{"id":27261,"date":"2020-04-06T08:43:03","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T08:43:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27261"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:32","slug":"esta-na-altura-de-deixar-de-escolher-alguem-que-nao-o-esta-a-escolher-a-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-na-altura-de-deixar-de-escolher-alguem-que-nao-o-esta-a-escolher-a-si\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 altura de deixar de escolher algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o o est\u00e1 a escolher a si"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00e1ra! P\u00e1ra de chorar por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o merece as tuas l\u00e1grimas. P\u00e1ra de arranjar desculpas para o seu comportamento quando sabes que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 certo.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to stop choosing someone who isn\u2019t ready to choose you. It\u2019s time to stop choosing relationships that are not choosing you back.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to start loving yourself first.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sim. Quando nos amamos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios em primeiro lugar, diminu\u00edmos as hip\u00f3teses de nos magoarmos. Amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<p>is better to love yourself for who you are than to pretend you\u2019re something that you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to admit that you\u2019re not perfect and that is more than okay. You don\u2019t need <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/para-ti-fui-imperfeito-para-outra-pessoa-serei-perfeito\/\"> para ser perfeito <\/a> para ser amado.<\/p>\n<p>A pessoa que o escolher vai am\u00e1-lo por aquilo que realmente \u00e9 e n\u00e3o por aquilo que ela quer que seja. Para amar outra pessoa, \u00e9 preciso primeiro estar apaixonado por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to start appreciating everything you\u2019ve achieved so far and to embrace your uniqueness because you are truly amazing and one of a kind.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to stop being what they want you to be.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to stop being a puppet that will dance according to their music. Instead, it\u2019s time to start dancing to your own music.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid to show how <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/this-is-how-you-love-a-free-spirited-girl\/\"> de esp\u00edrito livre <\/a> and sensual you are. Don\u2019t let them kill your inner spirit with their manipulation.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to cleanse your soul and to be who you really are. It\u2019s time to stop acting the way they want you to just because you really like them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-74435\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-breathing.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a respirar \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-breathing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-breathing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-breathing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No. You shouldn\u2019t like them if they don\u2019t like you. It\u2019s time to stop putting everyone else\u2019s needs before your own. You deserve love that is reciprocal and not one-sided.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to stop settling for what doesn\u2019t make you happy.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to delete your past heartbreaks, unrequited loves and selfish loves. You shouldn\u2019t spend a second thinking about someone who is not worthy to be in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to refresh the list of your priorities and occupy yourself with positive people and those worthy of being with.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to open your heart to what you deserve and not what someone else is (not) giving you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to tell them that you will never settle for something that doesn\u2019t make you happy. And you deserve to be happy.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, tu mereces. Mereces ser banhado em amor verdadeiro e mereces ser tratado com respeito.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to stop choosing someone who isn\u2019t choosing you.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to stop fighting for those who don\u2019t deserve it. Don\u2019t choose them if they don\u2019t choose you.<\/p>\n<p>If they are not ready to go above and beyond to show how much they care about you, it means they are not ready to love. Don\u2019t choose someone who is not ready to love.<\/p>\n<p>Escolhe algu\u00e9m cujo cora\u00e7\u00e3o seja puro, tal como o teu. Algu\u00e9m que far\u00e1 tudo para que te sintas orgulhosa de estar com ele.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-74437\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Choose wisely and with an open heart. Don\u2019t let them trick you into their shitty world of misery. It\u2019s time to stop being generous and fixing the life of someone who is not brave enough to choose you.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s time to choose someone who will make you the best version of yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to choose someone who will believe in you and not underestimate you.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s time to fight for your own dreams and not for the dreams of someone who didn\u2019t choose you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to choose someone who will not be afraid to fight his own battles along with yours. Time to choose someone who will not run away from you at the first obstacle.<\/p>\n<p>Love is all about fighting, giving and receiving. Don\u2019t choose someone who will not fight for you.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t choose someone who is willing to receive but is not willing to give.<\/p>\n<p><b>Escolha algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o tenha medo de o amar com toda a sua mente e com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o aberto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Choose someone to whom you will not be an option, and instead a priority. Never let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not worthy of love.<\/p>\n<p>Escolha algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o tenha medo de amar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o fr\u00e1gil e que fa\u00e7a tudo para o curar.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to stop choosing someone who will stop fighting for you once they have you.<\/p>\n<p>Escolhe algu\u00e9m que te escolha e que nunca deixe de te escolher.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-74433\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Its-Time-To-Stop-Choosing-Someone-Who-Isnt-Choosing-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 altura de deixar de escolher algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o o est\u00e1 a escolher a si\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Its-Time-To-Stop-Choosing-Someone-Who-Isnt-Choosing-You-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Its-Time-To-Stop-Choosing-Someone-Who-Isnt-Choosing-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Its-Time-To-Stop-Choosing-Someone-Who-Isnt-Choosing-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stop! Stop crying over someone who is not worthy of your tears. Stop making excuses for their behavior when you know that they are not right. It\u2019s time to stop choosing someone who isn\u2019t ready to choose you. It\u2019s time to stop choosing relationships that are not choosing you back. It\u2019s time to start loving&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":74439,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Its-Time-To-Stop-Choosing-Someone-Who-Isnt-Choosing-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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