{"id":27287,"date":"2018-11-06T09:34:55","date_gmt":"2018-11-06T09:34:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27287"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:19:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:19:28","slug":"mereces-o-amor-que-continuas-a-dar-a-todos-os-outros-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mereces-o-amor-que-continuas-a-dar-a-todos-os-outros-2\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor que mereces e que d\u00e1s a todos os outros"},"content":{"rendered":"

A coisa mais bonita em ti \u00e9 que continuas a dar \u00e0s pessoas <\/span><\/i>segundas oportunidades<\/span><\/i><\/a>Porque queremos realmente ter raz\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a eles. Esperamos realmente que desta vez seja diferente e rezamos para que tenhamos raz\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a eles, mas, independentemente disso, nunca desistimos de ningu\u00e9m.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You always try to be as grounded as possible and not let your hopes get too high, but still\u2026 You pray that this time, things might happen differently and maybe this time, your hopes will be met.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca desrespeitar\u00e1s algu\u00e9m fazendo-o esperar por ti, seja de que forma for, mas, ao mesmo tempo, perdoar\u00e1s aqueles que te abandonam, pois encontras sempre no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a possibilidade de tentar compreender e esquecer, como se nunca tivesse acontecido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por vezes, sentimos que tudo o que fazemos \u00e9 esperar, rezar e fazer tudo o que est\u00e1 ao nosso alcance para melhorar algu\u00e9m ou alguma coisa. Nunca esperamos o mesmo dos outros, mas n\u00f3s e o nosso tempo estamos dispon\u00edveis para qualquer pessoa, em qualquer altura, sem fazer perguntas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Dar\u00e1s tudo o que tens a algu\u00e9m, mesmo que essa pessoa n\u00e3o o mere\u00e7a, simplesmente porque acreditas que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que deva ser merecido. Acredita que o amor deve ser dado livremente, independentemente de para quem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, parece que se est\u00e1 a gastar tanto nas mesmas coisas que se d\u00e1 tantas vezes e de forma t\u00e3o desinteressada.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

All you want is for someone to love you the way you love them. All you want is for someone to make the same effort for you that you keep making for everyone else. You are a little tired from wearing yourself out for people who don\u2019t always appreciate your constant efforts for them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sente-se <\/span>subvalorizado<\/i><\/b> e em vez de a enfrentarmos de frente, continuamos a rezar para que, com essa pessoa em particular, as coisas funcionem de forma diferente. Ela saber\u00e1 como <\/span>valoriza-o<\/span>. After all, there is only so much one person can give, before feeling exhausted, like you are starting to feel right now…<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a perder-se lentamente na sua forma altru\u00edsta de amar os outros.<\/span><\/p>\n

Loving someone shouldn\u2019t be this complicated.<\/b> But you always seem to fall for someone who can\u2019t reciprocate what you are willing to give them. It feels as if everybody around you is living their <\/span>felizes para sempre<\/span><\/i> enquanto tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico que luta para encontrar o teu algu\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil para toda a gente encontrar o que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 a dar t\u00e3o desinteressadamente em cada esquina? Porque \u00e9 que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o as \u00fanicas que parecem acabar antes mesmo de come\u00e7arem?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You are no longer able to listen to all that empty talk. You can no longer look at all those happy couples, wondering what it is about you that just doesn\u2019t seem to have what it takes. Your eyes are getting weary from seeing all the happiness on the outside but feeling like there is something missing on the inside. Your soul aches for a <\/b>liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> <\/a>que o far\u00e1 sentir-se vivo e realizado novamente.<\/b><\/p>\n

I promise you, all these things that you do for others will pay off in the end. Someone so giving and generous and who can take so much heartbreak and still never lose faith is due for something amazing. I know it\u2019s getting so tiring always finding it in you to keep going but those who try are those who will eventually succeed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, continua a tentar. Nunca percam a vossa f\u00e9. \u00c9 isso que vos distingue do mar de pessoas que s\u00e3o todas demasiado parecidas.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, all this effort, all this love, and all this hope you have within you, will be reciprocated. You are able to give so much and you should never settle for someone who can\u2019t measure up.<\/b><\/p>\n

When it\u2019s the hardest, that is when you should persevere the most. Nothing this pure will come easy. Have just a little more patience… After all, you\u2019ve come so far. And just because it\u2019s taking you a bit longer than others doesn\u2019t mean it won\u2019t happen to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

E quando finalmente o fizer, o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sentir-se-\u00e1 novamente completo, a um n\u00edvel que nunca sonhou ser poss\u00edvel. Por isso, seja paciente agora, para encontrar algu\u00e9m que mere\u00e7a a sua alma gentil. Esse \u00e9 o amor que far\u00e1 a sua alma florescer para o resto da sua vida.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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