{"id":27360,"date":"2020-04-07T09:58:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T09:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27360"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:49:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:49:24","slug":"10-coisas-mais-comuns-que-ele-diz-quando-esta-a-manipular-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-mais-comuns-que-ele-diz-quando-esta-a-manipular-te\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Coisas Mais Comuns Que Ele Diz Se Est\u00e1 Te Manipulando"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. \u201cIt isn\u2019t a big deal.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Ele nunca percebe o motivo da confus\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1 chateada ou porque \u00e9 que as ac\u00e7\u00f5es dele a magoaram. Tudo o que lhe interessa \u00e9 aliviar-se da culpa de a ter tratado mal.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que ningu\u00e9m nos pode dizer como nos devemos sentir em determinados momentos. Se ele a magoou, devia p\u00f4r-se no seu lugar e pensar como se sentiria se as coisas fossem ao contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cYou are being too emotional.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Your relationship should make you feel comfortable enough to express your emotions; however, he fails to realize that he made you upset or sad. He doesn\u2019t want to see or hear you cry.<\/p>\n

Ele procura um culpado e tem prazer em ver as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es exageradas, em vez de encarar o facto de que ele \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o que a faz sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier than reassuring you that everything is OK, or – God forbid – apologize for something he has done.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cYou must have heard it wrong, I never said that.\u201d<\/h2>\n

He will basically make you question your sanity. He will deny his own words up to the point where you perhaps start to think \u201cMaybe I actually heard it wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n

No, there\u2019s nothing wrong with your hearing or your memory, you are simply emocionalmente exausto<\/a> and are letting things slide because you can\u2019t ponder over them forever.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a sua forma de manter o controlo sobre si e de distorcer a realidade. S\u00f3 piora com o tempo!<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhy can\u2019t you trust me for once?\u201d<\/h2>\n

If he is the sole cause and responsible for your trust issues, if he lied, cheated or betrayed you in any way, why is he so surprised that you don\u2019t trust him?<\/p>\n

Broken trust is not something that can be mended overnight. To be honest, it\u2019s difficult to ever repair it.<\/p>\n

But he is not working on gaining your trust. It\u2019s easier to shift the focus on you and your lack of trust, instead of putting in actual effort to prove and show you that he has changed.<\/p>\n

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5. \u201cIt seems like I can\u2019t do anything right.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Fazer-se de v\u00edtima \u00e9 uma das t\u00e1cticas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o mais comuns utilizadas pelas pessoas t\u00f3xicas. Elas sabem que \u00e9 emp\u00e1tico e que, mais cedo ou mais tarde, vai come\u00e7ar a sentir pena delas.<\/p>\n

Vai ouvir-se a pedir desculpa, mesmo quando sabe que tem raz\u00e3o, porque ele a fez sentir que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a ser razo\u00e1vel e a faz\u00ea-lo sentir-se mal.<\/p>\n

Nessas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, ele f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 sentir-se uma pessoa m\u00e1, enquanto ele \u00e9 inocente em tudo isto.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cYou did the same exact thing.\u201d<\/h2>\n

When he does something he knows he never should – texting his ex, saying that he had been some place when he hadn’t or lie, he will remember that offense is the best defense.<\/p>\n

Ele desempenhar\u00e1 um papel de jogo da culpa<\/a>. Ele vai recordar e amplificar todos os seus erros do passado.<\/p>\n

Ele vai equiparar o facto de o seu ex lhe desejar um feliz anivers\u00e1rio com o facto de ele ter enviado mensagens de texto \u00e0 ex durante meses, ou a sua mentira branca com algumas das suas mentiras not\u00f3rias.<\/p>\n

7. \u201cI didn\u2019t lie, I just didn\u2019t tell you. It must have slipped off my mind.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Withholding the truth, especially when it\u2019s something important is as good as telling lies.<\/p>\n

He will defend himself by telling you that he told you all about a particular thing, when you asked and for him, it wasn\u2019t so important and the matter slipped from his mind and so on.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is if he hasn’t told you something that directly affects your relationship, he is to blame. He will attempt to manipulate you into thinking he isn’t.<\/p>\n

8. \u201cI\u2019m going to bed.\u201d<\/h2>\n

He has no problem falling asleep during the middle of an argument. You might be upset, crying or asking him questions – but he doesn’t care!<\/p>\n

He knows very well that you won\u2019t be able to fall asleep and twill probably think about all that has happened during the entire night.<\/p>\n

You will be unable to function properly in the morning while he will be well-rested. He knows you won\u2019t be able to spend more energy to continue an argument and that things will, in all probability, be left unresolved permanently.<\/p>\n

O homem certo tranquiliz\u00e1-la-ia e encontraria uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para o seu problema, em vez de passar para o outro lado e mostrar apenas o qu\u00e3o pouco ele se importa contigo.<\/a><\/p>\n

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