/man-hugging-woman-around-waist-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/man-hugging-woman-around-waist-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> Somebody who\u2019ll love her, who\u2019ll appreciate all the little things she does for him.<\/p>\n<p>She deserves a guy who\u2019ll keep his promises, who\u2019ll be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\n<p>She deserves somebody who won\u2019t let her go, the one who\u2019ll be scared of letting her go because he\u2019s aware of how worthy she is.<\/p>\n<p>She deserves a guy who\u2019ll treat her right and the guy who will love her. She deserves more than you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t pull your shit together and become the good guy soon enough, there will be somebody else out there who\u2019ll be able to give her the love she deserves. Only then you\u2019ll realize what you had and what you lost.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91893 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"13 raz\u00f5es para n\u00e3o a mereceres\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. You don\u2019t appreciate her You don\u2019t cherish what she has nor the things she\u2019s doing for you. Whatever she does for you or for the two of you together goes unnoticed. All her efforts are in vain. You just make her feel unworthy. You make her efforts so small. 2. You don\u2019t love her&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":91890,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2723","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/13-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Her.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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