{"id":27350,"date":"2018-11-07T09:30:27","date_gmt":"2018-11-07T09:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27350"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:50","slug":"a-tragedia-de-o-ver-apaixonar-se-por-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-tragedia-de-o-ver-apaixonar-se-por-si\/","title":{"rendered":"A Trag\u00e9dia de V\u00ea-lo Apaixonar-se por Si"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you are in love, you are consumed by that feeling, and it is all you can think about. Even when you don\u2019t want to, you still find yourself daydreaming about him.<\/span><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 uma coisa engra\u00e7ada<\/span><\/i>. You don\u2019t really think you need it, but when you have it.. it consumes every fiber of your being, and you don\u2019t know how you could\u2019ve ever been without it. Your heart needs to feel his in order to keep beating. It\u2019s like fuel that is making your whole body function properly.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve lived without love for so long, you kind of get used to it, so much so that it feels like you can do this by yourself. You are perfectly fine being your own fuel and igniting your own spark. <\/span>At\u00e9 \u00e0quele dia.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Until the day you meet that special someone who makes you question how you ever could\u2019ve thought of doing this solo. Now, it seems unimaginable. Now, you have <\/span>ele<\/span><\/i>, and the thought of ever living without him feels like knives…<\/span><\/p>\n

When he isn\u2019t near, you yearn for his touch. Even if he had just left, you covet his closeness. All you want is his lips touching yours, and his body intertwined with yours. You love his scent more than anything, and when he isn\u2019t there, you lie in his bed, feeling like he\u2019s there and longing for his return… Life is so good it feels like a dream.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The universe has finally granted you with something so precious, and everyday feels like a fairytale that you get to relive every single morning when you wake up next to his face. The thought of it ending makes you physically sick and gets your gut churning\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

A PERDA DELE COME\u00c7A GRADUALMENTE.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, everything seems perfect…until suddenly, like changing seasons…a chilly breeze runs all over you and indicates an imminent change.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you wake up that day, everything seems normal at first glance, but then you look at him. You don\u2019t feel the instant warmth he exudes when your eyes meet, and he doesn\u2019t kiss you like every other morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel uneasy, but you tell yourself it\u2019s all your imagination. Everything is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like there is this weird wall between you all of a sudden, and he doesn\u2019t look at you the way he usually does. Something is missing, but you can\u2019t (or won\u2019t) quite figure it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You brush it off. It\u2019s just your mind playing tricks on you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

H\u00c1 UM VAZIO NO VOSSO CORA\u00c7\u00c3O.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"AYou are starting to feel hollow. Your heart feels like it\u2019s losing the most important thing it needs to keep beating.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever you do, you do it half-heartedly. You no longer feel like the main actor in the story of your life. You don\u2019t feel in control any longer.<\/span><\/p>\n

A maior parte do tempo, est\u00e1 \u00e0 beira das l\u00e1grimas. O vazio segue-o para onde quer que v\u00e1 e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 como escapar-lhe. Tens vergonha do quanto <\/span>anseiam pelo seu amor<\/i><\/b>. Precisa de se sentir pr\u00f3xima dele, mas ele parece estar <\/span>a fugir<\/span><\/a>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

O processo \u00e9 muito lento. As tuas feridas est\u00e3o a ficar mais profundas a cada dia que passa, e o vazio no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o come\u00e7a a doer fisicamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

ELE EST\u00c1 A FUGIR.<\/span><\/p>\n

Agora, pode realmente sentir a perda gradual do seu amor. Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em si. <\/span>It\u2019s almost palpable how much it hurts.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The sweet gentle kisses when he sees you are gone. The constant search for your hand to hold is gone. The tender embrace that leaves you so full of love and gratitude is gone. Any signs of affection that he used to display toward you are gone and forgotten\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Tenta ter amor por voc\u00eas os dois. Tenta mostrar-lhe afeto beijando-lhe os l\u00e1bios duas vezes mais. Seguras a m\u00e3o dele desesperadamente, esperando que o seu aperto seja suficientemente forte para te mostrar que ele ainda se preocupa...<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a fazer tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para que ele veja como est\u00e1 desesperada pelo seu toque.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

SENTE-SE COMPLETAMENTE SEM ESPERAN\u00c7A.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are beating yourself up, wondering how you could\u2019ve salvaged this. What could you possibly have done to not let him slip away from you completely?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sente-se <\/span>sem valor<\/span><\/a>. Deve haver algo de errado contigo. Como \u00e9 que ele se tornou t\u00e3o distante e esquivo se tudo o que fizeste foi dar-lhe o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o numa bandeja de prata?<\/span><\/p>\n

As l\u00e1grimas descem pelo teu rosto miser\u00e1vel enquanto tentas aceitar o facto de que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais nada que possas fazer. Finalmente, apercebes-te que realmente acabou e que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o se vai sentir melhor num futuro pr\u00f3ximo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Aquele que acreditavas ser o teu <\/span>para sempre<\/span><\/i> desapareceu lentamente da sua vida, tornando-a o mais dif\u00edcil poss\u00edvel com cada golpe subtil.<\/span><\/p>\n

A IDEIA DE VOLTAR A SER SOLTEIRO FAZ-NOS ESTREMECER.<\/span><\/p>\n

A ideia de voltar a passar por todos aqueles encontros do Tinder assusta-o. Ter de <\/span>abrir<\/span><\/a> to somebody again, after having your great love slip away so recently seems unbearable…<\/span><\/p>\n

De repente, \u00e9 atirada de novo para o mundo dos solteiros. Em vez de o ter \u00e0 sua espera debaixo de um cobertor no sof\u00e1 todas as noites, chega a casa e depara-se com um apartamento vazio. N\u00e3o consegue imaginar voltar a estar sozinha depois de ter vivido este amor profundo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Voltamos \u00e0 nossa vida antiga. As tuas velhas rotinas. Telefona \u00e0s suas raparigas. Desabafas. Come\u00e7a a aperceber-se de que, afinal, h\u00e1 esperan\u00e7a para si. Tens pessoas na tua vida que v\u00e3o fazer com que esta mudan\u00e7a repentina seja o mais f\u00e1cil poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vai ficar bem t\u00e3o cedo. Mas com o tempo, e rodeado por aqueles que ama, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a voltar a ser o que era.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And when you do, you are not going to let yourself dwell in the past of what could\u2019ve been. No. You are going to be grateful for the beautiful love story you had, but one that had to come to its end.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes que se ele fosse a pessoa certa para ti, nunca te teria escapado t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, continua a viver. Continuamos a trabalhar em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e deixamo-nos abrir \u00e0 possibilidade de um novo amor. Tudo pode acontecer quando se tem alguma f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio. E quando menos se espera, algo de belo acontece. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces aquela grande hist\u00f3ria de amor que n\u00e3o tem fim \u00e0 vista. Seja paciente e deixe-se curar. Coisas incr\u00edveis tendem a acontecer quando estamos menos preparados para elas. Nem todos os amores v\u00e3o doer tanto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deixa-te voltar a ser feliz e abre o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a coisas novas. Quando acreditas, <\/span>coisas m\u00e1gicas podem acontecer.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you are in love, you are consumed by that feeling, and it is all you can think about. Even when you don\u2019t want to, you still find yourself daydreaming about him. Love is a funny thing. You don\u2019t really think you need it, but when you have it.. it consumes every fiber of your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":27352,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/max-rovensky-562056-unsplash-1.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27350"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27350\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}